kyraofMists
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Her husband is hospitalized, does she come to a play party with you if it was scheduled and you really wanted to go? Thats one of the reasons I couldnt be in a multiple relationship, who takes priority? Who gets part of you and which part? And if the situation were reversed, say I was the single one and my partner had other people he was committed too...would I be happy accepting a part of him? Would I be happy knowing I was second on the priority list? Like if I really needed him but he had to go on a barbeque with his wife and kids...ugh..fuck that *grin* Its just too confusing and entirely too ....split. The way it works in our relationship, whoever has the greatest need in that moment, then it is his will that they would come first. Whether it is alandra, the little ones, parents, me, work... I do not view it as getting part of him. I get all of him that he is able to give in that moment. But then again, I am part of the family so I would be at the family BBQ... eyes glazed over as I stare at the metal grill brush.... LOL Knight's kyra
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"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus
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