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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:44:31 PM

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Yeah that's what my husband has...that combined with my messy uterus system means I'm probably never going to have a baby.

And yeah that's kinda sad that I have a sterilized husband and a low chance of getting pregnant myself and I'm still holding out for "probably"

I'm actually sorry to hear that, because you're so young. Two things: vasectomies can be reversed, and your "messy uterus" doesn't mean you'll never conceive.

And even if you never do... there are plenty of babies and children that need love in the world, if you want to nurture and help a human being grow.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:45:23 PM

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Excuse me?

It was an ignorant comment, a sweeping generalization, and an arrogant and superior thing to say. Women terminate pregnancies from all walks of life, and for all sorts of reasons, and to imply that unwillingly getting pregnant in the first place is somehow alwaysa sign of irresponsibility demonstrates how prejudiced and vindicative you are against those of your own sex.

Is that better?

Umm. . . Kittin, it was in response to the "frivolous sex" leading to all the abortions and how it was all these irresponsible women that were having them.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:46:53 PM

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I wasn't the one who said "ignorant and stupid" those were came4u's words. I was just parroting them in an attempt to understand why she thought someone who was ignorant and stupid would be better off being a parent than not being a parent.

I have never used those terms. Show me the parrot in quotes.

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I really wonder why you feel someone that irresponsible and stupid is better off caring for a child when it's obvious they can't even care for themselves.

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Well, that is and will be determined (unfortunately at a later date),

(when the child is older, we cannot assume that the CPA will be involved or not, or even guestimate.

don't point fingers at me for your words.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:49:11 PM

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Yeah that's what my husband has...that combined with my messy uterus system means I'm probably never going to have a baby.

And yeah that's kinda sad that I have a sterilized husband and a low chance of getting pregnant myself and I'm still holding out for "probably"

I'm actually sorry to hear that, because you're so young. Two things: vasectomies can be reversed, and your "messy uterus" doesn't mean you'll never conceive.

And even if you never do... there are plenty of babies and children that need love in the world, if you want to nurture and help a human being grow.

Thank you :)

And yes we've talked about adoption, theoretically, in the future, when I'm in my 30's...I know that right now our lifestyle isn't conducive to being a parent but who knows 10 years from now. To be honest...even now I'm about 50/50 thinking more toward adoption, I would like to have a child that's a perfect blend of him and me but OMG PREGNANCY AND CHILDBIRTH TERRIFY ME!

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:49:45 PM

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I wasn't the one who said "ignorant and stupid" those were came4u's words. I was just parroting them in an attempt to understand why she thought someone who was ignorant and stupid would be better off being a parent than not being a parent.

I have never used those terms. Show me the parrot in quotes.

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I really wonder why you feel someone that irresponsible and stupid is better off caring for a child when it's obvious they can't even care for themselves.

don't point fingers at me for your words.
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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:50:44 PM

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I had all of one tube removed completely and one with an inch removed after the first one failed and the resulting pregnancy was eectopic,,,been 18 years since it was done but I still breathe a sigh of relief every month

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:50:48 PM

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I wasn't the one who said "ignorant and stupid" those were came4u's words. I was just parroting them in an attempt to understand why she thought someone who was ignorant and stupid would be better off being a parent than not being a parent.

I have never used those terms. Show me the parrot in quotes.

you did say:
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I really wonder why you feel someone that irresponsible and stupid is better off caring for a child when it's obvious they can't even care for themselves.

don't point fingers at me for your words.

You're right, it was "irresponsible and stupid" which is what I said in the first place, I got confused that last time.

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I don't believe in abortion being due because someone is irresponsible and stupid., get over it.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:51:14 PM

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the majority of abortions are because the woman (and often her partner) do not want the responsibility of bringing a child into this world that they will have to care for.

where does that statistic comes from?

when you are that sure that this would be the case for the majority

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:51:22 PM

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The doctors had to do the mess for free. Mom was there to catch the babies and make sure they were secure (L&D nurse).

The hospital wants her back since she retired a few months ago. The doctors respect her so much...they listened to her if a baby turned poorly and she had to call them in. They demand more details from the other nurses.

I did grow up in a nursing household. I was reading Dad's textbooks when he was through with them (age 10).

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:51:46 PM

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I wasn't the one who said "ignorant and stupid" those were came4u's words. I was just parroting them in an attempt to understand why she thought someone who was ignorant and stupid would be better off being a parent than not being a parent.

Please forgive me my haste - I was trigger happy and misunderstood your post. I'm sorry.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:52:08 PM

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Yeah that's what my husband has...that combined with my messy uterus system means I'm probably never going to have a baby.

And yeah that's kinda sad that I have a sterilized husband and a low chance of getting pregnant myself and I'm still holding out for "probably"

Ya know, they can still get the swimmers out with a needle even if he has had a vasectomy. Do not give up on your hope of that 50/50 thing. They can also take an egg from you and then mix them togeather and insert!

All is not lost.

BTW, if you want to cmail me you can, as I have a "messy uterus system" myself.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:55:06 PM

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I don't believe in abortion being due because someone is irresponsible and stupid., get over it.

better.

I never said ignorant. I said irresponsible.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:55:44 PM

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I wasn't the one who said "ignorant and stupid" those were came4u's words. I was just parroting them in an attempt to understand why she thought someone who was ignorant and stupid would be better off being a parent than not being a parent.

Please forgive me my haste - I was trigger happy and misunderstood your post. I'm sorry.

No worries :) It was actually only after a couple of my friends had abortions that I realized they're a necessity in the world we live in, 5 years ago I would have been all on the 'irresponsible and stupid' bandwagon but today I think it's actually kind of amazing we have the ability to safely end pregnancy without endangering the mother too much.

I still don't *like* the idea, but it's not up to me to tell people who don't want to be parents "either care for this child you don't want or put them into a foster system where they are likely to get starved, abused, raped, or even killed."

Nice clean adoptions generally only happen for young middle class white women, or women who have relatives in a position to adopt the child. The rest of the children...well I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:56:34 PM

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Nothing other than abstinence is 100% effective
aka closing your legs., there is NO other proof positive that any other means of birth control will work. (excluding uterus removal in totality), if one is sooo darn concerned about not becoming pregnant with some unwanted child/or they have medical problems.

Isn't abstinence a religious notion for waiting until after married? Thus how is it relevant to those that don't want to wait or are already married but don't want kids? How long are they supposed to wait considering most will want to be having sex at least one more time before they die?

I think you show your true motives by using such a term. Probably a lot of pregnancies are unplanned, some choose to go with it and some decide it isn’t the right time. Don't mix up the issues of irresponsibility and the desire to have children. Just because person A got pregnant by accident and decided to have the baby it doesn’t make them morally better than person B that was subject to the same circumstances but instead decided they could not deal with that at that time.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 6:57:00 PM

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OMG PREGNANCY AND CHILDBIRTH TERRIFY ME!

Nothing to be terrified of at all :-) .

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 7:01:09 PM

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Isn't abstinence a religious notion for waiting until after married? Thus how is it relevant to those that don't want to wait or are already married but don't want kids? How long are they supposed to wait considering most will want to be having sex at least one more time before they die?

k how to avoid STD's 100% (as anyone would give as advice) aka the transference of bodily fluids?? abstinence

how to avoid pregnancy 100%, abstinence.

People don't 'not fuck' because they aren't married. Single people (responsible ones) fuck all the time. Despite their religion.

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Just because person A got pregnant by accident and decided to have the baby it doesn’t make them morally better than person B that was subject to the same circumstances but instead decided they could not deal with that at that time.

It is only an 'accident' when someone falls into a vat of nice warm sperm-goo. Otherwise, it is an 'intentional' act. Accident LMAO If you can't deal with an STD/Pregnancy, use realllly good protection or don't fuck at all.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 7:09:08 PM

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You are probably of the mindset that road accidents should be called road incidents because you want to assign blame.

With the best of intentions you'll find certain circumstances beyond your control from time to time.

If you are worried about STD's then you should probably avoid handshaking. The cold and flu virus is spread via handshaking, my only advice is to wait until you are married before shaking someone’s hand or perhaps never shake someone’s hand again.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 7:10:33 PM

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No worries :) It was actually only after a couple of my friends had abortions that I realized they're a necessity in the world we live in, 5 years ago I would have been all on the 'irresponsible and stupid' bandwagon but today I think it's actually kind of amazing we have the ability to safely end pregnancy without endangering the mother too much.

I still don't *like* the idea, but it's not up to me to tell people who don't want to be parents "either care for this child you don't want or put them into a foster system where they are likely to get starved, abused, raped, or even killed."

Nice clean adoptions generally only happen for young middle class white women, or women who have relatives in aposition to adopt the child. The rest of the children...well I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

I agree. I do not love the idea of abortion, but I have seen way too many people who birthed and kept the baby who had no business doing it. I have seen unwanted babies increase the cycle of poverty and child abuse. Foster systems are not that great, at best a temporary shelter, at worst the situation Elisabella describes. Adoption, however, does seem to (for the most part) be a good thing.
I also believe anti-abortion rights is another example of religious conservatives foisting their morality on people. In my opinion, personal freedom trumps whatever card the religious folks are playing.
It is not an easy decision when one finds oneself with an unwanted pregnancy. I always hope the pregnant person tries to stay healthy and deliver safely and get the child to a loving home, but if not, I defend their right to end it.

Nothing is ever simple.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 7:10:50 PM

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Accident LMAO If you can't deal with an STD/Pregnancy, use realllly good protection or don't fuck at all.

Translation: If you can't deal with quadriplegia, don't drive a car.

If you can't deal with bleeding to death screaming in agony, don't have a child.

If you can't deal with your spouse stealing all your money and running off to Vegas with his secretary, don't get married.

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RE: Women's Rights! - 3/20/2010 7:13:59 PM

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You are probably of the mindset that road accidents should be called road incidents because you want to assign blame.

comparing irresponsible sex to one of those car shash up shows? no, a DUI is NO accident. It is 'intentional' and it is deadly. Comparing car accidents to human behavior? What then is an accident in your eyes that I think it means? I think cars are prone to be sexualy attracted to eachother and start humping?

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If you are worried about STD's then you should probably avoid handshaking. The cold and flu virus is spread via handshaking, my only advice it to wait until you are married before shaking someone’s hand or perhaps never shake someone’s hand again.

if you think you can get an STD from a handshake, well maybe if someone touched a herpies cold sore, but maybe you need sex ed if you are comparing a cold and flu airbourne virus to a STD. Maybe you should wear a glove like MJ...or Howard Hughs.

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