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how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:00:41 PM

zeusx

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has any one actually met and if so have they had good experiences or bad. and how do people on here start talking i been on here for weeks and no messages except from people i dont wanna hear from lol

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:04:40 PM

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zeus,

i have met a few, certainly, from here. some who were actually already in relationships, but also a few that developed into something more. good luck!!

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:08:01 PM

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I've met upwards of 50 at this point. Maybe 10 were women I played with and/or dated. The rest were/are friends. Several of them are regular posters on these message boards.

If you would like some online dating pointers, I strongly recommend you read the following thread, as many times as you think you need to. It's one of the best threads ever produced on these boards.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:17:47 PM

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OP:
in aprox 2 years
I have met about 35 or so in REAL TIME..
....the first being a DOM who took me under his wing after my husband died..and profoundly changed my life..ty Master AUSCAN

I have met 2 loyal boyz on here who served for up to a year who were transfered away...
I have 3 good supper-movie and support buddies..and have made friends with 3 other DOMMES...and
At present I have 2 boyz

who serve and 1 under consideration.( met here )
ALso I met those who were/are wanna bes..do-mes..as well as those with whom I did not click..for them or me..

There are 2 other ppl I met on here with which I had wonderful negotiative but short term experiences as a Mommy DOMME..
and I gave a young man -19..a safe place to play dress up and have girl time.

ITS ALL GREAT... with some wierdness but nothing more than any relationship..and what comes with RELATING
Each person blessed my life.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:19:26 PM

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I've met a handful of people. None of them worked out for various reasons, but they were all decent people.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:28:41 PM

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Yes, I've met people from CM...some as friends, some as more.

Do yourself a favor a read the link RedMagic1 posted. It really is full of some great advice.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:29:31 PM

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I've met 20 or so people from this site, mostly on the other side? Most just local kinksters at munches and suchlike, maybe 5 or 6 for dates. Haven't got into a relationship with anyone from here yet, but they were all good people.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:34:56 PM

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I met someone from this site and had a great experience. We are now good friends. The D/s dynamic between us didn't gel, but we remain close and I'm very glad to know her and have her in my life.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:37:17 PM

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I have met upwards of 50 through the message boards. I look at it as social networking. Ive met a few doms. But no one to write home about. Thats ok with me. Friends are forever and are precious to me.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:37:37 PM

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There's a whole long thread of this here.http://www.collarchat.com/m_2970902/tm.htm

I met a few locals at the Enclave, but most of them I met at a get-together in Florida last July.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:39:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zeusx

has any one actually met and if so have they had good experiences or bad. and how do people on here start talking i been on here for weeks and no messages except from people i dont wanna hear from lol

Yes, and it was a good experience. Its was SUCH a good experience i'm still having it LOL. i met my Master on here over two years ago. He sent me a email here on collarme, and the rest, as they say, is history.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:43:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zeusx

has any one actually met and if so have they had good experiences or bad. and how do people on here start talking i been on here for weeks and no messages except from people i dont wanna hear from lol

I met my former dom on another BDSM site and he introduced me to this one

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:56:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zeusx

has any one actually met and if so have they had good experiences or bad. and how do people on here start talking i been on here for weeks and no messages except from people i dont wanna hear from lol

Yes. Three Masters, one sub real time. A small number of friends real time but I do not do munches or public play.A myriad (see my profile) of online friends.
I've also met and befriended two of the finest human beings I have ever met because of initial contact through Collarme.
Have also run into a few ace wankers from here.....life is life.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 5:58:52 PM

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To save some folks a bit of typing:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2970902/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2970902

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 6:03:54 PM

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Hi zeusx.
I met several from collarme. As a matter of fact, I met my Sir on here, proceeded to real time & He collared me, and we were together until He died. Very positive experience.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 6:10:11 PM

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Have met many here. Including my little girl. She wrote me and introduced herself to me about 4 years ago. One of the luckier days of my life. I've also made many good friends here and found a playmate or two.

ETA: Oh yeah...I've also met some that needed a therapist more than a dominant. But that's life.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 6:23:07 PM

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I've met a few, and I'm one of those very reserved and reclusive individuals. If I can do it, well, I imagine a beefcake like you can swing it.

If you are only being contacted by those you don't want to meet, then perhaps a more proactive approach would be a good strategy?

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 6:28:44 PM

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I met a bunch of guys from the other side, no one to write home about and no one became my next Dom. I also talked to a few offline from here as well as some lovely ladies.

People do meet their partners here, luck is a big thing and being open I suppose.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 6:30:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zeusx

has any one actually met and if so have they had good experiences or bad. and how do people on here start talking i been on here for weeks and no messages except from people i dont wanna hear from lol

I have met people that I've talked with on the forums. I'd say that my experiences have been very pleasent in regards to it and hopefully I'm about to meet some more.

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RE: how many have met other people from this site - 1/15/2010 6:35:11 PM

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some women like to hunt as opposed to being hunted. like me... i may be a sub but i've always been a hunter...it's just the way it's always been. Your a good looking man...maybe the right subbie will find you.