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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 5:39:08 PM

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This is devolving somewhat, so I'm going to leave it as an 'agree to disagree' while it's still civilized. Thanks for an engaging discussion.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:22:01 PM

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35 emails in one day? I find that hard to believe. Sometimes I get over 200 emails in an hour or two. Quite often, when I go to clear out the new message notices at the end of the day, I have over 700 to remove. Mind you, they are not all unsolicited, but, a great many are. Are you just pulling numbers out of your arse? What photo did you use? I want to use that one! It would be so much more peaceful around here, as, apparently, despite what many ladies do love to stop by and tell me, I'm just not unattractive enough, yet.

Ah well, there is always tomorrow!

Let's see, 700 messages a day divided by 13 different profiles equals around 54 messages a day. Still a healthy number of messages though. :)

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:22:47 PM

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I commented on your outfit, not your general physical appearance. It continually amazes me how hostile and prone to personal attacks the people on this message board are... I've truly never seen anything like it. You wear a catwoman outfit and crawl toward the camera with a come hither look in your eyes, and yet men are psychos because they dare to find it sexually provocative? Absurd.

It's a sex site, ladies. PERIOD. The site is built around enabling people to showcase their sexual proclivities. That's the commonality that's brought us all together. We're all perverts. If that offends you (*pictures you all dropping your teaspoons full of grey poupon as your frilly napkins flutter to the table and your mouths form shocked little o's of distaste*), go elsewhere. You get what you pay for. (Or don't, as the case may be).

And yes, I'm gonna go ahead and stick to my guns, and say that replying to my arguments (which you don't happen to agree with) by getting angry and saying "Yeah... well... you're FAT!" is about as low-class as it gets. I've had a lot of contentious discussions on a lot of message boards in my day, and never once have I had someone resort to insulting my weight in order to win an argument. Even Tea Partiers and Glenn Beck types don't stoop that low. Congrats!

Oh so you decide I am crawling and I have a "come hither look in my eyes" - both cases wishful thinking, no crawling (get your eyesight checked, btw diabetes often affects the eyes) and sorry no I do not mean for you to find me sexually provocative, in fact that is the last thing I mean. So you can try to comment on my profile picture with what you think you want to see, but I can't comment on the fact that from your profile picture you seem to be close to morbidly obese and distinctively unattractive to me? Because that would be unfair? Because you don't like it if somebody does the same to you? Tell you what, if I would have said I got a fetish for fat guys and I find your multiple chins irresistible, you wouldn't be offended, I'm sure there is a woman somewhere who feels that way, all you gotta do is to go and find her.

NO, this is not a sex site, despite the fact that some guys who can't get laid like to think so, it's not your sexual supermarket drive by, as much as that might disappoint you. It doesn't mean that you can approach every woman with your sexual desires and expect it will be well received. Take a reality pill.

So what? You comment on how we look (according to what you want to see) and you get all butt hurt if you get a comment on your looks and then scream and complain? How low is that? Hypocritical much? You didn't force me to wear leather and I didn't force food down your neck, are you going to blame me for being repulsed by you? Just like you blame women that they're not free for the taking here because you decided to label it a "sex site"? Tell you what, I don't think you're going to get laid here, deal with it or don't. Women don't like to be seen as a piece of flesh, not here and usually not anywhere, some women (very few) might fall for it if you're exceptionally hot, you think you are?

Oh hell no, it's the fault of all the women who aren't happy about advances from creeps sending them their masturbation fantasies, how dare they not being delighted about the attention they get? I guess coming from your point of view it's understandable, it possibly would not only make your day, it would make your decade, well tough shit that we're not quite that desperate.

And you know, you using the word class is not pot - kettle, that's cauldron - kettle.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:27:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Oh so you decide I am crawling and I have a "come hither look in my eyes" -

More like 'I'm going to pounce on you and devour you" look to me.

But perhaps that's just a projection.

I understand that this happens, this projection thing.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:39:21 PM

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But if I make a comment about your avatar, will you be all butt hurt if I say you have really good abs? Remember that we have been informed that this is a sex site, so we have to treat you as a sexual object, since your picture is obviously provocative and inviting all sorts of sexual fantasies... Do they have to come from women though?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:50:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

But if I make a comment about your avatar, will you be all butt hurt if I say you have really good abs? Remember that we have been informed that this is a sex site, so we have to treat you as a sexual object, since your picture is obviously provocative and inviting all sorts of sexual fantasies... Do they have to come from women though?

Pfft. Need you ask? I'm a complete tart.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:53:37 PM

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I have to get my mobile phone to check if "bitch" or "slut" is the correct way to address you when I command you to carry that suitcase...

Btw how does September look for you? I'm getting a friend to visit in late August, though if I do show you her picture you'll possibly busy drooling for a few weeks...

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:58:09 PM

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September looks peachy! By that time, I should be loaded and looking for a good break. (Though not of any my bones, you understand . . .)

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/6/2011 6:59:44 PM

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No worries, I feed the dogs before you show up

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 6:21:47 AM

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So through all the comments and posts and replies the one thought that remains a constant, ever increasing each year is all these farce.net sights are waning towards 100% total BS.. so where do the bona fide go to meet others in the life style and not just the weekend warriors or curios self labeled life stylers. . .

Here is a question - which should probably be posted in a new thread so it can be banned and deleted before there are five pages of prior replies and it does not upset the web gods at Farce.net- What gives with ALLL these femdoms, so powerful I COMMAND THEE, blah blah blah who can only show a picture of their fat feet? "Maybe they do not want their private life to be known due to work or family", "Maybe they have received death threats and don't want their face on the web" , My experience on it.. They are what Rodney Dangerfield based one of his one liners on - Two men broke into her apartment, she yelled rape. They said NOOOOO!!!

and then the few that do appear at least marginally bona fide that stick up for the very non bona fide.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 6:48:52 AM

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So through all the comments and posts and replies the one thought that remains a constant, ever increasing each year is all these farce.net sights are waning towards 100% total BS.. so where do the bona fide go to meet others in the life style and not just the weekend warriors or curios self labeled life stylers. . .

Here is a question - which should probably be posted in a new thread so it can be banned and deleted before there are five pages of prior replies and it does not upset the web gods at Farce.net- What gives with ALLL these femdoms, so powerful I COMMAND THEE, blah blah blah who can only show a picture of their fat feet? "Maybe they do not want their private life to be known due to work or family", "Maybe they have received death threats and don't want their face on the web" , My experience on it.. They are what Rodney Dangerfield based one of his one liners on - Two men broke into her apartment, she yelled rape. They said NOOOOO!!!

and then the few that do appear at least marginally bona fide that stick up for the very non bona fide.

If you're asking what I think you're asking, the answer is to go out into the community (munches, play groups) and meet people.

If you're having problems meeting bona fide kinksters, turn off the computer now. and go do that. But get rid of your attitude first. And why should you, as a Dom, care about femDommes showing foot pics?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 7:01:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
It's a leather dress with a corset, I thought that was obvious?

It doesn't look like a dress to me either. And it does look like you're crawling on the floor because your hands and knees are touching the floor.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 7:44:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: TonyB79

Very clever insults, ladies. What was I thinking? OF COURSE a bunch of cultured women like yourselves should be able to come on a fetish-themed site, post provocative pics, and create profiles specifically tailored to advertise your sexual proclivities, and not expect to be contacted by men who are interested in - GASP! - sex.

I hasten to add... I'm not saying these guys' behavior is appropriate or excusable. I just wonder what kind of attention you were honestly expecting to attract...

Oh, I don't know...maybe some women expect the attention of someone who sends a normal email introducing oneself and putting the brain into play before one's cock.

You see, despite your lack of understanding about what women want, being on a kink site does not remove the need for utilizing some finesse in the getting to know you process.

Those who throw around the "for fuck's sake you are on a SEX SITE" nonsense, are living in a dream world where only your thoughts matter, not the thoughts of those you seek. And that is not productive, as I am sure you and many others already know.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 10:40:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
It's a leather dress with a corset, I thought that was obvious?

It doesn't look like a dress to me either. And it does look like you're crawling on the floor because your hands and knees are touching the floor.

Well, I am terribly sorry if my picture doesn't look dominant enough, but hands and knees touching the floor always equals crawling? Hmmm, maybe some of us don't buy into stereotypes, and something that is cut like a dress just happens to be a dress, if it looks like one to you or not, though feel free to argue with the dress, but if it makes you feel better, of course you are free to call it "a top that has a skirt attached to it" in case you have an aversion to call a dress a dress?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 11:53:46 AM

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Well, I am terribly sorry if my picture doesn't look dominant enough

Er, where did Des say that? Tigers crawl before they pounce, don't they? There's prickly you are!

I used to think it was a catsuit a bit like Olivia Newton-John's in 'Grease'. But I'm more than satisfied at discovering what it really is.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/7/2011 12:08:50 PM

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As far as I remember she wore trousers she had to be sewn into (H told me that, makes you wonder why he researched it...)

It's actually a calf long leather dress worn with boots and a corset, here's another angle of it, hope that doesn't make me look to submissive

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/14/2011 5:47:07 PM

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If you're asking what I think you're asking, the answer is to go out into the community (munches, play groups) and meet people.

I agree Steven. How ever years ago web based social networking sights were a marginally bona fide ways of meeting other kinksters.

I only save my 'attitude' for on line banter.

....... and I am not a dom (in what ever sense that label refers to here) but I must check something to appease the web gods.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/14/2011 6:27:16 PM

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LOL... I remember this guy. It looks like a reunion time around here. Hang on, the bots are about to take over... or at least that was his last claim. Remember... the mods were bots with some major agenda and he had special powers of finding all this information we were ignorant of? lol It was rather funny.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/14/2011 6:44:27 PM

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I remember the avatar, but was that the name? And late in the season, too, school holidays afre nearly over!

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/14/2011 6:48:12 PM

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No, I think there was a dom profile with another picture and this one as secondary.

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