As far as the age thing goes, I have always enjoyed men who are a decade younger than I, they tend to be more adventurous, so if that has been your experience with younger women, I can see it. From my point of view though.. I find the younger men are more adventurous, not because they are younger but because they view me as someone with experience who probably has done (A,B,orC), even though I might not hsve until I met them. I tend to be adventurous, if my partner is equally so.
In terms of caution though.. I might appear to be cautious to someone if I turn them down. This is not caution, it is preference. The younger guys recognize I am not going to fall for any BS very rapidly upon speaking to them. The older men tend to be offended if I call them on their shit.
Caution is not fear of aventure. Sometimes it is being aware of reality vs fantasy.
< Message edited by Missokyst -- 3/25/2011 10:09:14 AM >
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