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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 10:25:42 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

Yet the OP made NO mention if one is a submissive nor a slave. so any further mention of a slave or a sub wearing a collar is pure conjecture on the poster's part. 


See post n.39, which was the one I replied to, that got Merc all pissy.

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 10:28:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

I've been reading thru the responses & can respect people's personal choices about wearing their "obvious" collar in public. I won't bore you with copying/pasting each & every quote w/specific responses so I'll just ask a general question.
For those of you who do not want to wear the collar in public & will refuse any dom/domme that wants you to, you'll only wear it during playtime...does this mean you're ashamed of your status in the relationship & will only submit behind closed doors?



I believe that most who do and prefer to wear a collar in private and are quite wary of wearing it in public all the time is primarily from dressing according to the social situation they will be in. Even though I would have that sense of pride and ownership wearing my owner's collar yet if we were to visit my parents or go out to dinner at a fancier restaurant, we'd dress appropriately. Same with visiting parents and/or siblings who have no idea of our way of living or they will not understand at all. Every single one of us is guilty of acting and dressing to fit in with society's concept of what is appropriate and what is considered tacky or bloody freaky. Granted there are people who overall dress to please them and no one else yet they too will on occasion dress to 'fit in." We are all guilty of this.


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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 10:29:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

Yet the OP made NO mention if one is a submissive nor a slave. so any further mention of a slave or a sub wearing a collar is pure conjecture on the poster's part. 


See post n.39, which was the one I replied to, that got Merc all pissy.


Erm.....contrary to your earlier post.....I do know how to read and I do understand what I am reading. Please do not insult my intelligence.

eta: My apologies Potty for this temporary sidetracking to you post.


< Message edited by Wolf2Bear -- 4/16/2010 10:32:17 AM >

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 10:39:56 AM   
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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 10:50:00 AM   
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Wow.  Do you read tealeaves and tarot too?????
And there is nothing wrong with being short... (says the heightchallengedgirl)

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Some say I have been gifted with the ability to see through the mystical veils of bullshat that people tend to wrap their universes in at times but..No no tarot cards....

I would like to learn fire-breathing though..

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 11:00:21 AM   
RCdc


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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 11:01:25 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

Yet the OP made NO mention if one is a submissive nor a slave. so any further mention of a slave or a sub wearing a collar is pure conjecture on the poster's part. 


See post n.39, which was the one I replied to, that got Merc all pissy.


Erm.....contrary to your earlier post.....I do know how to read and I do understand what I am reading.



Obviously in the light of post numero 39, you do not:

quote:



so any further mention of a slave or a sub wearing a collar is pure conjecture on the poster's part.





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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 11:11:18 AM   
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ok... that's done it.  Everytime I hear this song now, I will hear 'OompaOnFire'.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NFwKpqXnLcI&feature=related

~verucasalt



Good song BTW!


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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 12:35:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I believe the word "owner" may have left the vocabulary, darling.

Oooops, my bad!

It wouldn't be appropriate for me to answer for the Goreans.
Why not? Might make for interesting reading!

I'm sure there are much more interest things to discuss...
When it comes to YOU, Sunny, I seriously doubt that is true!



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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 1:13:30 PM   
LinnaeaBorealis


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Status: offline 		My daughter is aware of my relationship with the Owners.  No one else in my family knows.  I have no need for them to know.  They wouldn't understand, it would upset them & make them worry.  My sister told me that if I keep things from my family it's because I'm ashamed of what I'm doing.  I have to disagree there.  I am not ashamed of our relationship.  It's just that their frame of reference wouldn't allow them to accept it.  I'm ok with that.  I still wear my permanent collar proudly.  None of them ask about it.  I don't need the mark to remind me that I am his but it pleases him to see it, so that's why I had it done. 

I'm with beth on that issue.  I am owned by them, so I would wear whatever pleased them without regard to my personal preferences.  I used to dye my hair very bright unnatural reds.  They told me that they didn't want me to do that anymore & I changed my haircolor.  Such a little thing to do for them, I think.  Although, when I see haircolors that are out there, I wish that I could wear those shades again.

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 1:38:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

Yet the OP made NO mention if one is a submissive nor a slave. so any further mention of a slave or a sub wearing a collar is pure conjecture on the poster's part. 


See post n.39, which was the one I replied to, that got Merc all pissy.


Erm.....contrary to your earlier post.....I do know how to read and I do understand what I am reading.



Obviously in the light of post numero 39, you do not:

quote:



so any further mention of a slave or a sub wearing a collar is pure conjecture on the poster's part.






Obviously you seem to be spoiling for an argument which I refuse to indulge you in...therefore I am done here.


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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 3:57:43 PM   
MonPetitChaton


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Status: offline 		I believe that someone wanted a link to a silversmith who made collars inset with gem stones.
This guy does beautiful work.

http://www.bondagecollars.com/index.html

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 4:06:06 PM   
justplainjava2


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Status: offline 		With the right master i am proud to wear my collar, a few that i have a real pieces of jewelery

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 5:11:47 PM   
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I believe that someone wanted a link to a silversmith who made collars inset with gem stones.
This guy does beautiful work.

http://www.bondagecollars.com/index.html


That's it. Thanks you!

I like his past custom collars. I called him about 2 years ago to price out a silver collar based off of one of his past designs.

He does do great work. I'm glad to see he's still around.


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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 5:15:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: MonPetitChaton

I believe that someone wanted a link to a silversmith who made collars inset with gem stones.
This guy does beautiful work.

http://www.bondagecollars.com/index.html


That's it. Thanks you!

I like his past custom collars. I called him about 2 years ago to price out a silver collar based off of one of his past designs.

He does do great work. I'm glad to see he's still around.



You are most welcome, sweetie.

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 6:14:42 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: MonPetitChaton

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: MonPetitChaton

I believe that someone wanted a link to a silversmith who made collars inset with gem stones.
This guy does beautiful work.

http://www.bondagecollars.com/index.html


That's it. Thanks you!

I like his past custom collars. I called him about 2 years ago to price out a silver collar based off of one of his past designs.

He does do great work. I'm glad to see he's still around.



You are most welcome, sweetie.


Your too kind, baby.


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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 7:22:44 PM   
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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 7:50:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		ooooo watch out darling... never say never! Una nunca sabe!

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 8:41:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		sunshinemiss, u are right, never say never... I would prefer to not wear one in public... in the end if my master asked me to and it would please him then I would...
I am a fiesty girl... so may put up a slight argument first. lol

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RE: How do you feel about wearing your collar in public? - 4/16/2010 9:52:45 PM   
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