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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch
Today, you asked her to do something and she hesitated, she questioned you. How do you respond?
Trust is a two-way street. Presumably, this whole time of happy relationship was one that also fostered your trust in his decisions and commands, yes?
So why did you hesitate? What does "she questioned" mean? She made a comment that seemed to call into question the honor of my motivations? That wouldn't go over well. She was confused or unsure about the task required and requested the chance to discuss it? That would prompt a sit-down talk.
As it stands, you've intentionally written a 'preview of coming attractions' thread designed to build the attractiveness of your past behavior in order to shed a tinted light onto what was likely a mistake on your part (I am not sure of this, but that seems like the most likely reason someone would build the story and question in the way you have).
Blah...blah...blah.
There is a much larger picture here that you have an apparently difficult time understanding.
A large part of being in any type of relationship is the ability to be intuitive to your partners feelings. Just because something is not orated does not mean that it is not being felt or relevant.
If silence is always a sign of condoning an activity we would never have coups, uprisings or so many arguments. Sometimes enough is simply enough.
Most people realize when they are pulling something over on another and everyone usually recognizes when they are getting the short end of the stick. Silence does not change those facts. The built up animosity and feelings of being slighted often lead to an event where emotions tend to boil over to the point where nothing is salvageable.
I think a big part in our responsibility as a Dom is to be able to recognize those thoughts that go unspoken. Many subs have such a strong desire to please and avoid confrontation that they tend to let things go unsaid and build up. It is simply an overly naive approach to think that silence always means acceptance.
If I owned any NZ points I would cash them in now....Their value is plummeting.
DomiGuy both you an NZ are out to lunch. He's at an Italian Resturant and You're at the Speedy "Texas Hots Hot Dog Stand". The OP in the mean time is at the "Outback Steak House" trying to figure out why her Master is at the "Itailian Resturant" while wishing she was at the "Texas Hots Hot Dog stand". But let's not talk about the "Outback Steak House".
As it is, she can probally only afford to eat at the Texas Hots Hot dog stand, because she's been paying for all the Meals for Master at the Itialian Resturant. She can barely afford the "Outback Steak House".
Fuck it, I'll say it. He's a Free Loader, Expecting for somebody Else to Flip for Bill type of Guy, he's taken her for granted and just assumes certain things will go a certain way. Even though those things have never been talked about.
Oh my, how dare anybody call into question the motives and intentions of any DOM, else face the "Wrath of DOM". Hell, as a Dominant I rather enjoy when somebody calls into Question my motives and intentions. It shows me that they have brain and a mind of their of their own. That's something worth having around. What good is another brain indentical to my own?
In terms of preview of Coming Attractions... she looks at the menu at the "Outback Steakhouse" realizes she has to leave the joint and make a change. She get's up and leaves and apologizes and saves face. Headed for the "Texas Hots Hot Dog" joint. Another possible thing that might happen is that while she's reading the Menu, she thinks about how Greedy she is being for Dining Alone, Get her ass up and hikes over to the "Itailian Joint" sits down with her Master... then pulls out her "Master Card" (pun intended) to pay for everything again. Debt is the american way. Ummm wonder if her Master works at AIG and got a heafty bonus for this last year? (pondering, if I'm gonna piss anybody off with this post).
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