VaguelyCurious
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Joined: 12/2/2009 From: United Kingdom Status: offline
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I know I'm in the minority on these boards, because I'm neither in, nor actively looking to be in, a committed femdom relationship at the moment. I do play casually (go on Bob, strike me down!). I'm comfortable and happy doing that, but I'm not comfortable or happy sleeping with those I play with casually; that's not because I think it's wrong or immoral or anything-it just feels like a big part of myself to give to someone I don't know that well. Looking back at the previous thread, a lot of things said there ring true with me-I'm sexually assertive, I can (and do) articulate clearly what I want in bed, and I'm not afraid of showing my enjoyment. As to how that's going to pan out in a D/s relationship, when I get there? Ask me in five years, Lady A; I'm sure I'll have more to add. eta: Gah, dammit! I pressed 'ok' without actually adding the bit which answers the question! D: As for misconceptions: I get an awful lot of mails on this site either calling me frigid or assuming that I'm kidding about the 'no sex' part of the equation. The main misconception I have encounter, I suppose, is subs assuming that it's impossible to be sexy or sexual without fucking them; I know that is probably going to be a different answer to most of the replies you'll get, LA, but I'm coming from a different angle than most of the lovely ladies here...
< Message edited by VaguelyCurious -- 2/21/2010 10:23:10 AM >
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