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Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:30:45 PM

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I'm curious....I have read many subby/slave women profiles on here and they have been single for a loooong while....in YOUR opinion....why do you think that is?

As a sub/slave myself, I have my own persnal opinion...that is that they have too many restrictions....in my opinion they should be and act sub/slave....which means that they should expect their limits to be expanded instead of being a definate.

When I was single and made up my mind that I definately 'needed' and 'wanted' a Master....I did NOT have a list of HARD limits.....i always believed that limits with a compassionate, caring and loving Master can always be expanded...its all a part of the leanring curve to be a sub/slave.

Maybe I was naive.....BUT maybe I wasnt....I have now the most wonderful, loving, adoring, romantic, passionate Master one could EVER wish for and truth be told......it didnt take long for me to find him!....His profile said it in spades to me.......since then....I have read many, many Dominant profiles.....and so many men are genuine here!.....it makes me wonder if the subby women really have no idea what they want....I am on the side of the Dominant men...not the subby women who if they were GENUINELY looking for a Dominant man...they would do ALMOST ANYTHING for them.
(i wont bother replying to sub women....i am not interested in your opinions)

RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:36:23 PM

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If you have been single a long time, that just means you are picky and you dont want a half-assed relationship. You want to get it right the first time (or you didnt get it right the last time and you learned).

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:39:28 PM

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I've noticed some requests for nearly uncompatible personality traits within the same person.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:39:54 PM

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I think I have been single for a LOOOOONG time because nothing worth my submission has crept up on me and shown interest. Why the hell would my hard limits matter? And why would I expand on them when some of them are hard limits for VERY specific reasons?

What worked for you wont work for everyone. Keep that in mind.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:43:17 PM

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LOL....as I said in my opening.....I am NOT interested in other sub/slave answers!!
I have posted this question in "Ask A Master" for a reason!!!!!

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:45:45 PM

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I think it's a valid question for any gender, any orientation that is looking.

I have what I call (trademark pending) a 'cavernous attraction' problem. No, I'm not going to explain it, but it makes perfect sense to me.

Jeff

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:45:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: femasoslave
I am on the side of the Dominant men...

We're choosing up sides now?

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I have read many, many Dominant profiles.....and so many men are genuine here!...

And many are genuine assholes.

If submissive women are single due to some defect or another, then why are so many Dominant men still single?

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:47:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: femasoslave

LOL....as I said in my opening.....I am NOT interested in other sub/slave answers!!
I have posted this question in "Ask A Master" for a reason!!!!!

And as YOU can tell, I dont give a rats plague infested backside. I can post anywhere I want, and if the Mods have an issue with it, I am sure one of them will be more than happy to inform me as to where I can and can NOT post. Thank you very much.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:49:56 PM

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There are lots of reasons that women and men stay single for a long time. I have lots of friend who have been that way. Don't make a big deal of it.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:51:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: femasoslave
LOL....as I said in my opening.....I am NOT interested in other sub/slave answers!!
I have posted this question in "Ask A Master" for a reason!!!!!

This has got to be one of the most self serving threads Ive yet to read here.
(That was me giving you my unsolicited opinion)

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:55:20 PM

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YES....there are many assholes and I have been either been in contact or have met some assholes....BUT there are i would say many, many more men on CM than women......which means in percentage that women have the upperhand.....do many disagree with me??

Which means that it should be easier for a sub/slave woman who is GENUINE to find a Dominant......

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:58:52 PM

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lol this is one of the funniest threads I've read here in a long time.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 6:59:43 PM

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poise.....i gotta say...that i have read many, many of your thread and replies....you have made made me laugh and mafde me ponder on many occasions so if you wanna reply to my thread...i will find it an honour!!

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:01:43 PM

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oh dear!!!....you are just soooo perceptive to be able to read my mind!!!

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:02:56 PM

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I think what she is trying to convey is all you single submissives/slaves must be fake.
Why she is hoping all the dominant men rally around her theory is humorous, but better her than I.
(another unsolicited opinion)

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:05:22 PM

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yeah Because i have things i cant physically mentally or emotionally do..... thats why im single

Congrats on your find, Im single for almost a year and refuse to settle for a man who will lead me to unhappiness disappointment or discontent that will cause an end to the relationship, the only limits i have are ones that are going to cause irreparable harm or lasting harm that will cause years to fix.

Theres not a matter of people being genuine or true.. or real... its a matter of compatibility. A poly master will not be compatible to me, a man who wants to keep a girl in a cage, is not compatible with me. a man who wishes me to kneel or do anything with my knee, for the next year.. is not a guy for me. Doing any of these things will cause harm, for various reasons emotional mental and physical....

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:08:36 PM

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I agree wholeheartedly with KyttynTheMynx in the fact that my hard limits are there for a reason, and are NOT to expanded on or crossed for any reason. Some of my hard limits were crossed and I relished the crossing. Others are for health reasons. I'm a Diabetic. Therefore any and all needle play, tattoos, anything that involves any kind of cuts or punctures to my skin are hard limits. I also have Congestive Heart Failure, so any kind of electrical play is a hard limit. They will not be expanded or crossed, end of story. Master understands my health issues and has never, ever tried to get me to cross those hard limits. Anyone who wants a long term relationship with a submissive, will take into account the reasons behind the hard limits. If it is just a squick factor, yes they can be expanded on and crossed. Master always told me that if I didnt like something when we crossed a hard limit, it was ok. We wouldnt have to do it again. I'd already respected him long before He said that, but my respect for him grew tenfold when He told me that.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:16:28 PM

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~ Fast Reply ~
Per the forum rules, anyone can reply to any thread no matter which forum it is in.

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:18:54 PM

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Look guys....I was honestly trying to just to stir the pot here......I KNEW that many sub/slaves wouldnt be able to help themselves from replying.

EVERONE is entitled to their limits and I will NOT judge others on what their wants and desires are....only THEY can be their own judge, I wont judge them. Everyone is different.

I have my own limits (even if they are determined by my Master ((as I trust him with my life))...which is still always consensual).

Sub/Slaves....can it possibly hurt you to see what Masters/Dominants opinions are of my thread?

Take a break and stop taking it personally....and see what the Masters opinion are?

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RE: Question for MASTERS only! - 9/6/2010 7:22:16 PM

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Look guys....I was honestly trying to just to stir the pot here.....

Yeah, you really didn't need to actually *say* that. It was kind of obvious.

littlewonder might find this style of posting funny, but I find it distasteful.

If you're ever single for a long period of your life, OP, remember this thread. You won't feel good about it.

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