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eagersubpdx -> RE: training (1/21/2010 7:48:44 PM)
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
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I have to say that I agree. You train your animals, you don't train people.
I disagree. When in a new job, there is usually training or on the job training, and I don't really see this as being that much different.
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I am highly self sufficient. I know how to cook, clean, etc. I know how to fix a good number of things in my house and how to take care of myself.
As are many of us who can do the same. That said, many Doms have specific ways they like things to be done, and a submissive who chooses to serve them may be expected to do things the way the Dom prefers. The specifics require instruction. In this, it is much like the training one would get for a new job, so the word, for me, is accurate.
I agree, I can do anything any other woman can do. I can solve problems and analyze situations, balance a check book, repair a hole in a wall, refinish floors, tile a shower, wall or floor, do algebra, cook delicious meals. However, my purpose is to serve Him and please Him. He trains me to be exactly what he wants. He trains me to kneel the way he wants, to speak the way he wants, to do everything exactly the way he wants me to. Training is not a bad word, it's not a taboo. Training occurs at work, with children, with pets, with wood and bonsai trees, and with submissive and slaves. Plain and simple. To say that using the word training is demeaning is like saying children are like dogs because they both get trained. Just because they use the same word does not make them similar to anything else.
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