masochistecstacy
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Joined: 2/20/2005 Status: offline
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If you are open and honest up front with your partner, is it such a problem being in a relationship while looking to start another? I have had more that one sub at a time. Each partner was looking for something different, and each relationship was different. They all knew about each other, and that I was married. Each relationship ran it's natural course (as hopefully my marriage soon will). Well, as long as your open, upfront, and it's agreed upon by all parties involved, yes. But if one party didn't agree, it wouldn't be right at all. Say, and this will never happen I know, just an example, my Love told me that He was going to take another submissive. I would have an absolute FIT, and if He insisted on continuing, our relationship would end. I am a strong believe in monogamy for myself, for many reasons. quote:
My question is this: Is my polyamorous lifestyle as wrong as a person posting an ad asking for a sex partner when they're really seeking a life partner? I don't think that your lifestyle is wrong at all- for you. You've said that you're upfront, that all parties involved know, and agree with the arrangement. So that's fine. As for someone posting in such a manner, well, I suppose that's all in the way they handle it. Maybe that's something they get into after they start talking to someone. If they miss people because of it, it's their loss. I know when I was looking for a partner, before I met my Love, I was sure that my profile was VERY specific on what I want and needed in a partner. Anyways, that's just my viewpoint. *smiles*
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