MissAsylum
Posts: 1863
Joined: 1/9/2009 Status: offline
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as stated in the subject, i'm a mistress and, dispite my age, have been in the BDSM scene for quite a few years. to make absolutely sure i was a domme, even though i have been dominate since i could interact with others, i tried to play submissive in a relationship. it didn't last long since i was lying to myself about my role in a relationship. i haven't looked back since. anyway, lately,(or since i joined collarme last year) i have been approached in some of the most disgusting, degrading, and overall foul ways that i could imagine by male doms. even though it says DOMINATE in my profile, all of us have encountered fakes and liars, so i don't completely fault them. but when i tell these doms “i'm happy in my position, so i have to say no to us getting together in that way, but thanks for your interest and good luck!”, i am disrespected and bitched at by those trying to “help” me realized my true self. i have even had to block certain people and had to go so far as to report them for threats and harassment. i dont think all of you are evil (lol), but i'm not really understanding whats going on here. can somebody shed some thoughtful and helpful insight? seriously, those of you who are legit are getting a bad rep because of these people.
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