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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 12:58:06 PM

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lol........it doesn't matter because i am 18 now.

[rolleyes]

you guys are so full of it.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 12:58:12 PM

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The very nature of this type of relationship necessitates honesty in a brutal manner unlike the world you live in. We expect ours to be fulfillingly honest about everything. How can an owner posses that which they do not understand. If my wife had in any been unforthright with honesty, there is no possible way I could know her and what she likes wants fears, the way I do know. This may seem trivial to you, being the selfish bitch you have shown yourself to be, But to those who actually want this life, It IS essential to know what pleases, and how, most often, even why. Knowing these things allows Heads to experiment with other effectors that obedients may never have thunk of.

Your pompous holier than thou, I don't care how what i do, affects any one but me, attitude, is exactly why these laws were enacted to protect those who want to live insanely by the grace of kink, and not pervert twist or otherwise bend the minds of UNDER 18 y/o, also known as MINORS, here after known as YOU, Before YOUR LIE became truth.

Now having threatened the ENTIRE site, and EVERY ONE ON IT, you want to come here and pick choose and condemn those that have been here, A. longer than you, B. LEGALLY.

You know that had you hooked up with any one on this site, THEY could have been arrested for Statutory rape, just cause some dumb fuck cunt thought she was smarter than the laws, and some one they knew was pissy at them. You put every one who saw your profile in jeopardy.

You are definitely a minor, still. Go play in the street or something.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 12:59:39 PM

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yes i lied about being one year younger on a website...and now i am currently the approriate age

i hold no integrity at all.

i'm such a very, bad person!!!!!

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:00:01 PM

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i know you guys are going to continuee to have a hissy fit etc...about this whole thing...

but in the end it doesn't matter because i am 18.

so in reality it doesn't matter as much as you guys WISH it DID... it DOESN'T

I can sympathize with the fact that, at 17, there is no genuine reason why the thirst for something BDSM related should not naturally happen in some people.

However, you have no ground on which to stand. You willfully committed perjury and, in blatant ignorance of what you've done, presume it's okay now that the act is over and done with.

Furthermore, to actually still have that mentality (even with the leniency you may get from people because of your age) does not make you attractive to anyone who would want a forthright and honest member in their community.

Your sole remaining option now is to seek out the administrators first, before they find you and plead, in as yielding and tactfully a way as possible, your case for violating their Terms of Service via a flat lie and hope they allow you to remain on the site.

Otherwise, even I (who would not immediately jump on the ethical presumption of whether chronological age actually measures anything up to a point) would be tempted to have this violation reported. Not because of your curiosity; not even because of your infraction, but because your attitude does not show any ability to be able to own up to the mistakes you've made and to realize the implications of them.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:00:04 PM

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The reason it is a big deal is that any man who met you through here could have been convicted of rape, because you were a minor. And therefore the website could be held as accessary to the crime.

Deciding that because you want something you have the right to put other people at risk is criminal.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:00:48 PM

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i know you guys are going to continuee to have a hissy fit etc...about this whole thing...

but in the end it doesn't matter because i am 18.

so in reality it doesn't matter as much as you guys WISH it DID... it DOESN'T

Young lady... as adults, and as someone who has worked in making sure pedifiles or pimps of young girls got what was coming to them, I take this seriously as do many others. Maybe when you grow up you will see the seriousness of what you did and might have a hissy fit about it... maybe when it is your daughter, nude in front of a cam with an adult male from a bdsm site. Until then your youth is showing still, your lack of awareness and consideration, your lack of understanding as a mature adult and all suggest at even eighteen, you are rather clueless and defensive, sarcastic in self justification.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:01:48 PM

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lol........it doesn't matter because i am 18 now.

See...this attitude is repulsive.

It will matter when you are no longer allowed access to this site because you violated the ToS.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:02:30 PM

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oh shush it... i didn't go out and meet anybody from this website till i was 18 because of legal matters.
i was on this site when i was 17 to learn...and learning about this subject is what i did.

sorry that it bothered you.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:03:51 PM

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You got naked on cam with an adult male. That was unlawful and could have ruined his life. Stop with the excuses.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:04:05 PM

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The fact that nobody fell for your jail bait is fortunate. It doesn't lessen the severity of what you've done.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:05:33 PM

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My attitude???
What am i suppose to bend over backwards saying sorry when i'm being attacked???

i do apologize if i put anybody in danger or disrespected anybody...it really was the least of my intentions i had no idea it was such a big deal.

but, i think how you guys are responding to it and attacking me... doesn't make you guys much holier either. i see i made a mistake.. i really can't do much to fix it except learn from it.

so i have to say sorry and move on..

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:07:51 PM

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so i have to say sorry and move on..

You don't get it, do you? You didn't just break a pinky promise to a friend. You committed numerous criminal acts (and potentially endangered a lot of people).

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:09:14 PM

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so i have to say sorry and move on..

You don't get it, do you? You didn't just break a pinky promise to a friend. You committed numerous criminal acts.

oh my god. what the fuck am i suppose to do ??????? i made a fucking mistake which i can't take back.

im going costume shopping with my friend. goodbye. lollll oh the internet.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:09:14 PM

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Making light of the mistakes we make is not a learning process... it is denial and justification. Had you not done that, we could maybe see you learning a lesson. All we see is a piss poor attitude about something very serious that could have shut us all down with this site going down and more bad press for adults doing what we do.

So don't mind us darlin... we find it and your attitude offensive.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:11:07 PM

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My attitude???
What am i suppose to bend over backwards saying sorry when i'm being attacked???

i do apologize if i put anybody in danger or disrespected anybody...it really was the least of my intentions i had no idea it was such a big deal.

but, i think how you guys are responding to it and attacking me... doesn't make you guys much holier either. i see i made a mistake.. i really can't do much to fix it except learn from it.

so i have to say sorry and move on..

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but, i think how you guys are responding to it

at what point does common perception sink in your blonde little head? If every one here is attacking you for something you did, you might at least have the decency to look at what you did and see what validity there might be in the severity of EVERY ONE's tirade about YOUR actions, rather than trying to deflect or dismiss your callousness.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:12:40 PM

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This thread is a perfect example of why these forums are a waste of time. A person asks a question, sincerely seeking feedback and the advice of others who may have the benefit of experience - and the forum police jump all over them to insult, belittle, judge, ridicule, lecture and generally act like rude idiots. I see it over and over again - I don't know why anyone would ever post a sincere question here. You should all be ashamed of yourselves.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:12:46 PM

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i hold no integrity at all.

That much is clear.

Too bad you still don't understand the and accept responsibility for your actions. Saying "I'm sorry" doesn't cut.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:14:23 PM

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Take your fat overweight ass, hick hillbilly hat and bite my @ss. Your a c@ck bite, it appears most of you on here are. I cant say any of you are worth squat except a few of the ladies.
Of being on here a month I've seen and met games players, losers, ugly's, senior citizens, and men with small brains and over inflated egos. You being one of them with your lazy cut and paste jobs.
Go jogging, get yourself into shape, how do you expect a sub to follow the lead of a undisciplined slob. DOM my @ss, you can't even take care of yourself. A joke.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:14:46 PM

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This thread is a perfect example of why these forums are a waste of time. A person asks a question, sincerely seeking feedback and the advice of others who may have the benefit of experience - and the forum police jump all over them to insult, belittle, judge, ridicule, lecture and generally act like rude idiots. I see it over and over again - I don't know why anyone would ever post a sincere question here. You should all be ashamed of yourselves.

Maybe you don't know the history of the op and if you think it is wrong to protect ourselves, this site and what we do because of unlawful actions and age of concent, then maybe your opinion might need to be rethought.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:15:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: STLDom48

This thread is a perfect example of why these forums are a waste of time. A person asks a question, sincerely seeking feedback and the advice of others who may have the benefit of experience - and the forum police jump all over them to insult, belittle, judge, ridicule, lecture and generally act like rude idiots. I see it over and over again - I don't know why anyone would ever post a sincere question here. You should all be ashamed of yourselves.

we should. Me personally, I am fucking disgusted. I was way too Nice.

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