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Perfection - 1/25/2010 6:51:34 AM

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When I let mj go it was pretty devastating for both of us. I was breaking up from my long term partner and moving out of the area.
I never got over her and when I got with Steve I talked about her often.
I had, had other submissives and at one point I even had a sister for mj but when I let the other submissives out of my life I never pined for them like I did for her.
Recently Steve had the pleasure of meeting her and we were all pretty nervous! He connected with her beautifully and the result of that is that mj is now our submissive and an integrated part of our lifestyle.
Its early days yet and we need to take things one step at a time, especially for Stephens sake because mj and me obviously have a past and that could open up some jealous moments for him.
mj told us that after the split she tried other Mistresses out but she never made that connection like her and me had. I asked her why she thought that was and she told me that I never hid anything from her. As well as being the cruel sadistic bitch! I also showed her my emotional side, my vulnerable side.
Her words made me realize why I haven’t been able to commit myself to the other fem subs in my life. From day 1 mj was a complete person. She allowed me to see her strengths, her weaknesses and bouncy bubbly personality and in turn I was able to show her all of me. She was my submissive but we were like best friends, confidents and lovers. She showed me the depth of my dominance and it felt like the most natural thing in the world and in turn I tasted her submission like I have tasted on nobody before.
With others I have never made that connection. Its always ended up with ‘Me Domme, you sub’ with nothing in between and in the end it felt like acting or something that was just used as a turn on.

It took a long time to get to this point but something tells me that all of this is good and Stephen, me and mj are very excited.

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RE: Perfection - 1/25/2010 6:53:59 AM

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That's wonderful!

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RE: Perfection - 1/25/2010 6:54:56 AM

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Congratulations! I hope the three of you enjoy a lengthy, fulfilling relationship.

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RE: Perfection - 1/25/2010 2:45:43 PM

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I wish you well......................keep us updated

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RE: Perfection - 1/26/2010 7:46:22 PM

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That's lovely to hear! Congrats to you all.

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RE: Perfection - 1/27/2010 11:00:26 AM

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WOW
It might be just me but, do you ever read something and then find yourself scared to blink, because in that split second you close your eyes the words infront of you might vanish, that you may have imagined or dreamed them??
I am so deeply moved by Maria's words.
Devastating was certainly true, for quite a while I was lost and I even at one point began to doubt my own submission. There were other Dominants, some that had known me for a long time and thought that I would react to them as I did to Maria......they were wrong and it all became just an act.
I always felt that mine and Maria's story hadn't quite ended, I am pleased it hasn't because now we have a new chaptor, and this time it is even better because now there is Stephen.
I was so nervous and worried before meeting Stephen, I just did not know how I would feel and what he would think of me.
But the moment I met him I relaxed, I knew instantly that I could trust him and that strangly enough even though I had just met him, he could reach inside me and find that submissive side of me.

I am so very happy and excited right now, not sure my boss is too impressed with all the daydreaming I have been doing and I think there are one or two people that get my train in the morning who think I am completely mad because I smile while looking off into the distance. But I can't help myself, just knowing they are both there fills me with the most intense warmth.

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RE: Perfection - 1/27/2010 2:00:46 PM

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Congratulations! Sounds wonderful and like a win-win-win!

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RE: Perfection - 5/10/2010 11:41:58 AM

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I hadn't even read maisyjayne's post until a few minutes ago.
That was written in January and its now May.
Things are going from strength to strength and that's all down to understanding how we all work and what our individual part in this means to one another.
maisyjayne has had a few tough tests recently and she's passed them with flying colors

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RE: Perfection - 5/11/2010 5:36:10 AM

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You three sound pretty awesome! All the best wishes and congrats!

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RE: Perfection - 5/11/2010 5:40:36 AM

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What WD said. Proof that poly works! Thank you for sharing your story, and bright blessings to you all.

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