juliaoceania
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Joined: 4/19/2006 From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I look at a post like a classic psychological test, one of projection. Therapists don't do it as much anymore but the classic Rosarch test is one where people are shown meaningless ink blots and asked to describe them. One can sometimes gain a great deal of insight into how one describes them, there are now more sophisticated and easier to use tests but the concept is the same. Looking past the mere words for the meanings and reasons for choosing them. For people who lack any self awareness, they cannot understand how someone might be able to take their short post and pull rather vast amounts of knowledge about them from it. There are posters here who have the experience, the self awareness, and the raw skill/art to do this well. Smutmonger's posts says far more than he realizes...as do mine and most people here. At the same time, those are snapshots of someone and there are details and whole areas of someone that they do not speak to. However, when people get all up in arms that someone has read something into their post that they didn't want revealed always amuses me. Princsexx is a classic example...but so is this thread. I would say that this works both ways... someone can read nonexistent ideas and concepts where none exist, and then there are those who overreact to others making assumptions about them.. the ink blots work in both directions on this thread. LL saw what she saw in the minimal amount of info provided too... the OP being an inkblot. My impression from the OP was one of those people who reads profiles and gets frustrated by what they read, not some huge real life scenario where he is actually seeing someone, led them on, and then they left him because of that.. I mean that IS kinda reaching, isn't it?
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