dreamerdreaming
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My issue here is that she cheated on that ex with the OP That's not totally correct. Yes, I knew about the relationship before we met in person. I also made it clear at the time I found out that she would have to end it if and when we met in person. The meeting was set, she broke up with the ex, and we met, in that order. OP, you are culpable. The two of you were involved in sneaking around behind the BF's back, enough to get to know each other (online and phone, presumably) and then set up a meeting to look into involving yourselves realtime. Only then did she break up with the ex. She wasn't honest with him, so there's no reasonable expectation of honesty with you- as she's aready shown you, by being dishonest with you. Its not rocket science. I don't care who you fuck- go right ahead. Knock yourself out. You're preying on a teenager, who's preying on you. Mutual use is fine, as long as you both agree to it and know what you're getting yourselves into. Do you both??? The more denial and dishonesty going on, the less chance of a good outcome over time, for you both. Own up to your part, in the deception. Man up. You're no better than the mixed up baby adult you're using, who's using you.
< Message edited by dreamerdreaming -- 7/3/2010 2:41:49 PM >
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