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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Hello there, and welcome to the forums.

You know... and this may sound a little "out there" or even a bit snarky (but not intenitonally so)... my immediate reaction to your question was this...

If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to -

1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her
2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her
3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want
4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up
5) Entertain her
6) Fetch books and magazines
7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible

Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him.....

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ORIGINAL: favesclava

then take your hat of to Master Fredpbear. that's exactly what He did when i was sick with thyroid infection. even little gifts to make His slave smile. holding me gently while i rested. meals served in bed. making sure i took medication and fluids as orderered. no sex , no play. i didnt forget for one second i was His slave, His property. if anything i felt it even more strongly.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: favesclava

then take your hat of to Master Fredpbear. that's exactly what He did when i was sick with thyroid infection. even little gifts to make His slave smile. holding me gently while i rested. meals served in bed. making sure i took medication and fluids as orderered. no sex , no play. i didnt forget for one second i was His slave, His property. if anything i felt it even more strongly.

I know this thread is about done but I had to chime in here with a similar experience. When I broke both of my arms over this last summer my Dom had to take care of my needs in unprecedented ways. I had to have everything done for me and I never felt so owned in my life. He took care of what was his extremely well and in doing that impressed it upon my brain that I belonged to him. I don't think I will ever question that again- not that I was, but it's just lodged in there permanently now.

I could only do exactly what he wanted when he wanted it because I had to have his help to do it- I literally couldn't get a drink, eat, go to the bathroom, brush my teeth or hair, get dressed, wash, scratch an itch, go through a closed door, drive, clean, take my meds, or even get up out of bed if I was fully reclined without help. It was a very bonding and unusual experience.

I will also say that I've have given anything during that time for a sense of normalcy, I think the OP of this thread is on the right track in trying to find some things he can ask of his partner. Even though I was in severe pain and highly medicated at times, I still wanted to just have my 'old' life back if only for a few seconds by replying "Yes sir" when he told me to be still while he brushed my hair out and braided it for me, and when he'd ask me to promise not to forget to take my next medication at the proper time when he was gone- he'd set it out on the desk where I could get it with my mouth and I could get a drink from the water he'd leave with a straw in it.

He was stern but loving, it helped keep the balance of things in place for us until I got better. In no way was his being stern ever a hindrance, at that time it was an expression of how much he cared. I still felt free to literally cry on his shoulder when I needed to for whatever reason, pain, frustration, etc. He wasn't thrilled about that since he had to be the one to wipe my eyes, get a tissue, and hold it at my nose for me to blow it when it happened, but he never complained, just let me do it if that's what was needed.

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ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy


My slave is currently under doctor's orders to rest and stay in bed as much as possible for the next few weeks. She can't perform many (if any) of her normal duties - housework etc.

Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for training and tasks I can do with her over the next few weeks which will keep her mind appropriately focussed and also alleviate the inevitable boredom and frustration of being unable to perform her normal tasks and duties?

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ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy

Hi there.
My slave is currently under doctor's orders to rest and stay in bed as much as possible for the next few weeks. She can't perform many (if any) of her normal duties - housework etc. She is also not allowed any vaginal penetration and only gentle anal penetration.

Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for training and tasks I can do with her over the next few weeks which will keep her mind appropriately focussed and also alleviate the inevitable boredom and frustration of being unable to perform her normal tasks and duties?

Many thanks.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Hello there, and welcome to the forums.

You know... and this may sound a little "out there" or even a bit snarky (but not intenitonally so)... my immediate reaction to your question was this...

If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to -

1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her
2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her
3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want
4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up
5) Entertain her
6) Fetch books and magazines
7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible

Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him.....

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Hello there, and welcome to the forums.

You know... and this may sound a little "out there" or even a bit snarky (but not intenitonally so)... my immediate reaction to your question was this...

If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to -

1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her
2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her
3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want
4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up
5) Entertain her
6) Fetch books and magazines
7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible

Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him.....

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to -

1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her
2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her
3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want
4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up
5) Entertain her
6) Fetch books and magazines
7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

You could respect the fact that shes on doctor ordered bedrest, put the Ds asside for that time and care for her as if shes a human being not just a serving tool....

Ya know like people try to do...when people they love and care for are sick....

You could get her books, and or read to her make her soup... ya know be in control of the situation by not causing her harm.