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MissAbby -> RE: Are you the PERFECT domme? (8/5/2006 7:21:16 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Real0ne
What is it that makes you the lifestyle domme that so many subs drool to be with.
Mostly becauSe I aM a jeaneus. I have Great Ksills in Edujducational endeavors. I can Use them to educate teh slave.
Also I knoe a lot about spcychological things. Do you know the Briggs Meyers test??? See, I have already edjuctated you if yo did not know this. It is a spcyholocigal profile and I can USe this to menatally undersantad the submissive mind. I am quite Clever ik this way.
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What do you offer a sub that makes you worth their time. especially those who want slaves, tell us how you take care of them. what do they get out of it if things go bad 5? 10? 20? years up the road? financial? emotional? physical? retirement? personal? daily life?
you axe a lot of questions, RealOne. I plan on Marrying My slave so this will be not onyl financial protection, but also a lifetime of punishment. Plus Vlad will get a visa so that has got to count for Something.
"What do they get out of it if things go bad?" Well, there is no "they" because I am not a polyandry kind Of Girl.
What does he get out of it if things go bad?
Finacnially, that depends on How good of A divorce Lawyer he has, I suppose.
Emotionally, A divorce is suckage so I think that would be difficult on B/both of U/us. Sloave or not, it would be diffiCult on anyone.
Physically, he would have been trained to be a sex xlave so he would HOPEfully have listend to My advice and be in beauTiful physical shape.
Rteirement, he would not have a retirement account... he better have a good lawyer, eh?
Personal, the pseronal fun of being a sumbissive. Don't you think that is a fun and inTeresting way to live life? That's what he should get out of it. But if it is over then it is over... but there would be a personal leraning experience. Good memmories.
Daily life, well, if things go bad then he would NOt have Me in his daily laife which would make him sad. I would be sad too to not have Me in My daily life, but thankfuLly that will not happen.
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what are your responsibilities toward your sub/slave? switch if applicable?
Responsibilities of Ownership, of course. I already Own a dog. I make shure he is fed, has clean water, trim his nails, cut his fur, give him Medication when he is sick, take him to the vet, make sure his dog tags are up-to-date and take him fof walks. I think Owning a slave will be similar, expect I hope I don't have to trim his nails and he can do that himself. Also I would take him to the doctor and not to a vet.
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Every domme will tell us that they will "take care of all our needs" what do you feel those needs are. (generically speaking)
I think..... that.... needs are very emotiaonll, intellectual and phsycial. I am very concerned with the emotioaanl growht of the slave. he would have a Fantasy Journal to write down his desires-- emotional and scene orientated. he would have to write in this Journal every week. Scenes would be important, ov course.
Intellectual, I would want him to keep up with world events and maybe even read something like The Economist. Also I have a fondness for theoretical social books like Generations by Strauss and Howe. he would be brutally forced to read stuff like that. And dixcuss it.
Physically, he would be a sex slave so he would have to Train the Body to be sexy.
Also for emotional-- it is very important for a slave to be in the MIndset of a slave. I would have to be quite clever and figure out Good Ways to make him be in the slave mindset throughout the day. This mental development would be fulfilling to explore. he might have an alter of Respect that he would recite a mantra everyday about how he Is a slave and completely Devoted to Me. This sychological devleopment is an important need to fulfill.
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So now you found the perfect sub as described in the other thread so tell us how you intend to make a perfect life together and what does the sub get out of it.
curiouser and curiouser, eh, RealOne. My perfect life of being married to the perfect sub would probably mean that I work full time in the bidness world and he works only part-time and trains himself to be sexy and serve Me the rest of the time. In My fantasy life, he sleeps on the floor and wakes Me up in the morning with a dutiful greeting and a hot latte. he would make My lunch and maybe even My dinner because I would be working soooo hard. Then I come home and he draws My bath. And life is good.
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From my experience they typically offer me a nice mortgage bill(my name is not on the deed), car payments (her name her car), insurance bills(both), utility bills(both), all the housework, child care(theirs), finally a little kink with here a spank there a spank once in a while or the other extreme of bdsm obsession that is so caustraphobic, limiting and depressing that i could puke.
If you don't like it, then it doesn't sound like a match. Of course, if you like this kind of degrading treatment, then Go for it.
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Is that really what being a sub or slave to someone is all about? Is that really all that there is out here?
Well, there is always... ummmm... mind control. Hahahahh.. hmmm...
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So dommes, stand up and be counted!
So bossy, RealOne. *ahem* Good think I like to count. Plus being a jeaneus I can count really high.
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What do you have to offer that perfect sub/slave/it, whatever, that you want to collar?
When I am ready for the Perfect slave, I can offer kinky sex. And mindgames. And servile dedication. And The Economist. That's plenty of punishment.
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