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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 12:54:11 PM   
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Older women not being dominant - hmmm.  Never been accused of not being dominant before and I must be one of the older Dommes on here (65) lol.  Not looking for a very much younger play toy either.  This website works well for me!


The statistics I provided show that it's definitely a hunting field for women your age. Actually that's probably true for all women here.

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 12:56:16 PM   
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Az, we've already debated these issues with you.  We explained to you ages ago why you have your head up your arse.  You still have your head up your arse.  Why should we waste any more time explaining to you why you have your head up your arse when you refuse to get it out of there?


You seem to have no respect for the scientific method.

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 12:57:58 PM   
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This backs up my claim that most women who use this website are young, although there were more up to age 40 then I would have thought. I assume that's because pro dommes can do business over the age of 30, unlike regular prostitutes.


Are you saying that pro-dommes are "irregular" prostitutes?


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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 1:04:11 PM   
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AZ:  You are sooo right, we got it made (sometimes)  

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 1:07:48 PM   
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Congratulations!  You have discovered that more males than females are on internet dating sites.


The male/female ratio of online dating



That's a good link and it makes total sense. My theory is that collarme is even more skewed than most dating sites because women over 50 don't tend to be dommes. I probably didn't even know about domme women until I started getting on the internet in the 90's. It's definitely a generational thing.





You're leaving out a lot of factors.  Something a number of folks tend to do if they think it supports their argument.

  • You are completely discounting Dominant women who are not on the net.
  • You are not taking into consideration the Dommes in those age groups who are not looking.
  • You have no idea of how many Dommes out there have hidden profiles.
  • You are completely ignoring the switch factor.



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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 1:46:24 PM   
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You're leaving out a lot of factors.  Something a number of folks tend to do if they think it supports their argument.

  • You are completely discounting Dominant women who are not on the net.
  • You are not taking into consideration the Dommes in those age groups who are not looking.
  • You have no idea of how many Dommes out there have hidden profiles.
  • You are completely ignoring the switch factor.


I was limiting my study to collarme members, which may or not be representative of all the Dommes in the U.S. From what I have seen most older dommes aren't looking, or they want a sub that can support them in a 24/7 type relationship. I have no way of counting age groups who aren't looking, switches, and hidden profiles.

We also have to assume that lots of profiles are total fakes. I wouldn't be surprised if a large percentage of females on this site are males posing as dommes. There is no way to count those either.

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 1:51:12 PM   
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Are you saying that pro-dommes are "irregular" prostitutes?



By regular prostitutes I'm talking about the traditional arrangement where a man pays a woman for sex. Sometimes pro dommes don't do sex.

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 2:05:06 PM   
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Are you saying that pro-dommes are "irregular" prostitutes?



By regular prostitutes I'm talking about the traditional arrangement where a man pays a woman for sex. Sometimes pro dommes don't do sex.



Oh...I was just looking to do a study on the sales of Immodium AD and Milk of Magnesia to determine if indeed the claim that most pro-dommes are "irregular" was accurate. 


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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 2:06:59 PM   
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Az, we've already debated these issues with you.  We explained to you ages ago why you have your head up your arse.  You still have your head up your arse.  Why should we waste any more time explaining to you why you have your head up your arse when you refuse to get it out of there?


You seem to have no respect for the scientific method.



No, I have no respect for married men who attempt to cheat on their wives, and then try to use science to explain why they aren't having any luck, simply because the women they encounter aren't willing to be partners in a deception.  The problem isn't using a scientific method, it's the faulty hypotheses that underlie it.

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 2:18:51 PM   
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You are not taking into consideration the Dommes in those age groups who are not looking.


Good points, LadyPact.

I suspect that after people exit their young adulthood, many of us have evolved a fair idea of what we want in terms of a partner, and many of us have settled down into stable, long-term relationships.

And, since some people regard CM as primarily a hook-up or dating site, I'm going to guess that some dommes in committed relationships may not frequent sites like these simply because they are in LTR's and are not looking.




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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 2:27:45 PM   
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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 4:18:44 PM   
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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/4/2009 4:29:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi group. I am an "old sub" but have many years left in me . it is all about attitude. I love to serve Dommes of any age and am very very openminded and kinky

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/5/2009 4:57:22 PM   
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Oh...I was just looking to do a study on the sales of Immodium AD and Milk of Magnesia to determine if indeed the claim that most pro-dommes are "irregular" was accurate. 



Hmmmmm. I guess as we get older that's a big factor. Excuse me for cutting this message short, but I need to go drink my high fiber regularity drink.

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RE: Where do old subs go? - 11/5/2009 6:26:15 PM   
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There seems to be nothing here for older subs, Dommes over sixty set age limits at 21 - 35, they won't even respond to an email.  Most pro dommes act the same way.  A lot is written here about the shallowness and selfishness of subs, I suggest they take a look at their own behavior. 

Does anyone know of a site like 'BDSM for the elderly' or maybe folks over 55 should just take up a new hobby.



My main advice is 'Attitude is everything.' I catch the whiff of a very negative attitude towards people you don't even know, and I'll bet you money that that sort of thing shows up loud and clear to the women you are contacting.

If you aren't having any luck online, then get off your butt and get involved in your local community or start one. I've met many interesting, friendly, and *older* people by just getting off my ass and getting out into the public.


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