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RE: training - 12/27/2009 3:28:04 PM

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bbq too?

you're getting better and better

wanna see my dolcett collection?

No. I'd like to see just one intelligent and well thought out response from you as opposed to your usual glib responses which dodge serious questions.

Anne

so far i've seen few serious inquiries

so far, i've seen a lot of people on this site looking for reasons to something that has no reasons, it just is, do something about it and enjoy it

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RE: training - 12/27/2009 3:31:13 PM

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so far i've seen few serious inquiries

I can assure you, my previous question to you on this thread was quite serious. I'll repeat it again for you. Maybe you'll think on it and give me an honest response now that you've had time to think on it...

As I said, are you planning on telling her what to do first, or is the whole goal of your search for a sub to find one who will agree to be your personal punching bag, and upon reaching that agreement, beginning a daily regimen of wailing on her like a crazed gorilla?

Anne

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RE: training - 12/27/2009 3:35:12 PM

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so far i've seen few serious inquiries

I can assure you, my previous question to you on this thread was quite serious. I'll repeat it again for you. Maybe you'll think on it and give me an honest response now that you've had time to think on it...

As I said, are you planning on telling her what to do first, or is the whole goal of your search for a sub to find one who will agree to be your personal punching bag, and upon reaching that agreement, beginning a daily regimen of wailing on her like a crazed gorilla?

Anne

ok serious answer

when i meet someone i feel is a match then i'll tell her more, till then i'm not broadcasting details

there is enough in my profile and essay to give a clue

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RE: training - 12/27/2009 9:09:30 PM

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ok serious answer

when i meet someone i feel is a match then i'll tell her more, till then i'm not broadcasting details

there is enough in my profile and essay to give a clue

And until you go into details, very few people are going to take you seriously and continue assuming that you are a troll. I doubt that bothers you though.

Anne

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RE: training - 12/30/2009 7:08:47 PM

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It all depends upon whether one wants to program a robot, or assist somebody in their personal growth which includes expanded awareness and openness to sharing more of their heart.

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RE: training - 12/31/2009 9:55:39 AM

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It finally come to me, the words I was searching for, conditioning and habituation, I know they don’t sound all fuzzy warm and sexy, but they do in my opinion describe what is happening

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RE: training - 1/4/2010 7:59:49 AM

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GUIDE...LEAD..MOTIVATE..TEACH

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RE: training - 1/4/2010 5:08:15 PM

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can we come up with a different concept than train/training?

teach/coach/assist/

or just simply communicate ones preferences to another.

What an awesome idea and from my own experience it works very well.

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RE: training - 1/5/2010 3:55:06 AM

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Manipulate
... sadly the word has a bad name... 'cos it is mostly associated with underhand subs

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RE: training - 1/5/2010 7:26:30 AM

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..... and from my own experience it works very well.

From my experience as well... but unfortunately... many people allow their ego's and/or insecurities to get in the road and complicate something that is otherwise very simple in reality.

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RE: training - 1/5/2010 9:26:01 AM

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This is very true, no two Dominants are the same and we each have different needs. Just as there are no two like slaves. I like the word training, it just fits.

Aramis

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As are many of us who can do the same. That said, many Doms have specific ways they like things to be done, and a submissive who chooses to serve them may be expected to do things the way the Dom prefers.

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RE: training - 1/5/2010 9:39:03 PM

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He never called it training. i was guided, educated and led into the life we live.

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RE: training - 1/10/2010 8:51:51 AM

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what do you mean you do not train people.?! people get trained every day in all walks of life. training a slave is no different. what kind of concept are you trying to suggest in this? how do you expect someone to follow orders if this person is not trained properly?

what kind of concept? wishing? praying? thesaurus?

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RE: training - 1/13/2010 7:32:21 AM

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why do people continue to think they need to change traditions and what names and titles come along witht the specific app.

why does red need to be changed to blue?
why does left need to be changed to right?

this isnt a high school romance, this is M/s. slaves are to be of use to its master, slaves are trained to its masters needs.

why do people have this childish need to change the terms of use within our lifestyle. ?

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RE: training - 1/13/2010 7:39:53 AM

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this isnt a high school romance, this is M/s. slaves are to be of use to its master, slaves are trained to its masters needs.

why do people have this childish need to change the terms of use within our lifestyle. ?

Why do these childish people come along and tell others how to run their relationships and their lives? Why do they bang on about realness and trueness as a way to belittle (when really it just comes off as bitterness based in an inability to get ones dick wet)

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RE: training - 1/13/2010 8:36:26 AM

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i dont know why people do that either. i have noticed how people try to belittle others on this forum.

i think its cute when my 5 year old nephew wonder why apples are not oranges

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RE: training - 1/15/2010 7:42:43 AM

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i dont have a problem getting my dick wet, its keeping it dry that is the problem

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RE: training - 1/15/2010 7:50:39 AM

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why do people continue to think they need to change traditions and what names and titles come along witht the specific app.

why does red need to be changed to blue?
why does left need to be changed to right?

this isnt a high school romance, this is M/s. slaves are to be of use to its master, slaves are trained to its masters needs.

why do people have this childish need to change the terms of use within our lifestyle. ?

And if the master wants a high school romance, who are you to tell him his kink isn't valid? I mean maybe he wants his slave to dress up like the prom queen and he is the prom king... their kink is not my kink but their kink is okay...

You seem to be fixated entirely too much on what other people want to do, where they write, how they live, what comes out of their pie holes... I wonder why you care what other people do and just stick to your own S-type and their behavior, because you can't control a forum full of people... period, end of story

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RE: training - 1/15/2010 8:29:14 AM

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i dont care of he wants a HS romance. i could care less, teacher/ teachers pet, great scene, coach/athelete, even better. what i asked and have been asking, is why do people feel the need to redefine words? the OP wants to change something that does not need changing. look the word up in the dictionary.

go ahead, tell your neighbor your cat is actually a dog, you will look the fool not me.

i am not trying to control anyone. but saying you want to change the meaning of a word is just childish. say your boss wants you to train someone at work. are you going to argue the word "train" with your boss? well boss,,,, i dont really like using that word.... its kind of offensive........i would rather make up my own word for it. let me go to the breakroom and think of something better.

could you imagine going to the post office without those people being trained for their job?! what a fucking mess that would be. or maybe you want to have a new furnace installed, i bet you want that person to have been trained properly, huh? or maybe go to the dentist. you really want someone without training fixing your teeth, digging around in your mouth? why the shame in the word? as a tattoo artist i was properly trained as an apprentice to do the job as a professional. i was also trained in blood borne pathogens as part of state requirements for body art facilities. training is part of everyday life for most everyone alive..

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RE: training - 1/15/2010 8:38:41 AM

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People change the meanings of words all the time. It annoys me sometimes too, but language is always evolving. I appreciate the conscious conversation about what people mean in what terms they use rather than just interjecting a word believing everyone has the same concept on what a terms means... because that is rarely true in this world

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