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goalie1801 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:15:47 PM)
I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay!

osf -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:18:29 PM)
let's start at the beginning, who are you? what are you? and why do you think so?

goalie1801 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:25:07 PM)
I am goalie a sub that is wanting to be owned by that special someone

osf -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:26:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I am goalie a sub that is wanting to be owned by that special someone there are no special someones

ramalamaDingDong -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:27:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 How do you get a Dom? Copy my profile, you'll have your pick.

goalie1801 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:40:01 PM)
I am not going to copy someone else's profile...that wouldnt be me. That is just stupid to do.

osf -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 6:45:59 PM)
get ideas from my profile it's all fuzzy and warm cuddly too

KatyLied -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 7:03:16 PM)
I do not understand what you are saying about men who have abused you in the lifestyle. It is your responsibility to teach people how to treat you. Maybe you need to learn how to do this before attempting a relationship. Otherwise the pattern will repeat.

AnimusRex -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 7:09:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I like to watch my woman groom the horses, muck out the stalls and make me a pot roast. Jeff Its funner without the comma.

sexyred1 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 7:42:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is.

xxblushesxx -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 7:46:10 PM)
OP, have you met Dollparts?

LafayetteLady -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 8:03:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is. Damn girl! I guess you didn't get a good lay for your birthday!. Seriously though, red's right. Go back and read your posts on this thread. Would YOU want to meet you? I really am not trying to be mean, but everyone is offering helpful suggestions and asking you questions, and getting a decent response out of you is like pulling fucking teeth. You say you have been "abused" by "doms" in the past, but you don't say how. I am getting the feeling that the "abuse" was that you gave them a piece of ass and they never called you again. You want someone to cuddle with at night? Figure out what will make someone want to cuddle with you. If you are 27 years old and have never had a boyfriend, and are here trying to figure out how to get a "dom" because you have no idea how to attract a man, then see a therapist. Learn how to like and respect yourself, figure out what it is that you really want, stop whining like a little kid and actively seek what you want out of life. There is an old saying that no one is going to love you if you don't love yourself. It's very true, so learn how to be happy with who you are.

sexyred1 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 8:29:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is. Damn girl! I guess you didn't get a good lay for your birthday!. Seriously though, red's right. Go back and read your posts on this thread. Would YOU want to meet you? I really am not trying to be mean, but everyone is offering helpful suggestions and asking you questions, and getting a decent response out of you is like pulling fucking teeth. You say you have been "abused" by "doms" in the past, but you don't say how. I am getting the feeling that the "abuse" was that you gave them a piece of ass and they never called you again. You want someone to cuddle with at night? Figure out what will make someone want to cuddle with you. If you are 27 years old and have never had a boyfriend, and are here trying to figure out how to get a "dom" because you have no idea how to attract a man, then see a therapist. Learn how to like and respect yourself, figure out what it is that you really want, stop whining like a little kid and actively seek what you want out of life. There is an old saying that no one is going to love you if you don't love yourself. It's very true, so learn how to be happy with who you are. Wow. How fascinating. Whether or not I got laid on my birthday has absolutely no relevance whatsoever to what I wrote the OP. What is far more interesting is your little dig at me. Ostensibly, you would have made a dig if you disagreed with what I said. I could see you being snarky, if you chose to. However, you made a dig at me and in the next breath AGREED with me, so what the fuck? I have to say that based on our recent conversations, I am rather surprised by this exchange. But, it is good to know.

osf -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 9:12:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is. i need a blow job

sexyred1 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 9:17:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is. i need a blow job I am sure you do, but what relevance does your comment have on the above?

osf -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 9:42:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is. i need a blow job I am sure you do, but what relevance does your comment have on the above? i's my current need

CNJDom -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 10:51:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 How do you get a Dom? Go to "Dom Depot", but wait for the sale...it's better that way. Seriously, as long as there has been the laws of attraction, there's been a method to obtaining another. Nature provides one sex with the necessary things to entice the other sex over for some intimate interaction. The plumage, the ritualistic movements, other assets that are available are tried, tested, and true. These same laws can be applied to what you're looking for: a Dom. On CM, a good profile, an open mind, and sound approach will work wonders. In the lifestyle, there's munches, events, and such were co-mingling with like-minded souls will give way to those more ritualized behaviors that make the laws of attraction do their thing. And so if you can apply the concept of making oneself approachable but not easy, but an asset; then you are well on your way to getting that Dom you've wanted. Know when the right one comes along is a different story, but common sense and a good reality-based decision-making system will help. Good luck!

osf -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 11:01:11 PM)
and any pet store you get a free dom with a purchase of $5 worth of dom supplies s

FukinTroll -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/4/2010 11:06:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf and any pet store you get a free dom with a purchase of $5 worth of dom supplies s No you silly goose, that is only in the southern states.

lally2 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 12:59:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 I have never had a bf so I dont even know how to do that okay! I am actually speechless from this thread. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. A 27 year old woman with reading comprehension problems cannot find a Dom and has never had a boyfriend. When held against the serious issues going on in the world today and personal problems of vast importance, we need to try and help this one girl out. Uh, no, I don't have any advice for you OP; join the fucking world, gain some self awareness, stop the pity party and learn to present yourself with something worth noticing, grace, class, wit, passion, be interested in others and in the world and don't make it the epicenter of your total existence. Not all of us has someone to cuddle every night, but some of us are fine with that until we find someone who is worthy of us. And if we don't find that person? We believe we are so fabulous and are happy with who we are and our own company, friends and families, so we don't run around bemoaning how hard this is. but isnt that the point of these boards, to give advice, help people out with stuff. to be honest if people around the world took the trouble to set thier own issues aside against their neighbours for a moment, to improve the bigger picture there would be fewer problems of vast importance going on. starting nearer to home is one way to go. if this woman hasnt had a boyfriend so far then that might just be that she hasnt had the confidence or met anyone yet. i dont think making her feel bad about that is in the least bit productive. allow the fact that some people do find it hard, very hard, for one reason or another, to open up, trust and let someone in. i dont think she's bemoaning at all. i think she is making a deliberate effort to get some help and feed back. in the end though, what difference does it make what you think or anyone else thinks, in the whole scheme of things, the world and the universe.

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