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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:01:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: masterofholly

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ORIGINAL: osf

i keep hearing from all these wonderful relationship committed submissive women but have yet to hear from some of their "dominants"

You are now.
And I assure you I am neither pussy whipped nor non-existent.

I have read some of your posts here and you come across as an uninformed wannabe who is too wrapped up in the "I am Dom, hear me roar" syndrome to realize the submissives here have some damn good advice to offer.

Here is why the only one you will ever have at your feet is a duck
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seems wanting a woman that actually obeys is a heinous crime on this site

i mean real dominance and submission, what am i thinking


So you want a submissive? A real one?  There is one foolproof way to make that happen. BE THE TYPE OF DOMINANT A SUBMISSIVE WANTS.

Real submission is not easily handed over to the first velcro-shoe-wearing asshole that gives himself the title. A true Dominant, not just a horny control freak, is a very educated individual. That education is obtained by listening to what others have to say.You said earlier a submissive cannot teach anything to a Dominant. By dismissing the opinion and experiences of the submissives on these boards you are missing out on the very information you require to be the type of Dominant a submissive will desire.

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Excuse me ms. Holly but, *THUD*

(he's kinda hottish, isn't he?...)

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:05:49 AM   
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ahhem, I would like to address the bad rap velcro is getting here. 

I've used it successfully to bind up all sorts of parts and peoples.  Velcro is fun.  Velcro is quick, reliable and makes an amusing noise when you jerk it apart, after using it for CBT or Bondage.  That sound is a nice compliment to a bottom's sigh or moan at being released.  Just saying.

As you were.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:06:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lally2


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ORIGINAL: osf

domi ever live on a farm?



I have been on a farm. Spent some time there.  Never thought that tenniboots were really appropriate wear. 

I usually would wear some sort of a shoe that offered more protection...Something akin to Columbia footwear.

They had laces.

You say your a dom but your velcro screams sub.


shoes that slip on make it easier and faster to go in and out of the house

they are imminently practical and as the goose and the horses dont mind i dont mind



you dont have to justify what shoes you wear osf - walk on by mate.

im assuming that by High Maintenance you mean, directional, emotional, control of a sub as apposed to someone vanilla and i would agree that yes, subs on the whole probably are.

but hopefully, once everything is going according to plan and youre both 'working' together it shouldnt be.

but it does depend on what sort of submissive youre looking for. avoid those that need lots of micromanagement



ty

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:09:05 AM   
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OSF do your other shoes have cool pockets to keep loose change ?

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:12:59 AM   
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PS - I think the foot worshipping domme goose, is a very funny picture and shows an  ironic sense of humor I can appreciate.  Despite geese in general, being scary evil fuckers  that I tend to avoid.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:13:24 AM   
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If we are playing into your success, then I can only imagine your constant posts and drawing fire upon yourself is intentional to attract those submissives who will come to your defense and buy into your games. 

WinD



That is what he is doing so "successfully" and many of you are feeling sorry for this dimwit who thinks he is so clever and getting over on us.

I don't feel sorry for him, I sort of did at the beginning but now he is just moronic and frankly, becoming redundant.

The only reason I still read his threads is to hear what others snark back to him.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:13:30 AM   
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So you want a submissive? A real one?  There is one foolproof way to make that happen. BE THE TYPE OF DOMINANT A SUBMISSIVE WANTS.

Real submission is not easily handed over to the first velcro-shoe-wearing asshole that gives himself the title. A true Dominant, not just a horny control freak, is a very educated individual. That education is obtained by listening to what others have to say.You said earlier a submissive cannot teach anything to a Dominant. By dismissing the opinion and experiences of the submissives on these boards you are missing out on the very information you require to be the type of Dominant a submissive will desire.


ok this is going to be an alien concept here

i don't want to be the type of dominant a sub wants, i want to be the dominant a particular a particular type of sub needs

oh well



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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:13:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterofholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

i keep hearing from all these wonderful relationship committed submissive women but have yet to hear from some of their "dominants"

You are now.
And I assure you I am neither pussy whipped nor non-existent.

I have read some of your posts here and you come across as an uninformed wannabe who is too wrapped up in the "I am Dom, hear me roar" syndrome to realize the submissives here have some damn good advice to offer.

Here is why the only one you will ever have at your feet is a duck
quote:

seems wanting a woman that actually obeys is a heinous crime on this site

i mean real dominance and submission, what am i thinking


So you want a submissive? A real one?  There is one foolproof way to make that happen. BE THE TYPE OF DOMINANT A SUBMISSIVE WANTS.

Real submission is not easily handed over to the first velcro-shoe-wearing asshole that gives himself the title. A true Dominant, not just a horny control freak, is a very educated individual. That education is obtained by listening to what others have to say.You said earlier a submissive cannot teach anything to a Dominant. By dismissing the opinion and experiences of the submissives on these boards you are missing out on the very information you require to be the type of Dominant a submissive will desire.



Such a great post, speaking to exactly the point of the thread, and unsurprisingly, completely ignored by the OP in favor of snarky responses. 


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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:17:17 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

quote:

So you want a submissive? A real one? There is one foolproof way to make that happen. BE THE TYPE OF DOMINANT A SUBMISSIVE WANTS.

Real submission is not easily handed over to the first velcro-shoe-wearing asshole that gives himself the title. A true Dominant, not just a horny control freak, is a very educated individual. That education is obtained by listening to what others have to say.You said earlier a submissive cannot teach anything to a Dominant. By dismissing the opinion and experiences of the submissives on these boards you are missing out on the very information you require to be the type of Dominant a submissive will desire.


ok this is going to be an alien concept here

i don't want to be the type of dominant a sub wants, i want to be the dominant a particular a particular type of sub needs

oh well




I am really concerned for you. Someone is reading your posts and what you want and responding to you. Pretending to be the perfect slave. You will think you've been successful, until they ask you for money wired to get to you. You will not see your money or them again.

Please beware. Please be aware.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:18:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

What kind of a woman would ever choose to be with a man that would choose velcro straps in lieu of shoe laces?

I would think for most woman that would be a hard limit indeed.

Are you ninety?




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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:19:40 AM   
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I am really concerned for you. Someone is reading your posts and what you want and responding to you. Pretending to be the perfect slave. You will think you've been successful, until they ask you for money wired to get to you. You will not see your money or them again.


i thank you for your concern

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:19:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

If we are playing into your success, then I can only imagine your constant posts and drawing fire upon yourself is intentional to attract those submissives who will come to your defense and buy into your games. 

WinD



That is what he is doing so "successfully" and many of you are feeling sorry for this dimwit who thinks he is so clever and getting over on us.

I don't feel sorry for him, I sort of did at the beginning but now he is just moronic and frankly, becoming redundant.

The only reason I still read his threads is to hear what others snark back to him.


He proved me wrong, and revealed concisely his intent.  I'm ok with that.  He's still a source of (now) guilt-free amusement.  I really hated feeling like I was part of a mob mentality contributing to the abuse of another for my own amusement.  As long as I'm helping the guy out, I'm willing to do my part.

WinD

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:24:55 AM   
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He proved me wrong, and revealed concisely his intent.  I'm ok with that.  He's still a source of (now) guilt-free amusement.  I really hated feeling like I was part of a mob mentality contributing to the abuse of another for my own amusement.  As long as I'm helping the guy out, I'm willing to do my part.

WinD
\

what gets me is they will continue to play their part, they can't help it any more that the scorpion riding the frog across the river

lolololol

last night i had a long chat with someone wondering what all the fuss was about lololololol

thank you all

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:28:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

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He proved me wrong, and revealed concisely his intent. I'm ok with that. He's still a source of (now) guilt-free amusement. I really hated feeling like I was part of a mob mentality contributing to the abuse of another for my own amusement. As long as I'm helping the guy out, I'm willing to do my part.

WinD
\

what gets me is they will continue to play their part, they can't help it any more that the scorpion riding the frog across the river

lolololol

last night i had a long chat with someone wondering what all the fuss was about lololololol

thank you all


Again,please be careful.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:30:49 AM   
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Sadly enough, I guess that is all you really have to offer.  For some reason, I'm disappointed that there wasn't more depth to you.  However, as long as you continue to give me so much to work with, I'll be happy to help you out.

WinD

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:31:08 AM   
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Again,please be careful.


i didn't get to be this old being careless

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:31:19 AM   
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knowing how high maintenance a submissive is, why would any man prefer one to the average woman?


I have read large portions of this thread, and I just wanted to say as someone that calls herself a bottom and not a submissive these days... I became a bottom so I could demand more from my intimate relationships and be empowered to get the things I want in life. I found that although I maybe submissive by my very nature that I deserve whatever it is that I want in life. When I was living as a submissive with my partner I was entirely low maintenance.. Funny how different people perceive life differently..

Perhaps the OPer feels like being responsible for a submissive emotionally, etc, is hard to maintain... it is all in what fits for a person. If it seems that hard, perhaps it is just not the right path for you, just like I decided that labeling myself "submissive" was loaded with baggage that made me unhappy, dissatisfied, and didn't suit me. It does not mean that I can't be who I am because I reject the label.

Just some thoughts 

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:32:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

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Again,please be careful.


i didn't get to be this old being careless


Do background checks.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:33:25 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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ORIGINAL: osf

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Again,please be careful.


i didn't get to be this old being careless


Thank you for bringing that up.  Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65?  Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?


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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 9:33:34 AM   
Lockit


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ORIGINAL: osf

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Again,please be careful.


i didn't get to be this old being careless


Hey... don't take credit for something that just naturally happens to most people. If you survived saying some of what you say... I would credit the wise people who felt you weren't worth going to jail for.

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