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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:25:20 PM

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seems wanting a woman that actually obeys is a heinous crime on this site

i mean real dominance and submission, what am i thinking

i have no idea what the rest of you are into, but the idea that any may want real submissions seems to scare the shit out of you

i have talked to a few women that want to obey, but they avoid the boards because of this narrow minded fear of anything d/s

i keep hearing from all these wonderful relationship committed submissive women but have yet to hear from some of their "dominants"

they either don't exist or are too pussy whipped to make an appearance

hey, there is a real d/s and some people actually practice it

i've had it and i want it again, pssst it really exists

i look at some of the inane titles that pass for d/s discourse and laugh and they are taken all so seriously

rant over for now

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:25:43 PM

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You'd have to ask Him, of course.

But I think the benefits make up for any negatives; well, at least for Him they do.

He spoils His bratty lil sub, and He gets rewarded for it, in many ways.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:28:42 PM

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domi ever live on a farm?

I have been on a farm. Spent some time there. Never thought that tenniboots were really appropriate wear.

I usually would wear some sort of a shoe that offered more protection...Something akin to Columbia footwear.

They had laces.

You say your a dom but your velcro screams sub.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:28:50 PM

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and i bet some of the rewards will never be seen in a nilla relationship

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:30:07 PM

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knowing how high maintenance a submissive is, why would any man prefer one to the average woman?

A common misconception by the uniformed and Inexperienced that a submissive person equates to a high Maintenance person. The two need not exist together but on occassion they do ....

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:31:03 PM

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domi ever live on a farm?

I have been on a farm. Spent some time there. Never thought that tenniboots were really appropriate wear.

I usually would wear some sort of a shoe that offered more protection...Something akin to Columbia footwear.

They had laces.

You say your a dom but your velcro screams sub.

shoes that slip on make it easier and faster to go in and out of the house

they are imminently practical and as the goose and the horses dont mind i dont mind

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:32:02 PM

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A common misconception by the uniformed and Inexperienced that a submissive person equates to a high Maintenance person. The two need not exist together but on occassion they do ....

yes some do, and those some require a lot

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:34:08 PM

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there's a whole national origination devoted to the type of d/s i want

its called mast it's on the web

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:35:37 PM

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A common misconception by the uniformed and Inexperienced that a submissive person equates to a high Maintenance person. The two need not exist together but on occassion they do ....

yes some do, and those some require a lot

some require alot and some do not.... you continue to show your lack of knowledged despite your claims otherwise....

You make some Stupid generalization that submissive women are high maintenance and you show complete lack of character in your inability to recognize your comment would be offensive to many. Once again... you show your self Lacking!

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:37:08 PM

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osf, you know for whatever strange reason, I actually like you, yes I know, fellow submissives forgive me, but osf, we are not for the most part high maintenance. If anything, I am way more of deferential to my Man than any vanilla woman I know, I wait on him hand and foot, try and anticipate his needs, and cater to his every whim, so that is why to me, he wants me over a "vanilla" woman. Maybe you are attracting the "do me" subs, or forgive me, but your attitude here somtimes comes across as wrong. Trust me, a woman that is really submissive to her man is a treasure, and one to be respected, yes respected, and loved. You may want to readjust your attitude on the women you are interacting with.

don't you feel that you may lean on him for more emotional support than the average woman?

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:44:38 PM

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High maintenance? LOL..that's funny.

I have a feeling it's just the opposite for Master. He orders. I obey. Simple. Nothing high maintenance about that.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:47:29 PM

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Dude, what is wrong with you?

Subs are easy. It is some high falutin 'nilla chick that thinks that her shit don't stink that is the bane to every man's existence.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:47:56 PM

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when was the last time he beat the holy shit out of you, t mean beat you?

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:49:08 PM

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maybe i always got the wrong ones

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:50:24 PM

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when was the last time he beat the holy shit out of you, t mean beat you?

Unfortunately too long.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 5:55:26 PM

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yes some do, and those some require a lot

I find in my experience a D/s or M/s relationship requires a lot of work on both sides. I lean on him in ways I never have leaned on another man. And yes, that involves his being interested enough in me to send the time and energy back in my direction. But it's not work. I'm devoted to making him happy, content and keeping our relationship energized and meeting his needs, and he meets my needs on all levels and also just so happens to make me happy, content and keeps me energized. Win/win ...

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 6:02:36 PM

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yes some do, and those some require a lot

I find in my experience a D/s or M/s relationship requires a lot of work on both sides. I lean on him in ways I never have leaned on another man. And yes, that involves his being interested enough in me to send the time and energy back in my direction. But it's not work. I'm devoted to making him happy, content and keeping our relationship energized and meeting his needs, and he meets my needs on all levels and also just so happens to make me happy, content and keeps me energized. Win/win ...

well said

and you can share and tell him things you never could before

the greatest compliment i ever got from a woman was' " i can tell you things i cant tell my best girl friend about"

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 6:18:15 PM

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lol! He knows a lot more about me than any of my girlfriends ever did or ever will ...

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 6:18:40 PM

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Trust me, a woman that is really submissive to her man is a treasure, and one to be respected, yes respected, and loved.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 6:45:50 PM

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seems wanting a woman that actually obeys is a heinous crime on this site

Knowing you believe how high maintenance a submissive is, why do you want a submissive woman over a vanilla one?

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
(snip) hey, there is a real d/s and some people actually practice it
i've had it and i want it again, pssst it really exists (snip)

Same question posed, once again, to you. Knowing how you believe submissive women to be high maintenance, and how you have only ever come across high maintenance submissives.

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maybe i always got the wrong ones

Why do you continue to want a submissive woman over a vanilla one?

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