Twoshoes
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Joined: 7/27/2010 Status: offline
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It's all cool guys. I'm abit new to these forums and I'll probably get bored and leave soon enough. However, I do learn from reading your posts. I've known about bdsm since i was 10, but didn't understand it. When I was younger I had thought subs were deficient people who lacked something or enjoyed being miserable. (Which triggers nothing but empathy from me.) After I realized I was wrong, it now find it quite useful to know what motivates submissives and what makes them happy. Additionally, reading about other dominant styles is useful in defining and explaining mine. It's pretty useful, since I thought for awhile there that all I was good for is wrecking vanilla relationships by wanting things to be on my terms* or having casual sex with dominant overtones. Which isn't that bad, but the realization that I can keep someone happy for more than a week at at time is ... awesome. *Some people fail to accept that I refuse to be a slave to a telephone and pick it up when I'm focused on something or someone. If that doesn't do it, the next attempt at pussy-whipping me usually does its job at exposing me as "selfish". I respond positively to well-presented requests, but not all the time. Also, I'm not a "wanker" nor am I looking to cyber. ( specific kinks don't do anything for me without the implication of control ;/). Other than that, I don't know what more you could want out of an audience. I'd share experiences or fantasies with you, but I somehow don't think you'd see it as appropriate. And the answer to most questions really is: "talk to your partner". So, thanks. I hope you feel warm inside. (Don't let it get to you too much, I'll still be offering presumptous commentary.)
< Message edited by Twoshoes -- 8/12/2010 10:52:48 AM >
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