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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:37:10 AM

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Thank you for bringing that up. Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65? Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?

Nice.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:37:52 AM

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Again,please be careful.

i didn't get to be this old being careless

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:37:52 AM

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Oh... what interesting paths life can take you down!

i have been down many you wouldn't believe or want, hell some of them i didn't want and i'm still here

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:40:02 AM

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Oh... what interesting paths life can take you down!

i have been down many you wouldn't believe or want, hell some of them i didn't want and i'm still here

That is no excuse to act as you do. Let me tell you... just telling my story had one grown man screaming... please, I can't handle hearing any more! I said how do you think I feel... I lived it? Dude... ask yourself one thing. Am I too old to grow up and consider that everyone in life... yes... everyone... has some challenge to life. The honor is in how we lived that life and responded to the challenges. You sir... have failed.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:42:49 AM

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Oh... what interesting paths life can take you down!

i have been down many you wouldn't believe or want, hell some of them i didn't want and i'm still here

I can tell those sneakers look like they walked a million miles

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:43:25 AM

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thank you all

Happy to help you out some more.

Personally I prefer this character development persona versus a one which included a 20 year relationship with a dead pain-slut masochistic wife and sick son requiring 24/7 care. I see a more positive reaction. The desperate need for sympathy giving way to disconnected expertise falling apart in face of fact-check; should attract a different group of affected individuals. Although in the next reincarnation I'm hoping for a change in venue from remote Canadian farmland to some seaside resort.

Maybe you already have that in mind. Is that why you borrowed the AFLAC duck?

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:44:01 AM

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Oh... what interesting paths life can take you down!

i have been down many you wouldn't believe or want, hell some of them i didn't want and i'm still here

That is no excuse to act as you do. Let me tell you... just telling my story had one grown man scream... please, I can't handle hearing any more! I said how do you think I feel... I lived it. Dude... ask yourself one thing. Am I too old to grow up and consider that everyone in life... yes... everyone... has some challenge to life. The honor is in how we lived that life and responded to the challenges. You sir... have failed.

and i appreciate your oh so adult attitude truly i do

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:44:57 AM

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Okay... now bend over for your spanking you sam.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:45:16 AM

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Osf, may i ask you a serious question, please? You are getting basically what you want for yourself with your posts, yes? This is what kind of gets you through the day? Having people be rude to you etc, and 'hate' you, is what you are really seeking, yes?

I am from the old school, we keep doing what we do because there is something gratifying in it for us. Reading your posts and how you mention at times about people hating you, or would dislike you if your really came out with what you think is a 'high' for you, right?

by the way i don't hate you or dislike you. i am not really sure how many people would invest that type of energy on a board. perhaps some, but i don't know. As i have told you my ownly concern is the newbies who might take everything you say literal. That though isn't a concern anymore, but it was.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:46:00 AM

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ya know i'm sitting here laughing my ass off at this

every once in awhile i get pissed at something someone says then i think about what it's doing for me

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:47:21 AM

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Yeah but admit it osf... you really want a big one up the ass with all that humiliation...

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:47:55 AM

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ya know i'm sitting here laughing my ass off at this

every once in awhile i get pissed at something someone says then i think about what it's doing for me

Yeah, being pissed off at what other people say is letting them control you.... too true there

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:50:10 AM

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Again,please be careful.

i didn't get to be this old being careless

Thank you for bringing that up. Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65? Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?

I think it has something to do with geese. You know they mate for life, right? (or is that swans?? I am not down on my animal lore) So perhaps such a close alliance with a goose makes one get younger.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:02:51 AM

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Thank you for bringing that up. Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65? Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?

Nice.

What's up with this?!!

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:11:27 AM

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Seems that he doesn't know how old he is someone should check his AARP card

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:12:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
Thank you for bringing that up. Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65? Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?

Nice.

What's up with this?!!

*And then there was silence as the wizard of osf slipped further behind his curtain.*

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:12:51 AM

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Given the choice, I would choose the submissive woman, but and this is a very IMPORTANT but, I would NEVER have anything to do with a high maintainance woman. I believe there are sites for them such as Goldigger.com!

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:15:53 AM

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Given the choice, I would choose the submissive woman, but and this is a very IMPORTANT but, I would NEVER have anything to do with a high maintainance woman. I believe there are sites for them such as Goldigger.com!

I dunno I think that we have a rather narrow definition of high maintainance, I am very much so, not because I need expensive hair cuts, go shopping all the time, think my partners money is my own, but because I have my own stuff/idiosyncrasies whatever, I am not a pair of shoes you can't just put me on and take a walk. To be fair in my time in the dating world I have met very very very very few low maintainance people either male or female, normally when they are its because they aren't interested.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:19:24 AM

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So you want a submissive? A real one? There is one foolproof way to make that happen. BE THE TYPE OF DOMINANT A SUBMISSIVE WANTS.

Real submission is not easily handed over to the first velcro-shoe-wearing asshole that gives himself the title. A true Dominant, not just a horny control freak, is a very educated individual. That education is obtained by listening to what others have to say.You said earlier a submissive cannot teach anything to a Dominant. By dismissing the opinion and experiences of the submissives on these boards you are missing out on the very information you require to be the type of Dominant a submissive will desire.

ok this is going to be an alien concept here

i don't want to be the type of dominant a sub wants, i want to be the dominant a particular a particular type of sub needs

oh well

Semantics.

What is your plan? Sit in front of the computer until you see a profile that interests you then send her a note saying "Baby, you neeeed me!!" You will need to win her heart before she will allow herself to need you.

Relationships take work. Calling yourself a Dominant does not exclude you or place you above it. It is a foreign concept to you that a Dominant should actually have to work to win a submissive, isn't it? You cannot grasp the concept that she can and will reject you if you do not meet her expectations.

Here is another concept you probably will dismiss as well. A submissive is not beneath you. She is your equal. The value of each of you is not lessened because of your roles. You are not superior to her in any way. Treat her with the value she deserves. Honor her as a woman and your partner and she will submit to you.

You have to prove to her that you deserve her.

What you are looking for is someone who will be a woman first and a submissive second. Therefore I suggest you be a man before a Dominant.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 10:21:19 AM

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why do dominant women all want experience slaves or subs.

surely it must be fun training to please.

are dominant women really so rare on this planet? or are we too many men looking.
are there really men that give complete freedom to women with thier finances?
surely not the first many years.
regards
a new comer

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