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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:09:19 PM

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what is the time line of this relationship?
how long before you two became a couple?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:13:23 PM

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for future reference this will obviously be asked at the first meeting!

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:14:26 PM

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Instead why not just talk and get to know someone over time instead of just jumping in without knowing the person?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:15:17 PM

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To the OP:
I'm in Chicago - bring that sweet muff down here and I'll eat it like there's no tomorrow! :p

But seriously, a guy who won't go down on his woman? Must be something wrong with HIM, not you!

But that's just my opinion, I could be wrong (but I don't think I am).

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:15:19 PM

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You can always wear this shirt the next time you meet with someone.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:18:44 PM

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I agree with many that have posted. It's not a s/m d/s thing at all.

If you went into the relationship knowing he wouldn't do it, you're responsible for it not happening just as much as he. I will say, when Sir and I began seeing each other we did discussed my desires, hard limits, and my interests. Was oral discussed? Yes, but He is lucky

although I enjoy being on the receiving end, I much rather give to Him.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:19:07 PM

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Using fast reply.

I do feel for you. It seems that you have found an area of incompatibility. One that I would highly recommend that the two of you sit down and find a way to talk about.

Being a Dominant woman, My solution wouldn't work for you in the area of oral sex. I tell My boy to provide it if I want it. If I want to give oral sex, I do it because I want to.

It's one of the perks of being in charge.

Grins @ "perks"...... Indeed Lady P.... I love being forced to do it.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:22:52 PM

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for future reference this will obviously be asked at the first meeting!

I appreciate you making sure that your needs will be met, but this made me laugh. Just having a visual moment of you having a nice dinner with someone, sipping on some wine, looking over the candles on the table and saying, "You better like eating pussy buddy, or I'm outta here."

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:25:27 PM

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for future reference this will obviously be asked at the first meeting!

I appreciate you making sure that your needs will be met, but this made me laugh. Just having a visual moment of you having a nice dinner with someone, sipping on some wine, looking over the candles on the table and saying, "You better like eating pussy buddy, or I'm outta here."

LOL...Yeah, i was thinking..."Could you pass the salt, By the way, do you eat pussy?"

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:25:36 PM

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You can always wear this shirt the next time you meet with someone.

That's cute. I was at a BDSM festival recently and a woman had on a tank top emblazoned with "I'm looking for a man who eats pussy like a fat boy eats cake."

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:32:18 PM

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fast reply-

I am one of those who enjoys eating it very much, to where I consider it almost a selfish pleasure on my part. But I also know there are some men who don't, and that's their kink.

As the opposite side of the coin to the ones asking, "are you willing to lose the relationship over it", I would ask, "is he?"

I can understand people hating something like anal which can be painful and unpleasant, or toilet play, or some of the extremes play that goes on. But cunnilingus is so common, so unextraordinary, I would have to wonder at a man who would make it so big an obstacle.

I wonder, for instance, what other things that might be unpleasant to him- changing diapers, going to visit mom-in-law, etc. that would suddenly be declared "Vanilla! Hard Limit!"

Dominant or no, there is nothing wrong with being obliging for the sake of pleasing your mate.

And for fuck's sake, this is pussy we are talking about, not rhinocerous ass. Whats not to like?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:34:35 PM

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what is the time line of this relationship?
how long before you two became a couple?

it is like a relationship to me as not normal as it may be..it's Daddy/little girl and we are friends. Because of the distance and time constraints we email often. We go out for drinks and dinner when we meet up before we go behind closed doors. We talk about our lives, things that are happening...stuff. I'm His little girl. I look up to him like a Father Figure...

and I really care about him completely.

yes i probably should have asked about this right away...i just assumed. I've never been with a man who hasn't done it or liked doing it.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:35:45 PM

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for future reference this will obviously be asked at the first meeting!

I appreciate you making sure that your needs will be met, but this made me laugh. Just having a visual moment of you having a nice dinner with someone, sipping on some wine, looking over the candles on the table and saying, "You better like eating pussy buddy, or I'm outta here."

lmao...yea for sure but not so forcefully said! ha

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:35:52 PM

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And for fuck's sake, this is pussy we are talking about, not rhinocerous ass.

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oh sweet jeeeeebus AR I really didnt need that bloody visual
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LMAO

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:36:43 PM

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what is the time line of this relationship?
how long before you two became a couple?

it is like a relationship to me as not normal as it may be..it's Daddy/little girl and we are friends. Because of the distance and time constraints we email often. We go out for drinks and dinner when we meet up before we go behind closed doors. We talk about our lives, things that are happening...stuff. I'm His little girl. I look up to him like a Father Figure...

and I really care about him completely.

yes i probably should have asked about this right away...i just assumed. I've never been with a man who hasn't done it or liked doing it.

did you read my first journal post?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:39:32 PM

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And for fuck's sake, this is pussy we are talking about, not rhinocerous ass.

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oh sweet jeeeeebus AR I really didnt need that bloody visual
GAG
LMAO

That's sick. As if rhinoceros ass wasn't bad enough, you felt compelled to turn it into bloody rhinoceros ass? I have no idea if you were trying to mix in cutting or menstruation into this sick fantasy, but that's far beyond the nausea threshold. Pervert.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:42:20 PM

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And for fuck's sake, this is pussy we are talking about, not rhinocerous ass. Whats not to like?

Are you trying to turn this into a fat thread???

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:55:48 PM

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*takes note of all the men who are willing to and enjoy eating pussy*

Say is anyone else getting hot just reading this thread?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 5:56:10 PM

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Do people really sit down and discuss this? I know I never have when starting a relationship.

I don't but if it's a make or break issue (like it seems to be for the OP "I don't know how to go on...for me it's not complete unless i get this sometimes..." ) then she damned well better bring it up sooner than later and she better have a razor handy.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/8/2010 6:09:40 PM

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this question is for any D/s relationship with strong s&m tendancies.
for me, some vanilla in a D/s relationship is needed. very much so. I want to see my Dominant is all encompassing in fulfilling my needs, submissive and sexual. I cannot divide that man in half. So I want to know for all you sub ladies out there how many of you get this desire fulfilled. For me, being eaten is very important. It means a lot. Its a compliment. Huge. I know it's a vanilla act. My Dominant wont do it and i am struggling with that. Ive tried in every submissive way to express it's importance to me. He can give it anyway and under any condition and I look and smell good. I'm not deformed. lol yet this is making me feel insecure because he won't go there. He says it's not part of our interaction. To quote: "As I've explained, the dynamic of D/s, for me, reveals itself in different ways sexually. We are not vanilla sexually. We are vanilla outside of the room." In every way else he pleases me but at this point i am very hurt. I don't know how to go on...for me it's not complete unless i get this sometimes...I don't feel cared for. Or appreciated. i don't think i'm asking for a lot...i'm so lost....so i just got to know if what i desire, beyond, whips and paddles and ropes is normal for anyone else.....

You've probably been told this already, but here's my take.
I love oral sex in all its forms. I don't identify as submissive. I don't see oral sex as a vanilla act, nor is it dominant or submissive to give or receive oral sex. It's a matter between you and him. If you think you need it, and he won't let you have it, then perhaps you aren't meant to be?

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