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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 4:49:24 AM   
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like i said none of you really have any interest in the subject because if you did you would have at least something interesting to say on the subject itself but like i said in my earlier post only the ones that have no interest in the subject in hand tend to post the negitive on it and if your sick of the same old topic why even reply at all i asked was how many WERE into it not who wasn't but of course you just prove my point if your not into it then maybe you should just move on reply to the subjects you are into not the ones your sick of i just wanted to hear from some that were into it thats not that hard of a question,if you had of asked me maybe you would of found out that i was forced at one time into it and that now i do like it because if you are a good sub and do as your mistress tells you yes after awell it does become fun

Let's explain something about an open forum.

Once you have asked an original question, anyone may reply to it.  That includes who likes the subject, doesn't like it, agrees, or disagrees.  Truthfully, you asked a question that couldn't possibly be answered.  You asked how many Dommes enjoyed doing it.  There is no possible way for us to say of the 1,256,492 Dominant women on the site 412,615 enjoy some form of feminization and of those 116,841 enjoy turning them into female bitches.  There are no statistics to base an answer to your question and that's why you got the answers that you did.

Even if you had asked a question that was possible to answer, such as how many forum participants here enjoy forced femme, you still would have gotten various answers.  All the way from interest in the activity, to no interest in the activity, and everything inbetween.  You'd have even gotten answers that may have included that they were only interested in it with their own sub, but aren't just looking to do it with just anyone because the participants here aren't on this board solely to cater to your fetish.  I'll bet even some would say that it's a beautiful expression between partners and the female bitches part was nothing like what they enjoy in their dynamic.

So, since you feel you've proven your point, allow Me to point out something to you.  None of us here is going to 'move along' just because you've decided to tell us to.  As one of the regular participants on this board, I'm here to tell you that you are absolutely not in charge of where I reply and where I don't.  When you get that kind of power, please feel free to try to exercise it.  Until then, you're (and it is spelled you're, not your as you did a few times) just going to have to deal with the answers that you receive.


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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 6:48:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: dirtydiane
like i said none of you really have any interest in the subject because if you did you would have at least something interesting to say on the subject itself but like i said in my earlier post only the ones that have no interest in the subject in hand tend to post the negitive on it and if your sick of the same old topic why even reply at all i asked was how many WERE into it not who wasn't but of course you just prove my point if your not into it then maybe you should just move on reply to the subjects you are into not the ones your sick of i just wanted to hear from some that were into it thats not that hard of a question,if you had of asked me maybe you would of found out that i was forced at one time into it and that now i do like it because if you are a good sub and do as your mistress tells you yes after awell it does become fun


To be blunt, I would consider going to any lengths, including hormonal alterations & supplements, to "force" at least one damn 'period' on you.

But somehow I think it'd be an exercise in futility.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 7:03:07 AM   
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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 7:08:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Being an intuitive and perceptive sort of man, Kim, I'm surmising that you prefer to read posts that are written with good grammar and punctuation?


Wrong kind of 'period' there P.  Cheeky monkey...


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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 7:15:49 AM   
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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 7:57:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think as with any line you have to expect a "click" Ive seen it since I started coming to this site. it amazes me that there are people trying to tell you to search and How to search!I myself have found it much easier to just say what I have to say about the topic and not try to make the person that brought up the topic feel like this isnt the place to bring it up,after all isnt this site a seach too?In answer to your question I dont go to that extreme but i Fem all my boys and make them go into the public at least once!

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 8:30:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna

I think as with any line you have to expect a "click" Ive seen it since I started coming to this site. it amazes me that there are people trying to tell you to search and How to search!I myself have found it much easier to just say what I have to say about the topic and not try to make the person that brought up the topic feel like this isnt the place to bring it up,after all isnt this site a seach too?In answer to your question I dont go to that extreme but i Fem all my boys and make them go into the public at least once!


Well and you make a fair point.  But I think the regulars here are a bit jaded because the majority of these posts are not about seeking "relationship".  Instead, they take on a quality of viewing a Domme as a fetish delivery device for a single kink.  Little chance of receiving a positive response, let alone finding someone who will do -anything- with you...and an almost zero chance of actually realizing the fantasy. 

So you get varied responses from scorn to advice.  I tend to try to advise, advocating that they consider a more balanced approach.  Being transgendered, and having been through a similar path myself, I have a perspective, and I share it.

Open forums will get many and varied opinions and approaches.


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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 8:52:02 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		The click around here... that in itself is a very interesting topic. I'm going to tell you something I learned about the click around here. I came here a few years ago and knew only one person. My submissive. I posted and sometimes people would comment, but most of the time they did not. On very serious post's directed to one person, they responded and even emailed me a number of times. But for the most part it seemed I went un-noticed by people who had lots of little paddles next to their name and to those very active on the boards. They weren't mean or too nice.

I saw all these people and 'I' thought they were all friends. Some were and some I found out later on... were not! People I thought then were very popular, I found later were hardly known at all to people and were just active on the boards and said things that some responded to because of the topic. Period.

I learned that how I perceived things was more what it was all about rather than anything else. Yes, there are groups of friends here, but they typically welcome most other's to join their group of friends. Some may seem popular simply becasue they have been around a long time and the new person coming in assumes they are part of the 'click'.

Now, as for smart ass comment's... comments coming from impatience... comments coming from a sadistic humorous place... comments being straightforward... a trollish or self focus post may get played with and all the other things you will find in this place... I think some of that is just a public message board and how it is. Some of it is how the person presents themself and if they thoughtlessly posted... they have left themselves open for more play type responses because they didn't present well. They came off just like hundreds of other poster's who without depth, without personality, without real substance or even questions, came and expected everyone to join them in their lackluster kinky focus.

Who says we have to coddle the poor innocent who comes in and writes out a post that even as a fifth grader would deemed inferior? Who says becasue we might share a kinky activity that we have to treat someone a certain way when quite frankly... the poster hasn't a clue about what they are saying? Are we teachers of kink and must take all these lost one's under our wing and say... mentor them?

I used to teach my children things that they would see in the big bad world out there. If they walked up to someone on the street and hit them... most likely that someone would hit them back or call the police. There are responses to what we do and every child must learn that in society... the good and the bad will be found and if they haven't learned how to handle that society... they are going to have problems. I think that at any age... learning a lesson in how to function without getting your ass beat up is a good thing.

Are some responses deemed okay by society? Are some bad? Yes... but it is what it is and we as adults need to handle that. If I am stupid about something, I expect to get my ass beat over it and I have had my ass beat.. to the tune of fifteen pages! It wasn't that I was really stupid, but it was seen as stupid. I still feel okay about what I did... but I learned that other's didn't think it was okay. And some of those that 'got' me on those fifteen pages... who were really cruel and saw only one aspect of what was happening... are some of my favorite posters in other threads.

It is what it is... but that click thing... may not be what you think it is. For message boards... I have seen far worse and I wouldn't be a part of them. One who might be seen as the most snarky poster can open their heart and be right beside you in a moment of painfull challenge. One who jokes and half the board members seem to joke with them... my have only a few real friends here. It is what it is. If you need to coddle people even when they have come in rather clueless... go for it. I have done that to some degree and most the time have been sorry I did because they became in their mind... my new best friend and that clueless was in my email box a number of times a day or thinking I was all hot for them. I don't have that much time.

Would it be nice if everyone was nice and held one another's hand through our kinky travels and all was like the Turman Show movie... NO! I can think of nothing more boring... more stunting and filled with lacks! I want life stimulating, out of the box and challenging so I can get the most out of it! Pink colored glasses have only one place in my world... on my face when I have a headache.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 10:46:45 AM   
MsHValentine


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ORIGINAL: dirtydiane

how many mistresses like to really make guys into there female bitches not only dressing them up but to the point of hormones and really making them live as a women


If they're strong enough to emulate a real Female Bitch, excellent. Though I worry whether the hormones are really necessary? I hear they increase the risks of some cancers significantly.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 10:53:11 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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IF IT is a fantasy then play it out yourself...try it in bits..maybe panties under your jeans..stockings..
then maybe a nice littel undrshirt with a bow..
There are many many threads under search here about it..
and as for me..it is NOT A HUMILATION thing..
I have been with men to which it is an HONOR to dress as and be a woman..
to eb with them as they balance their yin and yang...exploreing and having fun..
 
also: BITCH..
comes from the GODDESS DIANA...the GREAT BITCH...always seen with hunting dogs..the children of her temple Priestesses were sons of bitches..
 
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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 11:27:44 AM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

But I think the regulars here are a bit jaded because the majority of these posts are not about seeking "relationship".  Instead, they take on a quality of viewing a Domme as a fetish delivery device for a single kink. 



Indeed, yes.  For me, it's partly the sense that we're being played, that a poster thinks we're too stupid to know when he's trawling for wank fodder or trying to get women to look at his profile.  If people would just come out and say, "I'm looking for wank fodder," I'd be fine with that.  It leaves me the choice of whether to participate, but this backhanded type of post in the "my mistress asked me to research (insert favourite kink here)" vein does not put me into a good frame of mind for answering, as I do not like being manipulated. 

If people really wanted information, they'd be grateful for the suggestion of using the search function, given they'd find a goldmine of info posted in the past.  Your stellar posts on the topic at hand are a prime example. 

I know some of the troll-for-wank-fodderists think we're a mean bunch, but really, it all comes down to good manners.  They show up on these boards with a first post of It's All About My Kink and I Want You to Pander to It, then they tell you to move along if they don't get what they want.  If men walked into a bar and started talking about their deepest fantasies to a complete stranger, they probably wouldn't be too surprised if they got a drink dumped over themselves.  Why they are surprised when they get the equivalent here never fails to amaze me.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 11:42:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Ten... as of last week.

There's actually only one.  The other nine were men pretending to be women.

~stef



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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 11:44:18 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Oh why waste a good drink... just speak loudly... yes sweetie... I will put you in a pretty pink dress and let you use my make up!

Or... you want a blow job? Hey, hey bartender... this guy wants a blow job... make two... I might like one too.

Can you tell I spent a lot of time in bar's fending off strange request's?

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 12:04:12 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

You must be in touch with your female side enough to be able to own your kink, embrace what you want, and in effect, be willing to 'feminize yourself'.  Otherwise, it just becomes all about you and your single kink. 

Your being girlie must be but one component in the rich tapestry of a BDSM relationship.  Otherwise you are simply a one-trick-pony and the Lady is left asking "What's in it for me?".  You must be about Her first, and your own kink second or third.

You willingly meet her needs, and She in turn meets your needs.  Your being girlie is indeed important, but it is just one aspect in this sort of relationship and it can not, indeed -must- not, usurp the dynamic.



And this is why I love Otter's posts.  Props to him.
 
I'm not particularly interested in feminization or cross-dressing.  In a majority of cases, I find those who are to be narcissistic to the point of being repulsive.  However, for someone like Otter, who not only embraces his kink but does so in a positive, healthy fashion and not at the expense of his Lady's mutual enjoyment, I would be open to the idea.  It's not my kink and I wouldn't really get anything out of it except the enjoyment of seeing my partner happy.  But, with the right person, that's enough.
 
OP, I strongly encourage you to read Otter's post and then go back and read it again, as many times as it takes for it to sink in and become an intrinsic part of your psychology.  You'll have much greater success, both on the boards and in finding a compatible partner.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 12:08:56 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Oh why waste a good drink... just speak loudly... yes sweetie... I will put you in a pretty pink dress and let you use my make up!

Or... you want a blow job? Hey, hey bartender... this guy wants a blow job... make two... I might like one too.

Can you tell I spent a lot of time in bar's fending off strange request's?


All right, that does it.  I'm never going drinking with you.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 12:19:14 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL... That's what my best friend said after every time we went out. But who was the first person she called when she wanted to go out? Me...

Lockit you always get us into trouble!

No... those guys get themselves into trouble by acting stupid and expecting us to fuck them because we dare to be in a bar having a drink. So if you are scared and just want to be nice with them, do you want to give them what they want? And why is it you always ask me to go out if  you think I am so bad?

Because it's so much fun.

Bitch... lol



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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 12:54:20 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Bitch... lol



I hope you were referring to me.  No one has said anything that nice to me all day.  I did get called "sweetie," but it's not really the same thing, is it? 

Lockit, if you're like this when you're sober, I can only imagine what you're like when you're a bit lubricated.

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 1:04:26 PM   
Lockit


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If you wanna own the bitch thing... yup, yup... it was meant for you baby!

Hey! I'm me liquired up or not! Lubricated is another story!

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 5:36:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Ten... as of last week.


Not 7?

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RE: forced femizition - 1/9/2010 5:48:30 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix



Another forced fem thread? This must be number 3,285. Can't people come up with anything original? And just when I thought it was safe to come back to the boards, too. Sigh.


Yeah, what about a "forced to endure drinking beer" thread for a change.

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