littlesarbonn
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Joined: 12/3/2005 From: Stockton, California Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta Thank you MistressLorelei! I know this to be true. A woman must feel comfortable with her power to command this type of attention. That type of woman, in itself is what motivates him into action. That IS his reward. Now say YES MAAM LittleSarbonn because I KNOW you agree with that! A "Yes Maam" is quite easy here for me because you definitely understand my motivations and feelings on the subject and have for many years, I might add. For the most part, I've been generally staying out of this thread because it was all about what a dominant seeks in a perfect sub, and I didn't feel I really had all that much to add. But I do find it important to point out to the guy complaining that such argumentation is a lot like religious debate. Just because he has never experienced an extreme of this lifestyle or know those that live it does not mean that such people do not exist. I've had the pleasure of being close to many submissives in my time (both males and females), and the desire to serve can transcend levels that he may not even imagine are possible. We used to have an organization called The Submissive Treehouse that used to discuss the levels of submission and how different people seek different things. A few of us were abnormal in our desires, living almost to the very edge of serving with our basic need: To serve a woman's personal needs and desires as the main emotion of pleasure itself. It is very hard to describe this pleasure and emotion to someone who needs a more tactile response to his or her desire to submit, and quite often we're questioned to the point where the other person just can't understand. There is also another level of submission that many who say the same things I tend to say exist. It is a group of people who have never served to the edge of being a dominant's every desire, but think they want that. Then they achieve it and discover that they are much like the complainer in this thread purports to be. I see that happen a lot, and it brings about quite a bit of frustration to dominants who think they have found the perfect sub, only to realize he or she wasn't lying to her, but to himself instead, believing he was capable of something until he had to actually live up to it. It's strange, but for those that desire to be that type of submissive, one never knows whether or not he or she is really comfortable with that life until one lives it. Fortunately for me, I have achieved it in the past, and I realized that it is what makes me tick. Others I have known did not fair so well. Some left the community completely, realizing that they did not want to exist in an environment where they could not be what they thought they could be only a short time before. I apologize for taking up so much space to say this, but I felt it necessary as it is one of the few subjects on submission to which I have explored most of my life, and it bothers me to constantly hear someone talk about it as if he understands it when what he understands is that he wouldn't be comfortable with it.
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