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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:35:28 PM   
BoiJen


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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:37:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

With legalization would come regulation by the government. They would be subject to price controls and other types of regulations, so in effect they would become a public utility. Currently they are considered a commodity -- which may benefit some if they can command top dollar and they don't have to serve a pimp.
I was under the impression that the US was like the UK- a free market. If so, that would make price controls on privately provided services highly unlikely.

This is just like the whole 'undercut by immigrants' theory-you take a vaguely reasonable possibility and you stretch it until you've dragged it so far out of shared reality that it's somewhere in the realm of elves and dancing unicorns.

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I beg to differ. I would say that several people on this thread and plenty of people on these boards are something pretty special. If you can't see that, then that is and will remain your own problem.


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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:39:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetPois0n

I agree.....
they see Dommes as a means to satisfy a desire.... and begrudge having to do something to earn it... be it work or be useful or god forbid pay her.....
and that is why they think the more money they pay the more they should get..... not every man who gives a woman money or a gift does it to get something back....


Well, because Ma'am is a Pro (despite my being Her personal servant), I think I'm going to have to get a piggy bank and write on it in marker "The boi's fund for being MsKitty's favorite" or some such fun thing like that. This way I can put a penny in it everyday and tell Her I'm savin up!

boi


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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:40:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		eh...i doubt it.

when you are an adult, you should be able to tell when nobody is taking you seriously.

i'm just wondering how long its going to take for them to understand that they are being fucked with. lol

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:41:35 PM   
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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:47:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just want to say Miss A welcome to the forums. I personally think you are charging a bit low. Most Dommes (pro that is, myself included) charge a flat hourly rate. I sometimes will give clients who are dependable regulars who I have seen for a long time a discount, but someone new, hell no.  I tend to ignore the cheap ass whiners on the board or at least get a laugh out of their posts.  LOL

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:51:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

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We would establish a safe word so that wouldn't happen.


Wait...if you already have intent to establish a safeword with your wife so she doesn't ask questions...what's the problem with introducing the fetish stuff to her? You're already half way there.



I meant that me and MissAsylum could establish a safe word. I have made some marginal progress with the wife but it's going far too slow for me. In the meantime I need to find a few play partners.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:52:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		thank you for the insight on the flat rate. i was thinking about it, but i wasnt sure since some clients want pretty light things than others.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:53:42 PM   
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boijen... you crack Me up!!!! I love your smartass comments!!!


Yeah, she is kind of funny and has quick wits but she gets on my nerves sometimes.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:53:51 PM   
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I have made some marginal progress with the wife but it's going far too slow for me. In the meantime I need to find a few play partners.



Ah, the depth of your submission is astonishing to behold.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:55:10 PM   
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boijen... you crack Me up!!!! I love your smartass comments!!!


Yeah, she is kind of funny and has quick wits but she gets on my nerves sometimes.



That's because you're what I like to call "a target".


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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 3:57:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

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ORIGINAL: SweetPois0n

boijen... you crack Me up!!!! I love your smartass comments!!!


Yeah, she is kind of funny and has quick wits but she gets on my nerves sometimes.



That's because you're what I like to call "a target".



Good one! Applauds BoiJen.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 4:53:02 PM   
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You and I and everyone else here knows that if you get guys to pay your high prices, the guys are going to expect more than licking your toes.

I am not everyone else here. What I know is that if she is a twue domme and the guys are true submissives, them submissives are going to hop when the domme says "Hop!"

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 5:22:24 PM   
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Treat even the most "average" woman like gourmet food, and you'll see your results change.  She's a beautiful and rare creation that took years to make.  There's no one in the world quite like her.  She's an experience to be gazed upon, savored, appreciated... and then devoured.

People want to feel special, even if they're into humiliation.  Make her feel special, and she'll treat you as though you are special.  Because you will be.


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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 5:40:15 PM   
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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 6:56:45 PM   
BelleNoir


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Status: offline 		Let me just make a quick point. The ONLY way any client will even glimpse my precious Vajayjay is if they are serving as my toilet. MOST Prodomme do not get physically intimate. The government in various cities have distinguished the difference between Pro dommes and prostitutes. I do not condone in anyway allowing sex of any kind with a client. What I see are people making judgement call based on opinion rather than fact.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 7:16:25 PM   
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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 7:30:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		In California, I believe the distinction between pro-Domination and prostitution is whether or not there is intercourse, anal penetration, oral sex, and possibly manual sex (not sure on the last one). I know a couple of pro-switches, and while I didn't research the laws, I know they both looked into it extensively before becoming employed by a local dungeon.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 9:05:52 PM   
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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 9:06:57 PM   
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