LadyAngelika
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ORIGINAL: Lockit I don't want to force it... Me neither really, but I like to definitely reacquaint a man with it. My ex was never very polite. I could talk about why, but I won't. It bothered me. It always did, and that's what it really comes down to. My current boy is much more gentlemanly. He makes me feel a lady, which is sometimes hard for me, but I love it so much. He knows just what little gesture he can do to make all the difference. I hadn't really thought of it in the terms of a fetish before, but yes, I guess I do fetishize the gentleman. I would not want to teach a man to do this. I enourage mine to do it more often, yes, but teaching him basics? No. I've been there, done that, and I won't forgive lack of manners again. Well I just state what I like. If they already are, then great. If they want to learn, I'll teach them. If they don't want to, then buh-bye. As you can see, I use "forced" much more for the play on words. quote:
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I actually use orgasm control to get them in touch with their male libido as well. But that is a whole other ball of wax! Much fun though! - LA Just tonight he mentioned to me perhaps I should get a "ball-lock," as he called it. I just about laughed my ass off at that one. Which basically means he's rethought his previous decisions on it. I'm pretty excited about that, and just had to share since you mentioned it. It's fun when kinks grow! Congrats! If you are curious about how I mix this up, read this. - LA
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Une main de fer dans un gant de velours ~ An iron hand in a velvet glove
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