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Charles6682 -> RE: Money Dommes (9/3/2010 8:25:56 PM)
I guess it's clear that this topic is nothing new.I didn't realize just how often the money domme topic actually get's brought up around here.I guess I have related money domme's to homeless guy's holding a sign on the street.The bum wouldn't be standing there on the corner begging for change everyday unless he was making money at it.People give the homeless their money and of course,the bum will keep standing there day after day.Same with money domme's,clearly it is the men on here who are constantly giving these money domme's money or else they wouldn't be on CM asking for money.Half of them probaly aren't women but could be anybody from anywhere.

SubPet715 -> RE: Money Dommes (9/3/2010 10:48:18 PM)
How dare someone want to be paid for something they do, it's almost as if they think we're living in some sort of trade based economy. Long and Short of it is these threads crop up due to frustration with the online community, keyword being online. The people who do not make an effort to go outside and meet like minded people, who have not bothered to attend a munch or even make a platonic friend who is in the same lifestyle as themselves. So the only sensible option to them is online, after weeding out the women they aren't compatible with, the women who they themselves do not like, and the findommes they are left with a small handful of potential new people they can meet. Do you think it wise to spend time complaining when that energy can be better spent exhibiting your intelligence to one of those domme in the small handful category.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/4/2010 10:08:40 AM)
Being paid is not the issue to me. Its the extent of the pay they demand that is the ISSUE. Hello i might be in the minority but $150 as some Dommes demand is just extortion in this economy, a) most subs dont have it and b) those who do give it cant afford it and are mentally unwell. i hope Dommes think about this, its not nice to put someone on the edge of poverty to have that on your conscience, it s a pretty nasty characteristic in Dommes kevin

MistressTonya2u -> RE: Money Dommes (9/6/2010 12:56:12 AM)
If you do not like Money Dommes, don't talk to them. Do not send them money. You do have the option of blocking people that you do not want to interact with, or you can just choose to ignore them.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Money Dommes (9/6/2010 1:28:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery Being paid is not the issue to me. Its the extent of the pay they demand that is the ISSUE. Hello i might be in the minority but $150 as some Dommes demand is just extortion in this economy, a) most subs dont have it and b) those who do give it cant afford it and are mentally unwell. i hope Dommes think about this, its not nice to put someone on the edge of poverty to have that on your conscience, it s a pretty nasty characteristic in Dommes kevin Kevin, they are not forcing you to pay and from your posts here, I would doubt if a pro would see you for even twice the price - which I understand is the going rate.... How does purchasing a service put you on the edge of poverty? I would say if I can't afford it you do not buy it, you know if you can't afford going on vacation you don't go, if you can't afford a night out, you stay at home, etc. Grown ups usually are smart enough to know if they can't afford something and then don't purchase it, it's called being a responsible adult.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Money Dommes (9/6/2010 1:29:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressTonya2u If you do not like Money Dommes, don't talk to them. Do not send them money. You do have the option of blocking people that you do not want to interact with, or you can just choose to ignore them. It's too easy for people who like to complain ;) But it seems that Kevin in general has a problem with dommes...

stef -> RE: Money Dommes (9/6/2010 1:41:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressTonya2u If you do not like Money Dommes, don't talk to them. Do not send them money. You do have the option of blocking people that you do not want to interact with, or you can just choose to ignore them. I see you've met our Kevin. He constantly whines how he's not able to afford pro doms because he's on the dole and believes he's entitled to lower prices than those greedy pros are charging. Unfortunately for him, he could be a millionaire and pros still wouldn't have anything to do with him because of his toxic attitude towards women. ~stef

jj292 -> RE: Money Dommes (9/6/2010 11:23:48 PM)
Money dommes are nothing new to the world. They are just a modern kinky twist on the old sugar daddy routine which has been around for ages. I really dont care. If a someone wants to spend thousands of dollars on a gold-digger, that's their business. As long as they made their money legit they can spend it however they want no matter how stupid it is. Frankly the best advice is that if a woman is demanding $200 for an hour of her time, she's not looking for a relationship......Same for the man willing to pay it.

MistressTonya2u -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 1:36:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: MistressTonya2u If you do not like Money Dommes, don't talk to them. Do not send them money. You do have the option of blocking people that you do not want to interact with, or you can just choose to ignore them. It's too easy for people who like to complain ;) But it seems that Kevin in general has a problem with dommes... People can bitch about Money Dommes until they are blue in the face, it is not going to change their existence. I see it as a valid kink, there is obviously a demand, or else they wouldn't be here. If it isn't your thing, then you don't get inolved with someone who is into it. I mean thats pretty damn simple in my eyes. If I do not want to interact with someone, I don't talk to them. Isn't that part of being an adult? If kevin has an issue with Dommes, thats just too bad. I don't think any of us, whether we are lifestyle or pro or fin, or whatever, are going anywhere.

MistressTonya2u -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 1:44:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef quote: ORIGINAL: MistressTonya2u If you do not like Money Dommes, don't talk to them. Do not send them money. You do have the option of blocking people that you do not want to interact with, or you can just choose to ignore them. I see you've met our Kevin. He constantly whines how he's not able to afford pro doms because he's on the dole and believes he's entitled to lower prices than those greedy pros are charging. Unfortunately for him, he could be a millionaire and pros still wouldn't have anything to do with him because of his toxic attitude towards women. ~stef A prime example of why I would never make a good Pro Domme, I do not want to have to deal with toxic people or the headache that comes with people trying to negotiate or bargain for a session.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 1:59:36 AM)
i dont have an issue with Dommes at all. i just think its sad that their clients are mainly those with low self esteem. But yeah there is a market there, thats unarguable kevin

MistressTonya2u -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 2:11:54 AM)
I disagree with you. I read our profile, kevin. you like no strings housework. How would you feel if someone said you had low self esteem or you would not do that? I just go with the your kink is your kink, and My kink is My kink theory. I am not going to argue about it though. you may never see the other side of the coin, and that is totally okay. I don't believe everyone has to agree on every issue, as long as we are all respectful to each other.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 4:10:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery i dont have an issue with Dommes at all. i just think its sad that their clients are mainly those with low self esteem. But yeah there is a market there, thats unarguable kevin Denial is not a river in Egypt... Kevin, you do have a posting history ... What makes you think that clients or subs in general have a low self esteem? Several of my friends regularly see pro dommes, none of them has a low self-esteem, most of them have demanding jobs, are single and travel a lot, they know that pursuing a life-style relationship would be almost impossible given their time constrains, since they are not freeloaders, they pay and I haven't heard them whining about it. You know I think people who whine and complain all the time have low self esteem - actually more like no self-respect. Almost every post on here is you complaining about a domme, yeah, the pros want money (I guess that is why they are professionals) and you can't afford it, the life-style dommes stay the hell away from you even you pester them. I think the post on the Mistress Board summed it up, where almost everybody said they would actively avoid munches if you were present. You might want to think about WHY...

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 4:15:17 AM)
There are also guys that can t afford it that are tributing thats fact and yes they are poor as a result as some Dommes have even boasted on their site that they have "slaves" begging for money on the streets to keep above water as a result of tributing them kevin

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 4:53:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery some Dommes have even boasted on their site that they have "slaves" begging for money on the streets to keep above water Don't believe everything you read, kevin.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 8:34:00 AM)
So some Dommes are downright liars , that s a wonderful way of trying to promote their validity to me. Now im much less likely to consider their services. Thank you Vaguely kevin

sirsholly -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 8:41:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery i dont have an issue with Dommes at all. i just think its sad that their clients are mainly those with low self esteem. But yeah there is a market there, thats unarguable kevin sayeth the one who is constantly whining that he cannot afford the rates of a pro-domme. Kevin...please alert us as to which side of your ass you are speaking from on which day of the week. Perhaps on of us can keep a chart...?

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 9:16:42 AM)
im not whining, i dont miss it not one bit. i actually think its cheap paying a Woman to entertain me, when i can get entertained by You guys for FREE every day of the week Thanks guys kevin

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 9:18:24 AM)
So my question to you is this why should i or any other guy pay $150 for an hour to a Woman which should be $30 in this current economy, hence the rip off, when we can get entertained for NOTHING here kevin

lobodomslavery -> RE: Money Dommes (9/7/2010 9:19:37 AM)
And then Dommes complain about fakes its laughable it really is LOWER YOUR RATES and YOUR CLIENTS WILL INCREASE kevin

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