porcelaine
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ORIGINAL: Orchid62 Hello dears, I haven't been a member very long, yet in the last few days I've getting a lot of rude and impatient emails. No, my feelings are not hurt, just wondering, does a male sub get so much rejection he is always ready to lash out? Is it built in you psych to revolt when you are not getting your way? Or is it, and the this is my main concern, that nice people bring the worst out of you? Greetings Orchid, Welcome to the site. In response to your question, no, I don't believe anyone has to be rude. It is my opinion that we each make a decision when confronted with a situation that may compel us to respond in a less than flattering fashion. However, whether we choose to do so is largely dependent on ones personal makeup and presence of mind at the time. While I don't excuse boorish behavior, I recognize mistakes occur and ideas can be poorly articulated. As with most things it's up to the recipient's interpretation. Misinterpretations take place and it's impossible to gauge anyone's mind through this medium. However, it is my belief that we're each accountable for how we conduct ourselves and should remain true to our character irregardless of how the other party behaves. Responding in kind is merely an example of poor self-control and a missed opportunity to display kindness to someone that may be sorely in need of such. In the end there's a right way, wrong way, and the one you can live with. Choose wisely. Namaste, ~porcelaine
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