CynthiaWVirginia
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Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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(Sorry for continued thread highjack but I don*t see OP, and this seems to be the last issue to discuss before this thread falls into disuse.) samboct, all we can tell you is of our own experience here. If you believe it is mathmatically impossible then something is being left out of the equasion. Let me put it this way. Women in one group (like fish in a barrel), with men all around with pea shooters and spit balls. Does each man say, "Hey dude, there are three of us for every one female, so let's be fair and each of us shoot off only three spitballs, trying to hit a target." Some men choose to go after one or a few, while others dig out their gatling gun style spitball shooter and try to hit them all at least once. Some of us feel covered in spitballs. Men are more than just math formulas of what should logically happen. The mention LadyPact made of that thread where VaguelyCurious helped SubPet715 to see what women go through at BDSM sites...I will also say this is the truth. In the first months that I was here I was sent enough unsolicited penis pix to repaper my bedroom. My bedroom is quite large, btw. I still remember one incident where a dear male friend of mine hurt my feelings...your disbelief on this subject reminds me of him. I was new, was told by friends that I was a sub and this other friend, who was like a brother to me, was Dom, so of course I turned to him to ask what I was supposed to do. I had never heard of the block feature, and it was...complicated. Someone I had been chatting with only in the public part of the Lobby chatroom said he was sending me a letter in my mailbox and swore it was just a pic of his face. I had a holy shiite moment when I opened the letter and saw a closeup of of his hips straddling his motorcycle instead...cock proudly out and stiff with a can of soda pop held alongside it for comparison. Yep, it was about the same thickness, so the man was trying to impress me. <rolls eyes> I felt disrespected, lied to, somehow threatened because of my PTSD and panic attacks, generally upset and so I turned to my friend to calm down. (If a co-worker of your sister or daughter or mother did this, maybe you would understand better how I felt in that moment. Blindsided. Horror. Soiled.) My brother type friend got hostile with me instead...because I had to be a big liar; cuz that fellow Dom was a close friend of his and his friend would NEVER do something like that. Many of your fellow men are not keeping to their daily quota of contacting only three females. Many of your fellow men are not reading profiles and journal entries and leaving thoughtful letters. The spam filter...was necessary. It was for a reason. It identifies mass mailings. Therefore, some people are sending out mass mailings. At this moment in my mailbox I have three long, copy and paste jobs to answer. Nothing in these letters shows any indication that one word of my profile was read...other than I am female and a target. I am a serious gamer obsessed with playing Pokemon...if one man even mentioned this in passing, or googled it to see what the heck I'm talking about, I would probably get dizzy and pass out. Have you taken a poll of how many males/females visit CM chatrooms? When I could access them, I was usually in one for 6 or more hours per day. I had private chat going on with at least 12 per hour. If most chats lasted for only 15 minutes instead of for an hour or more...some faces were the same, but most of those I chatted with were first time chats. Each woman would complain about getting hit with private messages that were not asked for and agreed upon in the room first. Often I've had a sentence meant for one person be highjacked into a new PM that popped up. If someone is talking with friends, getting demands for chats...and when politely declining being repaid by verbal abuse...it gets old. I even went off once and one of the mods said, "CYNTHIA!!!" and I had a small scolding follow. I had taken the drama into the main room, addressing the pest by username and telling them to leave me the frack alone already. Shortly afterward, I was taught how to block someone, lol. A am not lying. None of these other ladies here are lying about this either. I am sorry if you don't believe us...if your disbelief changed how things are...I would be grateful to you for feeling this way and encourage your disbelief.
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