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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 4:15:11 PM

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Yup, he is quite the charmer. Keep laughing at him, maybe he will go away.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 4:24:50 PM

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I have a pic of me in my car. I am not trying to impress anyone with it. I am not trying to show anything but that classic cars are one of my hobbies. I also have pics of my dogs and I might put up pics of my garden. I would not send a pic of me with a former "friend" or lover.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 4:50:47 PM

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exactly the same reason I put up pics of my dogs, because they belong to me and I am proud of what I have made of them. Doms get shit either way, no girl in the pic means he has no women and is a fake, pics of women won't do because the only sub you want to see there is you.
You don't think that's shallow, egotistical, presumptive or just plain arrogant?
What makes you think any Dom would be so keen to have pictures of you?
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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 4:51:45 PM

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Some people are just players, and not in the mind-game sense. In my locality most of the BDSM "scene" is focused on S&M and "playing." Most people aren't looking for that deep connection. It seems like BDSM is a sport or a social activity. It is a huge assumption that the women in these pics are "past subs" and not some one that he just happened to tieup/cane/flog/whip/fuck that night. If we don't limit the frame of the discussion to only people looking for deep D/s relationships, this behavior makes more sense. If you ONLY look at doms who are seeking a deep connection and a lasting relationship and say so up front, I would suggest that this doesn't occur regularly.

As to why a dom would contact some one who isn't compatible... I'm sure that has been discussed to exhaustion.

Good point! I'd never seen it that way. *Some* of these guys have on their profiles like 5 pictures of different women surrounding his penis in different positions lol...some you don't even see *him* in, so I'm not sure what the point is at all..it's just porn nothing to do with him even...

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 5:03:04 PM

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Doms get shit either way, no girl in the pic means he has no women and is a fake, pics of women won't do because the only sub you want to see there is you.
You don't think that's shallow, egotistical, presumptive or just plain arrogant?

Of course not, because not one single person has complained about getting a picture of 'just him' in it. Have you find a single thread about that?

What is shallow, egotistical or presumptive? That doesn't even follow.

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What makes you think any Dom would be so keen to have pictures of you?

What does this even mean?

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My bitches, both kinds, could be relied upon to rip any other man who laid a hand on them to pieces.

What does *this* even mean? Although, I must admit, I am glad to hear you take the moral highground over us, and then call your women "bitches".

Classic.

Excuse me while I

more. I'm getting so dizzy from so much of it that in fact I may faint...

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 5:07:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: wpf0027

I have a pic of me in my car. I am not trying to impress anyone with it. I am not trying to show anything but that classic cars are one of my hobbies. I also have pics of my dogs and I might put up pics of my garden. I would not send a pic of me with a former "friend" or lover.

That's probably because you are respectful towards women in general.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 5:40:11 PM

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Yea but it shouldn't. if some one is so dumb and small minded they cant just accept the picture and keep going with the conversations the cunts probably to dumb to be worth the time any way.

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I don't mind pics of guys with their car/boat/motorcycle if that is what they are into (my Fet profile has lots of pics of toys, because I made them) but pics of other people, esp other females, are definitely a turn off for me. I usually wonder if they have permission to post those pics here, as we recently had one guy whose profile was full of humiliating pics of a girl.
In the profile, he bragged that he posted them because she had the gall to break up with him *shudder*

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:00:33 PM

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I can't help it, every time I see that photo or your sigline I think of this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUnGXTjmc9E&feature=PlayList&p=CE13263C8E123EEB&playnext=1&index=33

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:08:59 PM

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They really are. Like the fact that he both uses the word 'cunts' but also forgets the correct punctuation ..and the hypocrisy of calling people 'dumb and small minded' in the same sentence...oh I could go on and on..

You know that's pretty hot when the packaging is spot on. Just saying.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:22:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I can't help it, every time I see that photo or your sigline I think of this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUnGXTjmc9E&feature=PlayList&p=CE13263C8E123EEB&playnext=1&index=33

OMG! Thanks for sharing! My childhood did not include educational cartoons like this one...I can't imagine what else I may have missed.

As for me, I just figured that realwhiteknight needed a real-life model for a Bûche de Noël, which is why she's carrying a log. In making up my own explanation, I resolve the issue without troubling her for an explanation which she may not care to divulge.

Either way, I accept her for her beauty, wisdom and wit!

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:34:32 PM

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I asked a few last night, because im curious and i mostly got back, to show you what im into, if you cant do this pose or this thing im not interested.

On the flip side, if i see a couples profile with out both parties that kinda makes me wonder as well.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:43:36 PM

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They do that because they have absolutely no idea how clueless it shows them to be, or how repulsed we'll be.

They're doing you a favor. Like holding a "block and delete me" sign over their head. They're showing you in record time, that you should block/delete/ignore them. They just have no idea that that is what they're doing. I wish every clueless jerk made it as easy to detect and avoid them, as these ones do.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:56:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Consider investing in a computer with a . key. It will make your posts easier to read. And more people would probably read them if you left off the rude terms for women. It's cute in bed, but out of it makes you look as if you can't come up with something more ..... inventive on your own.

love the dragon.

I good sir am way to lazy for that (.)other then sporadically plus it destroys the assholey feel to my posts As for the use of cunt its a rather fun word there so little left one can say that is offensive and a tad shocking nothing gets a rise like calling some one a dumb cunt. articulating my self in a complex or profound manner is simply just not worth it unless its for more the the casual laugh which sadly can not be found here.

the dragon is and old symbol commonly associated with a long dead 15th century ruler of Wallachia

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ORIGINAL: MistressRosalyn

Hey Domi! You have a challenger for your title of "Internet Prick"!

Actually, I take that back...how about "Rude Little Boy who, despite an alleged college education, can't even construct a proper sentence" title?

I could only hope to in one foul swoop become the biggest Dick on this site nothing would please me more. of course I bet Im a much bigger dick in person my behave can be seen as quite the social anti lack of sentence structure has not impeded my education or job actually it never really came up. Its all about orating it seems

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Right, *totally*. I mean, if you were able to not repulse the 8 of us (I'm glad you've counted, I'd assume there are more reading this and not commenting who'd agree with us)- then I am quite sure that we are simply outliers. The rest of the smart, cute women out there, I am certain, are supremely charmed and easily seduced by you. So don't bother taking our advice as you know better.

Good luck and wishes for continued success with women,

RWK

never counted my starry friend just made up a number as im sure you assumed at least I hope you did. Well well well i don't remember ever speaking about any supposed charm I may or may not have with women though its nice to see you make that assumption but please theirs no need for flattery. it is how ever incorrect though I supposes ive never really tried. Im more a offend and repulse kind of guy its much more rewarding then the women ever could be. I found one who wont leave no matter how much a dick I am she actually introduced me to this site said I could get a laugh or to.

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

Keep in mind that our opinions mean nothing, he knows better than we what gets at women's hearts/mind/ladyparts. I am rather sure that his lack of prowess in the field of grammar and punctuation, despite annoying us, is *really* an aphrodisiac.

again please stop the flattery It very kind of you but no matter what you say it not going to get you anywhere. im just not interested

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Yup, he is quite the charmer. Keep laughing at him, maybe he will go away.

unlikely I love to hear laughter

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Post of the day!

glad to see you support and like what I have to say.

there I believe that is a response to everyone now no one will feel left out and you cant say im playing favorites

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 7:18:31 PM

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In the public forum the only pictures of me with anyone are those featuring my wife and I. Originally CM refused to allow me to have it here because my profile isn't for a couple. I do have a selection of Bruin Cottage photos which show both Neets and I with and without our snow dogs both of whom we are inordinately proud. We have photos of us with the odd slave dressed in the correct attire for the period serving or just kneeling in front of us. There are even a few photos of male slaves in livery and powdered wigs serving at a formal dinner where Neets and I as well as guests were in period costume befitting a formal event (Christmas in July). These are our memories and I find no compelling to share them with the public. later perhaps there will come a time when they will be displayed in our Bruin Cottage web site. I am more likely to display photos of me with a variety of floggers I hand make (handles are hand carved) and for those with metal fittings and ornate attachments I cast them in coin silver of bronze. I am proud of what I do and have no hesitation in showing off the equipment I hand make. In some cases it may well attract the people I would have near me as well of course orders for items made to a commercial standard.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 7:48:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I can't help it, every time I see that photo or your sigline I think of this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUnGXTjmc9E&feature=PlayList&p=CE13263C8E123EEB&playnext=1&index=33

hahahaha But. It's really more like this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2WF1aH-9-c

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 7:58:15 PM

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I'm not repulsed or turned off by profile pictures that involve other women. Sending me a picture that involves another woman is kind of weird unless it involves something like rope work or needle play and we are discussing that topic. I like looking at women though. It is always nice if they add how great I would look doing 'x'

But I'm a freak like that. :P

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 7:59:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressRosalyn

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I can't help it, every time I see that photo or your sigline I think of this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUnGXTjmc9E&feature=PlayList&p=CE13263C8E123EEB&playnext=1&index=33

OMG! Thanks for sharing! My childhood did not include educational cartoons like this one...I can't imagine what else I may have missed.

As for me, I just figured that realwhiteknight needed a real-life model for a Bûche de Noël, which is why she's carrying a log. In making up my own explanation, I resolve the issue without troubling her for an explanation which she may not care to divulge.

Either way, I accept her for her beauty, wisdom and wit!

Lol..you missed a SHITLOAD of good TV in the 80s if that's when your childhood was, it was mine..the Brady Bunch...the Monkees...the A-Team, G I Joe..I could go on.

Unfortunately it's 100 degrees outside so I don't need a yule log...for a few more months at least :)

No really, my avatar is the Log Lady, from a TV show in the 90s called Twin Peaks. She's just hilarious, lonely, wise old crazy lady who knows the secrets of everything. It's not as creative as an anteater on drugs or Black Jesus or artfully done avatar, but you know...

Thanks for your acceptance, I really appreciate it!!

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 8:08:51 PM

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oops duplicate again

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 8:11:47 PM

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I asked a few last night, because im curious and i mostly got back, to show you what im into, if you cant do this pose or this thing im not interested.

I think we may have gotten to the heart of it. Take, take, take...don't seem like real 'doms' to me..suspiciously expecting the women to cater to them, what *he*'s into.. sounds more like narcissistic users to me.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 8:18:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: realwhiteknight

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

I asked a few last night, because im curious and i mostly got back, to show you what im into, if you cant do this pose or this thing im not interested.

I think we may have gotten to the heart of it. Take, take, take...don't seem like real 'doms' to me..suspiciously expecting the women to cater to them, what *he*'s into.. sounds more like narcissistic users to me.