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sirsholly -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 1:54:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kingbeef31

My Bad......................Next time I'll tie her up and watch Big Ben sodomize an unsuspecting groupy  [sm=crop.gif]....................Is that better?.......[sm=dancer.gif]
i'd rather watch basketball....[:'(]




Focus50 -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 2:12:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kingbeef31

I am curious to know, what people think about having the television on while playtime happens.  The reason I'm asking is because the other day, an NBA playoff game was on while I was spanking someone.  As I was enjoying paddling that hiney, the game became extremely interesting.  It forced me to stop for a second, get a beer, chips, salsa, & a sandwich.  [sm=skiprope.gif]  My lovely sub was left tied and gagged while I sat next to her cheering for my favorite team.  Needless to say, she was a bit pissed...........I made it up to her later that evening [sm=bust.gif][sm=bust.gif][sm=bust.gif].  But the question of having the television on while playing has been on her mind.............Is this something that I should worry about?  Have I become addicted to the idiot box again?  Will this hinder my future experiences........... [sm=banana.gif]

No, no, no - a bit of soft mood music is one thing but I generally don't like distractions. And really, as the one in charge, you should have your priorities worked out better than that.

Mind you, many years ago when I didn't know about dom-space, I thought it'd be a good idea to watch my footy team play while the girl was hogtied on the carpet in front of me. This was a *planned* scene (she hated footy). Turned out my team won, I just couldn't recall too many details - and the whole 90 minutes of it went by in a blink. She loved it, too, and while I also enjoyed the scene, I was confused for awhile as to what actually did happen (to me).

So a lesson was learned - *record* whatever it is I'm "watching" next time I include the girl being all trussed up....

Focus.




pompeii -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 2:22:12 PM)

IMHO, the whole thing is about HER, not you, therefore, the focus is on her.

Having said that, I always wanted to be in my office, working on a project, with a nice subbie below the heavy oaken desk sucking on my cock as I attended to my work.

Something special about that ...




Andalusite -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 3:38:52 PM)

I find the TV distracting during scenes, but it wouldn't be a hard limit, especially if he played with me a bit during the commercials or whatever.




Jeffff -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 4:40:19 PM)

A rerun of Soul Train would give you the best of both worlds.

A little TV to keep your attention and some music to drown out the bitches whineing about the TV




domiguy -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 4:46:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pompeii

IMHO, the whole thing is about HER, not you, therefore, the focus is on her.

Having said that, I always wanted to be in my office, working on a project, with a nice subbie below the heavy oaken desk sucking on my cock as I attended to my work.

Something special about that ...



Are you a sub? Nice of your Domme to blow you under your desk. (imho)




Level -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 5:00:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

A rerun of Soul Train would give you the best of both worlds.

A little TV to keep your attention and some music to drown out the bitches whineing about the TV


I'd like to hire Don Cornelius to do play by play while I'm screwing:

Ummmmhmmmmm............... Level is sloooooooowing it down...... got his groooove going.....ummmhmmmm....brothers tapping it..... he's got saaaaaOOOOOOOOOOUlllllll....... ummmmhmmmm....




SailingBum -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 5:49:11 PM)

Yea whats the dif between watching tv or the tunes on???  I had this one girl who would start blowing me as I was talking on the phone that was one of her "trademarks".  I could have told her to stop...  Just cuz the OP wasnt a fan of the tube on whilst getting her eyeballs screwed back outta place does not mean it offends someone else.

More to the point assume she is the sub she serves at the dom's pleasure.  So it shouldn't matter what he is doing.

BadOne




NuevaVida -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/9/2010 10:34:16 PM)

I don't see it as a big deal.  He was watching hockey the other night while using me as an ottoman and toying with me during commercials.  Other than my legs cramping up, it was cool.  He's had me blindfolded and gagged while he watched football before, played with me during halftime and "put me away' again for the rest of the game.  I thought it was cool he could enjoy me like that.

I get plenty of attention.  I don't need to demand it when he wants to watch his sports.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 3:56:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I played with some guy while listening to the Car Guys show on NPR. He didn't have any objections. Not that I would have cared. [;)]



I love Car Talk! Click and Clack, the Tappit brothers! You must have been laughing the whole time!




DesFIP -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 4:08:47 AM)

When we play in a hotel, the tv is on to muffle the noise. Personally I find it distracting. But he's able to multitask; spank and watch, or play with me lightly to keep me involved and then ramp it up during commercials. But it's hotter if he tells me as he brings me to the edge and then stops that I have to wait because the show is on again.

How much does it take to tweak her nipples absentmindedly while you watch?




sunshinemiss -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 4:11:49 AM)

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I am curious to know, what people think about having the television on while playtime happens.


Well, I can't concentrate when the television is on. It's just reality for me. That wouldn't work. Not because I have some "Oh pay attention to me" thing going on, but because I seriously can't move my eyes off the tube, can't move my mind off the words that are happening (presuming it is in a language I understand).

When I was working in a field in which I visited people's homes, I always had to ask people to turn off their televisions. No concentration on anything but the tube for me. Sorry. Same is true for music ... if it is words I know, I can't switch my concentration. Non-word music is better for me or music in a language I don't know. I just can't split my concentration like that.

Best,
sunshine




JstAnotherSub -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 3:07:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kingbeef31

Now I'm really curious.................is the firestorm because I was watching a game?  Would the responses be any different if it were The View or Grey's Anatomy?.....................[sm=LMAO.gif]
shudder...the view? who the hell could even think about something sexual with them cacklin hens in the background....

shudder again




littlewonder -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 3:58:19 PM)

Master's been known to bind me and go off to watch a game, work on his computer, clean up a little, etc...his choice and I can't say I mind all that much. It can be pretty relaxing sometimes.




LadyAngelika -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 4:04:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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I am curious to know, what people think about having the television on while playtime happens.


Well, I can't concentrate when the television is on. It's just reality for me. That wouldn't work. Not because I have some "Oh pay attention to me" thing going on, but because I seriously can't move my eyes off the tube, can't move my mind off the words that are happening (presuming it is in a language I understand).

When I was working in a field in which I visited people's homes, I always had to ask people to turn off their televisions. No concentration on anything but the tube for me. Sorry. Same is true for music ... if it is words I know, I can't switch my concentration. Non-word music is better for me or music in a language I don't know. I just can't split my concentration like that.

Best,
sunshine


I think you and I are very similar this way. I'm extremely sensitive to sound and background noise tends to distract my attention. That said, I pick up sounds others don't.

- LA




silentsteps -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 4:51:27 PM)

As long as he doesn't mind if I nap the next time I am being thoroughly flogged (so darned relaxing) ... I say go for it. 




Andalusite -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 5:55:39 PM)

sunshinemiss, wouldn't an ipod with instrumental music and a blindfold fix that? [;)] Seriously, I agree that I tend to get too distracted to really get into a scene, but for light stuff, it's fine. It is one of those things that has made me feel used and objectified a bit, generally in a positive way. If we were *only* playing with the TV on, that would get a bit irritating eventually, I think.




pompeii -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 6:19:34 PM)

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Are you a sub? Nice of your Domme to blow you under your desk. (imho)


I'm neither a sub nor a Dom ... I consider myself a pleasure Top (only I really don't get into the case stuff).

I prefer my lady friends bound, restrained, used, and enjoyed - for their pleasure and mine. Service subs are best as their fulfillment matches my needs.

Having said that, it's only in the boudoir that my predilections arise ...

Why do you ask?




littlegirlangel -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/10/2010 10:15:05 PM)

I would have been upset if Daddy did that to me. I don't like music or the tv on while in a scene,  it tends to distract me and gives me a reason to call yellow or red sooner than I really need to. It also distracts Daddy and enhances his ADD which really can make for a bad scene. 




crazyml -> RE: Having the Television on while playing (5/11/2010 6:51:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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Needless to say, she was a bit pissed..........
how would you feel if you were screwing her while she chatted on her cell phone?

I would have been a little more than pissed. Of course...you wouldn't have been too happy either with the chips, salsa and beer deposited in you lap as you watched me walk out the door.



For God's sake, holly, keep it down.  The game is on.



Quality interjection, I salute you sir!




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