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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:28:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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There's lots of people in monogomous relationships here.
There's lots who aren't interested in that, and just want to play.
I find it interesting that you've got both groups irritated at you already.

I find it curious that monogamous people would suggest that meaningless multiple sexual encounters with virtual strangers is a wise choice. To suggest that monogamy is just another flavour of ice cream is to suggest they are not very devoted to monogamy, nor that they have any real convictions regarding it.

I suspect they speak of tolerance because they have friends in the casual camp and to speak out against that choice would threaten their friendships.

I suffer no such conflict of interests.

Are you a Christian? I am not but I still would not, "judge lest ye be judged".

What does any of your arguments in your journal have anything to do with anything? I mean everyones entitled to their opinion for their life. But if you aint a victim, why do you care what others do and what makes you think you have the authority to condemn others?

Seems pretty simple minded and myopic to me, that you cant live your life and leave people alone to find their own path.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:29:03 AM

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There are very few people who are banned for political incorrectness

Bob...i have never heard of anyone banned for political incorrectness. I HAVE seen them banned for being an asshole. You were banned. I rest my case.

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and on a bdsm site one does not get more politically incorrect than to condemn casual bdsm for being emotionally damaging.

Your opinion. Most of us, engaged in the practice of BDSM, are getting laid on a regular basis and are not emotionally damaged in the least.
You on the other hand, can't get any to save your life, and you are one of the most fucked up imbecilic dolts i have ever seen.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:30:02 AM

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So... whats the over/under here?

6 days!

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:31:21 AM

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:33:10 AM

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Are you a Christian? I am not but I still would not, "judge lest ye be judged".

I wrote the following in response to a question like this:

Are you a good judge of character?

Every now and then I see someone saying we shouldn't judge others.

Which of us doesn't judge a liar who deceives us?

Which of us doesn't judge an abuser who abuses us?

Casual players like to believe casual bdsm is completely harmless, unaware of the emotional damage it does over time.

Not until they realize they no longer have the capacity to truly love another, to trust someone so thoroughly as to commit their life to that person do they become aware of the damage they've done to themselves.

In the pursuit of cheap thrills they lose the ability to love.

Healthy BDSM is not a cheap thrill. It is an expression of love and trust in someone who has demonstrated qualities worthy of love and trust. Every thought, every deed is meaningful and only deepens the love and trust shared.

Casual bdsm only attracts those who are afraid of this kind of intimacy. Those who are too emotionally-immature for a healthy, loving relationship. In the no-strings-attached world of casual bdsm they can pretend to be intimate without ever experiencing intimacy.

And thus they reinforce their emotional immaturity.

We each must judge for ourselves what is and is not "abusive". We each must take our stand opposing that which we judge to be abusive.

How else will we know which of us have thought this out, and which of us are here for a cheap thrill?

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:33:26 AM

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Aw, come on now, folks. I was just sitting here yesterday thinking to Myself, "Man, what CM really needs is another old fart who's opinions on BDSM are so uniquely his own that he will end up just that way."

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:37:36 AM

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you are one of the most fucked up imbecilic dolts i have ever seen.

~smile~

Nice to see you haven't changed, Holly.

I am sure those who read my profile/journal/stories will be in a position to judge this for themselves.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:38:06 AM

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Dude,

Please get a life. No one here will accept you as their Savior and if you keep this up you will most likely get banned again. No one here has signed up for your "Church of the Righteous".

Perhaps you should go elsewhere where you could garner some followers and support.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:39:11 AM

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Make that 4 and 1/2..........

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:40:27 AM

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I would also like to add that if you have research analysis to back up your assertions, I would like to see it.

Both of these last posts were intended for Bob.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:41:28 AM

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Please get a life. No one here will accept you as their Savior and if you keep this up you will most likely get banned again. No one here has signed up for your "Church of the Righteous".
Perhaps you should go elsewhere where you could garner some followers and support.

And who is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to read what I write?

I think we've put to rest the question of whether I am a legend or not ;)

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:43:15 AM

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you are one of the most fucked up imbecilic dolts i have ever seen.

~smile~

Nice to see you haven't changed, Holly.

I am sure those who read my profile/journal/stories will be in a position to judge this for themselves.

I always did call 'em as i see 'em Bob.

And as for the masses lining up to read the crap you write...don't count on it. We emotionally damaged BDSMers are a practical bunch. If we want to look at shit, two birds can be killed with one stone by cleaning the litter boxes.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:43:34 AM

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~FR~

Actually, I used to play casually, although not with 'virtual stranger' - with friends. I did it without 'emotional damage' because I'm a strong, self aware person.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:43:35 AM

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Infamy a legend it does not make.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:44:13 AM

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I would also like to add that if you have research analysis to back up your assertions, I would like to see it.

Right after you provide research analysis to show casual bdsm is emotionally harmless.

I've spoken with the victims. No-strings-attached means there is no follow-up to find out why someone drops out.

You are hardly in a position to talk about people who have abandoned casual bdsm for something safer.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:48:05 AM

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Please get a life. No one here will accept you as their Savior and if you keep this up you will most likely get banned again. No one here has signed up for your "Church of the Righteous".
Perhaps you should go elsewhere where you could garner some followers and support.

And who is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to read what I write?

I think we've put to rest the question of whether I am a legend or not ;)

Well I like to be informed before I make vast assertions about what is damaging. So I read your journal and post. So my question again. Whre is your research analysis and how large were the study group and control groups and where is your statistical data that backs up your claims?

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:48:37 AM

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When Holly goes off on you......... it really means something...:)

Jeff

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:49:15 AM

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I would also like to add that if you have research analysis to back up your assertions, I would like to see it.

Right after you provide research analysis to show casual bdsm is emotionally harmless.

I've spoken with the victims. No-strings-attached means there is no follow-up to find out why someone drops out.

You are hardly in a position to talk about people who have abandoned casual bdsm for something safer.

Im not the ones making the claims here Bob.

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:49:39 AM

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And as for the masses lining up to read the crap you write...don't count on it. We emotionally damaged BDSMers are a practical bunch. If we want to look at shit, two birds can be killed with one stone by cleaning the litter boxes.

While it is true some are too far gone to change course, not everyone is a lemming.

Some people actually think for themselves :)

What's wrong, Holly, afraid of a little philisophical competition?

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RE: A legend returns ... - 2/17/2010 7:51:24 AM

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If one condemn casual BDSM, they would have to condemn casual sex also. There are also people abusing people physically and emotionally with other things too. Maybe we should just condemn all "users" or maybe all men who lie and say "I love you" to get in some girls pants?

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