CarrieO
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ORIGINAL: joether The hypocricsy comes, when on these individual's own profiles and journals, it says they dont like one sentence replies. And yet, they do it themselves! Makes me wonder of some Dommes. I like the ones that can think and give intelligent replies. They dont have to agree with me, for me to like them. In my journal I mention I would like a man to be creative with his emails to me. I don't feel that's too much to ask for but, given the exchange I'm engaged in as we speak (or type, as the case may be) it would appear it is too much. I make to point to send emails that have some thought, effort and, yes, creativity in them. Rarely do I recieve anything of the like in return. There are those few but they're few and far between. My reasons for writing as I do have nothing to do with "lifestyle" or being a certain label...dom/me, sub/slave/switch...I write like I talk. When a man takes the time to send me an email that has some thought and shows he took more than a brief glance at my profile/journal then I'll generally take the time to respond in kind...even if it's to say thank you but no thank you after viewing his profile and not seeing anything of interest. Again...this is me, my style of courtesy and not something I can expect of anyone else. As DarkSteven said, what you choose to write to a woman is a gift...whether or not they choose to appreciate it is another thing. Being bitter, or giving the impression, isn't necessarily the answer. All you're left with is a very bad taste in your mouth and a sour expression. Why not just smile and accept that you've done your part to bring bit of cheer to someone who may or may not want or need it. Smile and gracefully move on. Just something to think about.
< Message edited by CarrieO -- 1/27/2010 6:03:58 PM >
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