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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:08:29 AM

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In another thread, Charles is wondering why conservatives are on collarme. I'm wondering why steve is on collarme.? Personally I couldn't care less about his idiotic opinion on BDSM..

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:09:33 AM

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That's fine, however, theres a lot of people on here very young, some in their teens even, they should be taught the truth about the reasons they are attracted to bdsm, I can uderstand it an older person who maybe doesn't feel it's worth the effort to change, but people can be helped out of this way of life and it's important they should knwo that. Any person in their teens or 20's on here is in need of help and should be given it if they want it, i would genuinely fear for them.

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All I'm saying is that for most of us, that's not really how we want it.

That's the first and only sensible thing you've said since you started this thread. This way of living is alternative for a reason. It's not the norm. Most people couldn't or wouldn't want to hack it. That is perfectly okay. There are wonderful vanilla relationships for them to live happily ever after in. And frighteningly, some of us (yes, the messed up perverts) actually function healthily in BOTH.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:10:36 AM

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Steve

Actually, I think you really want to submit to a woman but are a bit angry and confused. You don't think that a submissive can be a healthy man.

It's okay darlin, many have felt this way and later found their peace.

Don't worry, Steve. There are lots of submissives in denial. *grins at Lockit and scampers off*

I see you are still trying to get me to switch it up! lol If you really believe I will take that spanking... why do you scamper off? lol

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:10:41 AM

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Me either, but I've been know to bask in EuDeTroll on occasion. It's just such a singular scent that I can't help myself.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:11:12 AM

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Okay then 'MisterMonster', i've had a read of your profile and it says you live for humiliation, you love sesory deprevation and speech restrictions.

Do you really think this is a healthy way to live? I think we both know the answer to that, your only 20, do you really think you we're born to enjoy these things? Of course not, if you truly we're a strong and healthy male, you wouldnt feel the need to control and humiliate, you'd attract women naturally and certainly wouldn't be on here.

Good luck buddy

His profile, like everyone else's on here, states that he ENJOYS certain things, not that he NEEDS them. BIG difference.

On his profile it says lives for at least one of them

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:11:18 AM

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Oh, it was too late for me as a kid, man. I knew pretty much that I wanted to boss sluts around, I just didn't have any kind of name for it.

btw, I'm a love puppet now? Ok, but fisting's a hard limit, man.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:12:17 AM

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And you just lost all the sensibility points. There is nothing to be saved from except in your own mind.

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That's fine, however, theres a lot of people on here very young, some in their teens even, they should be taught the truth about the reasons they are attracted to bdsm, I can uderstand it an older person who maybe doesn't feel it's worth the effort to change, but people can be helped out of this way of life and it's important they should knwo that. Any person in their teens or 20's on here is in need of help and should be given it if they want it, i would genuinely fear for them.

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All I'm saying is that for most of us, that's not really how we want it.

That's the first and only sensible thing you've said since you started this thread. This way of living is alternative for a reason. It's not the norm. Most people couldn't or wouldn't want to hack it. That is perfectly okay. There are wonderful vanilla relationships for them to live happily ever after in. And frighteningly, some of us (yes, the messed up perverts) actually function healthily in BOTH.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:12:27 AM

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Oh, it was too late for me as a kid, man. I knew pretty much that I wanted to boss sluts around, I just didn't have any kind of name for it.

btw, I'm a love puppet now? Ok, but fisting's a hard limit, man.

Le sigh. You are not as much fun as you could be! But you can still be my love puppet!

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:13:07 AM

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People can only be helped if they want to, sadly for many they are in denial.

good luck lovingpet

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And you just lost all the sensibility points. There is nothing to be saved from except in your own mind.

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That's fine, however, theres a lot of people on here very young, some in their teens even, they should be taught the truth about the reasons they are attracted to bdsm, I can uderstand it an older person who maybe doesn't feel it's worth the effort to change, but people can be helped out of this way of life and it's important they should knwo that. Any person in their teens or 20's on here is in need of help and should be given it if they want it, i would genuinely fear for them.

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All I'm saying is that for most of us, that's not really how we want it.

That's the first and only sensible thing you've said since you started this thread. This way of living is alternative for a reason. It's not the norm. Most people couldn't or wouldn't want to hack it. That is perfectly okay. There are wonderful vanilla relationships for them to live happily ever after in. And frighteningly, some of us (yes, the messed up perverts) actually function healthily in BOTH.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:14:07 AM

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Okay then 'MisterMonster', i've had a read of your profile and it says you live for humiliation, you love sesory deprevation and speech restrictions.

Do you really think this is a healthy way to live? I think we both know the answer to that, your only 20, do you really think you we're born to enjoy these things? Of course not, if you truly we're a strong and healthy male, you wouldnt feel the need to control and humiliate, you'd attract women naturally and certainly wouldn't be on here.

Good luck buddy

His profile, like everyone else's on here, states that he ENJOYS certain things, not that he NEEDS them. BIG difference.

[qoute] On his profile it says lives for at least one of them

edited because I gave up on the quote feature

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:15:14 AM

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So, your whole intention of coming to a BDSM site was to save people in some kind of Don Quixote style manner? Have fun with that.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:16:55 AM

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That's fine, however, theres a lot of people on here very young, some in their teens even, they should be taught the truth about the reasons they are attracted to bdsm, I can uderstand it an older person who maybe doesn't feel it's worth the effort to change, but people can be helped out of this way of life and it's important they should knwo that. Any person in their teens or 20's on here is in need of help and should be given it if they want it, i would genuinely fear for them.

Dear dear delusional Steve. You wear quite a few hats for such a young man of 27.
Counselor, judge, ignorant troll. What tragic events in your life led you here?

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:17:13 AM

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Steve

Actually, I think you really want to submit to a woman but are a bit angry and confused. You don't think that a submissive can be a healthy man.

It's okay darlin, many have felt this way and later found their peace.

Don't worry, Steve. There are lots of submissives in denial. *grins at Lockit and scampers off*

I see you are still trying to get me to switch it up! lol If you really believe I will take that spanking... why do you scamper off? lol

Because I have other mischief to get into while you simmer on it. *giggle*

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:17:44 AM

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Here to learn not save, i've already had 3 different pm's saying they agree with me.

I'm not saying I can help people, but i can point them in the right direction of course.

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So, your whole intention of coming to a BDSM site was to save people in some kind of Don Quixote style manner? Have fun with that.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:18:41 AM

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Yeah, but help to what? A better life? Life ends. You're going to die, no matter what you do. You're going to die.

And rot in a box, or become a really cold pile of ashes. So, knowing that immortality is impossible(unless you buy into cult mentalities involving books about zombie gods), you have a few options: Do you want to live?

Or do you want to exist?

It's possible for me to survive my entire life without feeding my disgusting, depraved carnal desires, my fucked up mental-ness what have you. Sure. I can survive on water, the bare minerals and nutrients, without any stimulation. Entirely fucking possible, baby.

But that isn't life. That's just existing. I wanna live, man. Fuckin' live! How about you, slappy?

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:18:47 AM

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Many strong independent women secretly desire to be tamed by a strong man. As much as feminism tries it can;t reverse nature.

I am not making assumptions but you can also be one of those nasty cold women who has no respect for men but thinks she is strong and independent. Most strong men with self respect stay away from those types. To me the strongest women I know are also the nicest and kindest. They are strong because they are secure enough in themselves to not have to bring themselves up by bringing men down.

As for the tragic events, i'm doing a phd in pshychology, i guess that is tragic for some people but I enjoy it.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:19:56 AM

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Think back on many recent threads... how many of the men came in saying how wrong bdsm were and how awful those damaged dominant women were. Getting a few people coming to mind? They were submissive men in a real struggle and angry. There was something very wrong with what we did and yet each had a profile looking for it. So this one has started this profile today... that doesn't mean he hasn't been here before and was looking.

A dominant that doesn't understand dominance and thinks it could be abusive may struggle, but how many of them do you see struggling on the boards and trying hard to prove something? I say Steve is a submissive in denial. I'd stake a pinky finger on it. lol

Steve, give it up... you can't change anyone or anything. Thinking we are this way because we don't have the energy or will power to change... is as faulty as your other concepts. You haven't a clue what we are each like. You are assuming a great deal, just as I am assuming you are a submissive in denial. (But I would bet money I am correct about you.)

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:21:54 AM

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Here to learn not save, i've already had 3 different pm's saying they agree with me.

Of course you have. Nice to see the time honored usenet tradition of claiming "people support me in email" is still being carried on here.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:22:10 AM

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Funny, I have people telling me I secretely desire to dominate men.

But the only truth I see is someone needs to get a life instead of trolling for kicks.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 11:22:50 AM

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