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ORIGINAL: southernsultry

Question of the day...why do Doms send photos of themselves with other submissives? (Chained,  roped, masked..etc...?) Is that for their benefit or mine? I honestly hope to find a Dom that respects that the only person I want to see chained to him, well, is me:))

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ORIGINAL: adx

perhaps just showing them self's in there natural environment. I've never sent picture of my self to anyone ever. Absolutely no one Ive meet has been remotely close to interesting enough but if I did chose to they better be dam happy they got anything at all if they couldn't be happy getting to see me then they can move on I would have no further need of them I wouldn't send anything vulgar mind but if theirs a girl in it even on a leash so the fuck what it means nothing and as far as I can see it should affect nothing.  

not trying to sound aggressive though it might but I don't really care so... meh

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realwhi

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ORIGINAL: southernsultry

*Awesome answers from everyone....I was beginning to think it was "just me" but sending me pics of your former subs, cars, bikes, boats...)..major turnoff for me too. It's as if we are so shallow that all we are submissives for is because of material items or seeing how the were with another sub? Men are from Mars, we, Venus:) That simple, lol

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

oh yeah, the motorcycles and cars is another one!!! I'd much rather see a photo of the person than their car...why do I care what their car or bike looks like? I do NOT get it.

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

oh yeah, the motorcycles and cars is another one!!! I'd much rather see a photo of the person than their car...why do I care what their car or bike looks like? I do NOT get it.

Perhaps that's the better looking model.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

You should be glad the do it. You know who to stay away from.

It's the same as women that post pics of their labia being stretched out like taffy, their faces covered in cum with dicks plundering every hole.

You can immediately place them in the appropriate category.

The "I gotta meet this girl, now!!!" category. lol.

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

Oh I assume it is! And I always turn out to be right. 

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

Oh I assume it is! And I always turn out to be right. 

I've noticed that women aren't generally as forthcoming about this subject as men are. I rarely encounter women that will admit their interest or preference for a handsome partner. I'm uncertain if this hinges on the idea of being perceived as shallow, but it would seem we're pretty tight lipped about it for the most part.

~porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

You are SO awesome and totally right. *I* have noticed, and largely from male friends, that women can be quite rudely attacked over their stated preference for a handsome partner.

Yet, when do you *ever* hear a woman bitching at a man for being 'shallow'? lol It would be laughable, and she would be attacked over it!

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It's another item that goes into my mental bag of reasons why the entire paradigm is fucked and I don't want any part of it.

I demand equality between men and women and notice people in general don't often seem to speak up for it, even when the situation calls for it.

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Just my bitchy 2c.

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ORIGINAL: southernsultry

Question of the day...why do Doms send photos of themselves with other submissives? (Chained,  roped, masked..etc...?) Is that for their benefit or mine? I honestly hope to find a Dom that respects that the only person I want to see chained to him, well, is me:))
Respectfully,
Sultry

PS. Any advice would be awesome:))

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ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer

Because a picture is worth a thousand words. We men will jump through hoops to woo a woman. If we get it in our heads that the only way to impress you is to prove we are experienced at tying people to crosses, then voila.. we will produce a picture of ourselves tying someone to cross.

Of course there is also the added element of planting the seed in your mind ... "see .. this could be you".

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The differences between she and I is that I admit it and pay no attention to those that find it offensive. That's their problem not mine. We all have preferences. Such is life.

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One can play the game or augment the rules to suit yourself instead. I like what I like and make no apology for such. Oftentimes the biggest decries are from other women rather than the opposite sex. We're quick to label someone as shallow or money grubbing when we're silently coveting the same.

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ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer
Because a picture is worth a thousand words. We men will jump through hoops to woo a woman. If we get it in our heads that the only way to impress you is to prove we are experienced at tying people to crosses, then voila.. we will produce a picture of ourselves tying someone to cross.

Of course there is also the added element of planting the seed in your mind ... "see .. this could be you".

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ORIGINAL: southernsultry

Question of the day...why do Doms send photos of themselves with other submissives? (Chained,  roped, masked..etc...?) Is that for their benefit or mine? I honestly hope to find a Dom that respects that the only person I want to see chained to him, well, is me:))
Respectfully,
Sultry

PS. Any advice would be awesome:))

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer
Because a picture is worth a thousand words. We men will jump through hoops to woo a woman. If we get it in our heads that the only way to impress you is to prove we are experienced at tying people to crosses, then voila.. we will produce a picture of ourselves tying someone to cross.

Of course there is also the added element of planting the seed in your mind ... "see .. this could be you".

While I understand this, it doesn't work that way for a woman. So the question turns out to be more of why do men use tactics for getting a woman that aren't based on what women respond to? Why do men persist in looking at things through the eye of the pursuer (themselves) and not the prey (women)? If a man isn't looking for another man I'd say he'd do better and be more successful if he'd think more of what entices a woman...not himself.

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

I don't know which makes me  more, the ones with photos of them with other women or the ones where you only see the hair or a disembodied arm or what must have been a past lover. My all time favourites though are when it is their wedding photo that they have cropped 

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer
Because a picture is worth a thousand words. We men will jump through hoops to woo a woman. If we get it in our heads that the only way to impress you is to prove we are experienced at tying people to crosses, then voila.. we will produce a picture of ourselves tying someone to cross.

Of course there is also the added element of planting the seed in your mind ... "see .. this could be you".

While I understand this, it doesn't work that way for a woman. So the question turns out to be more of why do men use tactics for getting a woman that aren't based on what women respond to? Why do men persist in looking at things through the eye of the pursuer (themselves) and not the prey (women)? If a man isn't looking for another man I'd say he'd do better and be more successful if he'd think more of what entices a woman...not himself.

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ORIGINAL: southernsultry
Question of the day...why do Doms send photos of themselves with other submissives? (Chained,  roped, masked..etc...?) Is that for their benefit or mine? I honestly hope to find a Dom that respects that the only person I want to see chained to him, well, is me:))
Respectfully,
Sultry
PS. Any advice would be awesome:))