LadyNTrainer
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Sounds like what you want to some extent is age play, and it's definitely appropriate to clearly discuss and negotiate that beforehand. Otherwise it is disconcerting as hell when your partner whips that out on you and you aren't emotionally prepared to be in enough of a parenting or caretaking space to deal with a "little" as opposed to the adult partner you were expecting. And yes, it would probably annoy me immensely if it were not discussed and negotiated beforehand that you wanted to go into "little space" while doing foot worship, if you already knew beforehand that you were likely to go into this space. Sometimes "little" headspace can show up and surprise someone in the course of a scene, and catch you both unprepared. But if you want and plan to go into it, you have the responsibility to state this up front, and your partner has the absolute right to know and consent to this beforehand. Some people are not comfortable playing with "littles" because even the appearance of being sexual with a child or a childlike person is deeply uncomfortable to them, even if that person is physically an adult. Respect those boundaries and disclose to your partner ahead of time that you want to baby-talk and be "little" for part of all of the scene, so that they are mentally and emotionally prepared to relate to your inner "little self", and fully consenting to this scene. If they aren't, then they probably will be freaked out, upset or annoyed.
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