LuckyAlbatross
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ORIGINAL: Dustyn Submission and Domination requires too much of a person to readily just flip back and forth between the two depending on your mental/emotional state at that time. LOL I'll have to tell my partners that next time we're at a party and I switch between them- "Sorry guys, I guess this means we don't have a real emotional involvement with eachother, all those I love you's and sacrifices and years together don't mean anything" quote:
Neither side will be fully and completely embraced, simply because the brain, for whatever motivations lie in it, will not allow either full submission or full dominance with another person. Every switch I know, in all honesty, has never felt completely comfortable with themselves in terms of the lifestyle. Great, not only do I have to tell my partners that we aren't emotionally involved with eachother, but that none of us are really fulfilled and comfortable with ourselves! Hello, my name is Liz, nice to meet you. I've got three partners I'd be happy to introduce you to who would all say the opposite. quote:
. Can you run from side to side without one end of the rope falling to the ground? The rope, by the way, is your entire existence, flesh, bone, and soul. It creates too much of a rift inside yourself to attempt to feast on both sides of the cake at will. For me that's not at all how I experience switching. For me it's an energy flowing. Perhaps it's because I'm poly, but I can act within several energy levels simultaneously- as both slave to master and girlfriend to another, sub to one and dom to another, etc. quote:
In some ways, being a switch could infer merely being hedonistic, wanting to enjoy both ends of the whip, so to speak. It's no more or less hedonistic than anyone wanting to be who they are.
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