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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 10:40:46 AM

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What a WONDERFUL question.......

bright
makes me laugh
good humored...a positive person
self directing & doesn't need me to tell him what to do every minute
big strong hands (I love massages where one hand nearly encompasses my whole shoulder)
thinks Mitch Hedberg is funny (http://hedburgh.com/quoter.php)
nicely endowed...with a very pretty penis!
naturally affectionate
likes dark chocolate
has beautiful & expressive eyes
open minded & tolerant of others beliefs & fetishes, both in and outside the lifestyle
knows when to just be quiet and mellow without being told
watches me when I walk into a room
domestic
he breathes in my scent when he thinks I don't notice
can cook or learn to do so
has dark hair
reads voraciously
is good at getting me out of a bad mood
knows chivalry isn't dead
cries sometimes after great scenes
puts thought into the perfect gift
likes music played loudly and doesn't laugh - much - when I dance around like a crazy to it in my underwear
can dance beautifully...and does so naked, with me, to romantic music...one of the few times I'd prefer him to lead!
knows his own worth - but is humble about it
when he blushes, it creeps down his neck and over his chest
sometimes he trembles when he's near me
kisses like he's trying to eat me from inside
has his own interests
has a "little devil" in him that keeps him from being too predictable (see example, lol http://www.darkheart.com/humor3.html)

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 11:13:34 AM

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subtoFemDommes.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 11:24:37 AM

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I want to be someone's perfect sub, just can't find that someone in my area.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 11:58:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

You paint the perfect picture for the sub of your dreams.

That would be roasted deli turkey on an asiago roll. Some jalapenos, sliced roma tomatoes, green peppers, black olives, oregano, and a splash of olive oil. Maybe a little bit of hummus. But no taboule. I hate that stuff.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 12:52:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

I'm not much an eggs and bacon woman. I prefer fruit, breads, oatmeal with fruit and nuts.

mmm...wow...(blush). Absolutely wonderful.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 1:05:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

You paint the perfect picture for the sub of your dreams. Who is he/she? Whatever you want. Details please!

I have my perfect sub sitting at my feet. His name is Fido, ok, so it's not really Fido, but he is my dog, my loyal companion, submissive to the core and never, ever fails me.
He won't tolerate abuse, but provided that he is getting his needs met, he will do whatever he is asked to do within his ability. He accepts and loves me for everything that I am, he expects nothing more from me than care and attention and loving discipline and guidance. He doesn't bitch and cry or act out when he's unhappy, he lets me know in a very gentle way by simply nudging my hand. He would defend me from allcomers.
I'd swim through an ocean of molasses to get to him.

In my opinion, the best role model any submissive wish for is a well trained and contented dog in human form.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 1:06:29 PM

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Hard to add more to the wonderful lists already shared, but
in addition:

Plays scrabble
Can help Me with My crossword puzzle, when I ask
knows how to shave My legs without cutting Me
will brush and play with My hair
can do laundry and iron
looks just as good in a tux as a pair of jeans and has the manners to match

We are dreaming here, right?

I will give some thought to My perfect day.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 1:16:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

Hard to add more to the wonderful lists already shared

I agree and will add that a nice hairy chest is a bonus.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 1:52:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

Hard to add more to the wonderful lists already shared, but
in addition:

Plays scrabble
Can help Me with My crossword puzzle, when I ask
knows how to shave My legs without cutting Me
will brush and play with My hair
can do laundry and iron
looks just as good in a tux as a pair of jeans and has the manners to match

We are dreaming here, right?

I will give some thought to My perfect day.

I hope this works right lol well Dusty did you forget anything ?? I have not read all the post so I know I have missed ALOT :) Lets see I am sure someone has already said one that can hold a conversation when requiered to, one that is quiet untill told otherwise, one that can cook ? knows how to vaccume ? know just how you like your tea ? had to add that cause I know about that tea of yours Dusty, and hmmm one that knows just how to suck on your toes ??

ok I was just playing, needed somethin to do, and wonder WHEN a certain DustyGold was going to call or come by or something. :)

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 1:53:10 PM

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wow it worked right cool first time for everything

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 2:01:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: pollux

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

You paint the perfect picture for the sub of your dreams.

That would be roasted deli turkey on an asiago roll. Some jalapenos, sliced roma tomatoes, green peppers, black olives, oregano, and a splash of olive oil. Maybe a little bit of hummus. But no taboule. I hate that stuff.

Always has to be some joker interjecting lame humor into such a serious thread.

That was an oldie, but a goodie.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 2:05:32 PM

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LOL...Yes, I think even "boy" knows about My tea fetish! Just fixed a fresh (and very large) cup of orange spice.
Hey, I'm just glad you're at the message boards!
Calling you now, diva! Or should I just call you "Diva"?

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 2:13:52 PM

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either why works lol and my phone isnt ringing YET lol

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 2:16:12 PM

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goodness do I have to calll you ??? I have been having alittle fun on the whats the pro domme thing about lmao did you know I would be in better health if I lost weight ? awwwwsome concept

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 2:22:21 PM

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No worries, everyone. Pam's phone did not ring, but she got My bitchy message...Back to our regularly scheduled thread!

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 2:24:23 PM

MzPam

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

No worries, everyone. Pam's phone did not ring, but she got My bitchy message...Back to our regularly scheduled thread!

Bitchy ?? yeah right lol and what did you do to my phone ??? it didnt ring what did you do what did you do, I am bigger than you you better tell me

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 3:17:42 PM

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I am thrilled at a number of the Dom's perfect sub ideas.I have a foot /shoe fetish, as I believe many sub/slaves do The thought that I would spend time at your feet on an almost daily basis, possibly even touching them, would make any menial or mundane chores you would assign me worth it. I did not even dream I could be of a more personal service that often. I see what skills I really need to improve on to be as close to perfect as I can be.Just to be on my knees at the Doms feet is a tremendous reward in itself. Of course, no matter how much practice or try to become skilled at, I will probably still need a little fine tunng.

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 3:25:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Where in the rules does it say that D/s has to be about BDSM?

There are a lot of submissives who live to serve a Dominant; that's what they want, what they crave. Just because that's not what you want in a D/s relationship, does that mean that others who want something different than you, are wrong? Hon, you don't have to want what I am offering... .heck, you don't even have to understand it. You walk a different path, and that's terrific. More power to you! But why do you have this need to criticize ME, because I am not offering what you want?

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Ladymorgan,

You say "the sub of My dreams thinks I am absolutely wonderful." What is it about you and what you have to offer that would make a sub feel that way? An urge to clean your home because it lighten's your load, rubbing your feet, and feeling lucky that he gets to meet your family and friends doesn't seem very inspirational to me. Rather, it strikes me as a combination of unpaid labor and social escort duties. In my world, this is a far cry from BDSM.

Lady Morgynn, I didn't actually read that as criticism, as much as an alternate point of view.

Anyway, after reading the various lovely lists, it seems that only MH has found her ideal. Does anyone else who is writing here actually possess their ideal submissive? i.e. does he really exist?

Smythe

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 3:38:21 PM

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heheheh, but you notice that she never mentions that equal opportunity destroyer, cancer. Weight isn't much of an issue there. I see people all the time who've always done everything "right" and they're asking why? why? why do I have cancer when I did everything right?

She has got me sooooooooo pissed off! I woke up this morning at 5:30 a.m. to find her posts on the board. That's what got her pushing my buttons so bad I actually had a temper tantrum all over the thread... I mean, man, you get up early and go check email and the boards, and I hadn't even had my caffeine yet! My guards were down, and wham!!! here's this total cow attacking these 2 guys (one of whom I seriously disagreed with, btw) opinions, based on their appearance! So I flung myself into the fray, and spent the rest of the day trying to cool down. Not with any notable success, btw :(

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ORIGINAL: MzPam

goodness do I have to calll you ??? I have been having alittle fun on the whats the pro domme thing about lmao did you know I would be in better health if I lost weight ? awwwwsome concept

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RE: Your PERFECT sub - 4/6/2006 3:45:00 PM

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No, he and I have a history of him complaining whenever I write about what I am looking for in a D/s relationship. His perception is that because My slave won't be whipped or whatever criteria cloudboy goes by, that My slave is not getting anything out of the relationship. He does it every time, and to be honest it's getting tiresome.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Smythe

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Where in the rules does it say that D/s has to be about BDSM?

There are a lot of submissives who live to serve a Dominant; that's what they want, what they crave. Just because that's not what you want in a D/s relationship, does that mean that others who want something different than you, are wrong? Hon, you don't have to want what I am offering... .heck, you don't even have to understand it. You walk a different path, and that's terrific. More power to you! But why do you have this need to criticize ME, because I am not offering what you want?

quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Ladymorgan,

You say "the sub of My dreams thinks I am absolutely wonderful." What is it about you and what you have to offer that would make a sub feel that way? An urge to clean your home because it lighten's your load, rubbing your feet, and feeling lucky that he gets to meet your family and friends doesn't seem very inspirational to me. Rather, it strikes me as a combination of unpaid labor and social escort duties. In my world, this is a far cry from BDSM.

Lady Morgynn, I didn't actually read that as criticism, as much as an alternate point of view.

Anyway, after reading the various lovely lists, it seems that only MH has found her ideal. Does anyone else who is writing here actually possess their ideal submissive? i.e. does he really exist?

Smythe

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