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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/4/2010 7:31:46 PM

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See, it doesn't matter if anyone else finds it annoying.
She finds it annoying.
That is what is important.
Why are you here trying to justify something that she doesn't like?
Why are your wants more important than hers?

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/4/2010 9:51:14 PM

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Why in the fuck do female subs show photos of their feet? No Dom guy gives a flying fuck about your feet. If he does he is a subby in a dom's mandals.

hmmm. i've had THREE male Doms ask to see my feet, painted toenails and all.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 3:25:41 AM

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See, it doesn't matter if anyone else finds it annoying.
She finds it annoying.
That is what is important.
Why are you here trying to justify something that she doesn't like?
Why are your wants more important than hers?

I'm thinking the same thing here. I'm wondering actually, based on our OP's recent posting pattern, why he feels the need to validate everything his Domme says to him with the CM community. Isn't her authority enough?

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 3:53:11 AM

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lurch999, I thought I was one of the most tolerant people on earth, but your mistress has me beat hands down...no contest.

If someone who was mine came online to have others give their opinions on everything I did, I'd be locking his computer away in some small storage shed, along with his XBox...at the very least.

Either she doesn't come to these forums, or else you are one lucky bottom to have been claimed by someone so kind and patient with you.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 4:03:54 AM

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Per MistressXBox's post on the 'What would you do in this situation' thread, I thought she'd 'released' the OP from the relationship. Apparently, though, that's back on again, and the OP's new avatar confirms that.

Personally, I think they need their heads banging together.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 4:14:38 AM

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Per MistressXBox's post on the 'What would you do in this situation' thread, I thought she'd 'released' the OP from the relationship. Apparently, though, that's back on again, and the OP's new avatar confirms that.

Personally, I think they need their heads banging together.

That's what I'm thinking too. Some people feed of discord and drama.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 8:10:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

See, it doesn't matter if anyone else finds it annoying.
She finds it annoying.
That is what is important.
Why are you here trying to justify something that she doesn't like?
Why are your wants more important than hers?

I'm thinking the same thing here. I'm wondering actually, based on our OP's recent posting pattern, why he feels the need to validate everything his Domme says to him with the CM community. Isn't her authority enough?

- LA

Either that, or a cute little internet meme comes to mind:

Obvious troll is obvious.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 9:07:01 AM

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lurch999, I thought I was one of the most tolerant people on earth, but your mistress has me beat hands down...no contest.

If someone who was mine came online to have others give their opinions on everything I did, I'd be locking his computer away in some small storage shed, along with his XBox...at the very least.

Either she doesn't come to these forums, or else you are one lucky bottom to have been claimed by someone so kind and patient with you.

Put me in line right with you Cynthia! I've had people I was considering a relationship with that went to others and did their little manipulative games or complaining and my response was not... oh he needs some advice, it's all fair and good that he has the right or ability to talk things out with someone. No, it was more like, pit one against the others, compare and complain to manipulate, arrange and prove a point that is something in MY LIFE. First of all, anyone with me or trying to be with me that cannot work something out with me and needs others to get it worked out or influence it... isn't the right kind of relationship for me. I am not answering to the community at large for life situations! lol I'm a fucking dominant woman with a strong personality and personal strengths and if I can't determine what is good for us and how to make it work, I sure as hell am not going to do what others would do or want me to do. I will continue to do it my way... sing it Frankie baby! We aren't a good fit!

That doesn't mean I won't look at what I do, see mistakes or area's where I need to consider or make changes or no accountability. It does mean I will evaluate things and act as a reasonable adult. But I am not reasonable in certain area's and shouldn't have to be. Some things I won't tolerate.

If that is impatience or unreasonable, I guess I will remain so, because no one tells me how to live my life, especially a man who holds the position of selfishness, so misunderstood and treated badly that he has to piss and moan in public settings. See ya!

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 9:17:18 AM

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As for talking to my feet or talking at me like that... you bet it's annoying and it sure wouldn't continue! I didn't think baby like talk was cute at any point in life. To subject me to it while trying to play with my feet... someone is getting kicked. It doesn't matter what body part it is!

Oh, cute lil toes of an angel... look hows pretty theys is... oh so kissy kissy pooh... oh you're so beautiful my princess of the toes.

God... give me a break.

I had a bf once that stood and posed by the door and baby talked while his hand went to his penis and he baby talked and asked if I wanted to see it. NO!... It took me right back to fifth grade and behind the math building, were so and so and this and that, tried to convince me I wanted to see the lil thing in their pants. Needless to say, my bf didn't get a great response from me and didn't last long and so and so and this and that got beat up. (They didn't like it.)

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 10:01:59 AM

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I just want to make one point that nobody seemed to mention, and that is that didn't even sound like baby talk, at all...it sounded like Gollum!!

http://www.awn.com/files/imagepicker/1/gollum03_Gollum_goodRen.jpg

http://www.warofthering.net/images/newsimages/gollum.jpg

http://z.about.com/d/politicalhumor/1/0/r/1/bush_gollum.jpg

http://www.freakingnews.com/pictures/31000/LOTR-Gollum-as-female--31419.jpg

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 10:04:57 AM

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OMG! ROFLMAO!

That's exactly how I see it!

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 11:08:45 AM

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Oh, cute lil toes of an angel... look hows pretty theys is... oh so kissy kissy pooh... oh you're so beautiful my princess of the toes.

God... give me a break.

OMG, You are so funny!!

Seriously, that sort of behavior is so squicky and would bug the shit outta me. But i guess if he gave me a good foot massage, i could put on some music and listen to IT while i suck it up. lol

To the OP.....are you really TRYING to get your Mistress to kick you to the curb, or what? Wasn't the X-Box incident enough? Do you not care that she doesn't like it? What's up?

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 11:11:53 AM

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Obvious troll is obvious.

I lost my trollbait virginity, but I still have the xBox it came in.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 11:23:30 AM

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The only thing that matters is what she thinks about it and why you are doing it.

Every other opinion voiced here really isn't important in the final analysis.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 11:41:29 AM

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Lurch999,

Tolkien withdrawal, at your partner's feet no less. Were I your dominant, yes, this would annoy me to no end. But...

--- Ma'am doesn't find it offensive but sometimes
--- it does get on Her nerves. Ma'am says that baby
--- talk, while perfectly acceptable for babies or pets,
--- may not be the most respectful way to speak to
--- one's Domme, or Her body parts.

...this would annoying me far more. You already know your dominant doesn't like it so why waste time asking us? Ignoring your dominant's wishes, in my experience, isn't a great way to ingratiate yourself with her.

--- i also wonder if it could be considered objectifying...

This depends on how your dominant feels about the matter. None of us can answer this for her.

--- especially because i am supposed to be the object.

If objectification is something the two of you enjoy and have consented to share together (with you being the "object"), then I agree with your statement. In the general sense though, BDSM doesn't dictate that slaves, submissives, bottom types, etc. are objectified. The dominant types I know prefer their partners to be courteous, intelligent, well rounded people who behave as is appropriate to a given situation and time. I know dominants who don't mind (and, for that matter, who greatly enjoy) being treated in slutty, objectified ways, when that is their mood. Context. Timing. Communication. These three things are crucial in helping you determine what dynamics and behavior are appropriate at a given instant. For example, at the right time and with the right person, baby talk might be appropriate.

General rule of thumb: you really cannot go wrong approaching your dominant with courtesy, open ears, and a willingness to communicate and follow-through. Acting appropriately, when your dominant expresses a certain desire, also tends to garner high marks. Therefore, when your dominant says "we need to save money so I'd prefer you not buy video games this month", a great response might be, "Ma'am, after you expressed your wishes, I opened a short-term, term-deposit account and put my extra money in there to earn higher than normal interest". Or, you could ask your dominant for advice on how to put your money away for safe keeping. Something of this ilk lets your dominant know you heard them, appreciate their advice, and are working toward the same goals they are.

Elan.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 11:48:03 AM

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LA,

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LadyAngelika:
I'm wondering actually, based on our OP's recent posting pattern, why he feels the need to validate everything his Domme says to him with the CM community. Isn't her authority enough?

Silly girlie. The DBH (Definitive BDSM Handbook) says every action of a dominant must be validated with at least ten people who are external to the situation and who have no idea what is actually going on. Geesh. I'm gonna' revoke your Domme card if you keep posting like this.

E.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 11:49:06 AM

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thetammyjo:
The only thing that matters is what she thinks about it and why you are doing it. Every other opinion voiced here really isn't important in the final analysis.

+1

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 12:02:02 PM

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Silly girlie. The DBH (Definitive BDSM Handbook) says every action of a dominant must be validated with at least ten people who are external to the situation and who have no idea what is actually going on. Geesh. I'm gonna' revoke your Domme card if you keep posting like this.

*Chortle*

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 12:30:41 PM

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PeonForHer,

--- *Chortle*

'Twould make a great sound effect in an Xbox game. Think about it: "Begone you scurvy vermin!" *swings sword* "Chortle, chortle, chortle."

E.

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RE: Would this be annoying to you? - 6/5/2010 12:43:19 PM

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I think you need a *cackle* rather than a *chortle* for that.

PS: You have cmail, matey!

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