CarrieO
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ORIGINAL: subartist I'm sure it isn't always so unknowingly, and that women are often aware of their subtle power. I think that maybe, at least for me, a woman's natural dominance is sexual in an immediate way. For you, yes. For others, maybe not. Funny how that "individual" thing works. You can control a man because you are a woman, and there is this desire. What about a man who isn't sexually attracted to me who feels no desire and yet is willing to do something for me simply because I ask? Is that control? Is that manipulation? Or, is that just one person doing for another? As you said, just being pleasant, it feels good to be around a woman, if a woman smiles at me in passing it can make my whole day. But it is a kind of sexual desire, maybe. Maybe...maybe not. Maybe it's you who has confused feeling a sense of pleasure from being helpful or being show kindness by a woman with sexual desire. Do you feel this way when a not-so-pretty-and-very-plain woman smiles at you in passing? And there is a kind of inward desire as well. That maybe a man will naturally want to make a woman happy, because of how it makes him feel about himself, pleasing her to please himself. But now I'm thinking in riddles... Ohhhh, that's a riddle I'd love to solve! But, is that inward desire sexually based or does it come from somewhere else? Is it the same for everyone? I think that there is another, deeper kind of dominance that has to do with personality, but I think it never seizes to be based on a natural sexual desire. Again, it would depend on what turns on your submissive switch, in my opinion. Some men are very attracted to a dominant personality that kicks in their sexual desire and some men are sexually/visually driven in their desire to show submission.
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