LadyPact
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It's early for Me, but I'm going to give this a go. Before - That all toys have been cleaned and/or sterilized properly before being used on the person that you are about to play with. Negotiating the upcoming scene, including what is going to happen during after care. Enuring the area is safe for you to play in to include any equipment that you might be using. Have a basic knowledge of human anatomy, such as where the kidneys are located. During - Ensuring that no harm comes to the person that you are playing with. This includes things like being watchful that they have proper circulation when being bound, checking their physical/mental status during play, and adhering to any slow or safe words that they might use. Don't play above your abilities. If you're not ready to play with a human target with that whip you bought last week, leave it in the bag. After - Fulfill any after care that was negotiated prior to the scene. Keep an eye on them if they are the type to be in heavy sub space to the point where they lose motor skills. Get them to drink at least some water because they may not even know that they are thirsty, but most play will dehydrate folks. When possible, check in with them the next day in some fashion and let them know that you're available if they experience any drop at a later point. Aside from the above, in My opinion, a top doesn't have a responsibility in the bottom's day to day life. There isn't necessarily a relationship implied between a top and a bottom. Those role labels are scene/play terms for activities that folks chose to engage in with each other. Some top/bottom scenarios are little more than meet and beat. I am not the Dominant of My play partners and there is no dynamic established. That's a whole different ball game. I do consider Myself a friend of the folks that I play with regularly, so I'll default to the responsibilities of what I consider being a good friend. I probably missed some stuff that will come to Me after I have more caffeine this morning.
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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie. Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread
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