Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: mastersslut69 Thankyou to those that took the time to reply especially Alhumdulliah..so much of what you said hit home. Being a sub and one that's new to all of this is a delicious secret that I have and there is a degree of excitement. I love that my master has the control over me and his control is exercised in many ways - punishment is only a very Minor part of our life. Our relationship is more about respect for him, his rules. As for punishment, I did deserve it. Loosing stuff is just about being careless - I'm most certainly not thick and I know for certain I don't have an underlying medical problem - just I've a habit of shoving cards in bags and things and not back where they come from. It's a dreadful habit. My master has sat down with me and discussed ways to make sure I don't do the same again. But thankyou all for your posts and I'm enjoying reading all the different aspects of the lifestyle that I'm reading about in the replies to my post. Ultimately I wished I'd never posted on here though as I realise that it wasn't very respectful to my master as he is fair and kind and I knew I'd deserved the punishment - I was just whining and I looking for an outlet to talk about things in. If it's mostly cards you're losing, then this is exactly what I was referring to in my original post about how your master can get involved in a positive way rather than simply getting pissed and thinking 'punishment'. If I were him, I'd initiate a scene of formal Master/slave headspace then give you a cardholder that I'd purchased myself which you were to carry ALL your cards in. Since it's MY cardholder, technically all within it belongs to me (just as she does) so the cardholder is to remain in her handbag at all times they're not needed and is only to be removed for use then replaced immediately you're done. And just to reinforce that I am taking this serioiusly, I'd occasionally wanna inspect your handbag and cardholder. Any cards missing or loose in your handbag would then become a HUGE issue with me.... I don't care how careless my sub/slave is as a person; once I make something about *me*, they tend to try harder and focus a whole lot better. And for good measure, you have a personal example of D/s or M/s at work in the public's gaze that no-one but us will ever know about.... Focus.
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Never underestimate the persuasive power of stupid people in large groups. <unknown> Your food is for eating, not torturing. <my mum> (Errm, when I was a kid)
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