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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 4/11/2011 1:12:56 PM   
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I'm open minded about it.

I tend to look for common interests, this is more important to me.

If I had to choose, I'd say 39/40 - I'm 37. But, anywhere from 20-50 is fine.

Outside of interests, I tend to look for a warm heart, a curious nature and a woman who sees life as full of possibilities as opposed to a struggle.

What I look for isn't conditioned by age.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 4/15/2011 11:06:27 AM   
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I'm open minded about it.

I tend to look for common interests, this is more important to me.

If I had to choose, I'd say 39/40 - I'm 37. But, anywhere from 20-50 is fine.

Outside of interests, I tend to look for a warm heart, a curious nature and a woman who sees life as full of possibilities as opposed to a struggle.

What I look for isn't conditioned by age.


NG,

Now those comments I find to be well reasoned and I can certainly agree with your position.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 4/15/2011 11:17:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

quote:

I'm open minded about it.

I tend to look for common interests, this is more important to me.

If I had to choose, I'd say 39/40 - I'm 37. But, anywhere from 20-50 is fine.

Outside of interests, I tend to look for a warm heart, a curious nature and a woman who sees life as full of possibilities as opposed to a struggle.

What I look for isn't conditioned by age.


NG,

Now those comments I find to be well reasoned and I can certainly agree with your position.

CP


CP, I've had the good fortune to spend some time with early '20s women, and I've had a right old time with them.

In my experience, the idea that you have to be a certain age to 'get it' is a myth.

It's either in you or it's not, regardless of age, in my experience.


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 4/15/2011 1:22:57 PM   
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The Man has the perfect answer.

"If she is alive, can still get wet, can still mover her ass and can suck like you, she IS within my age range."

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/13/2012 9:05:05 PM   
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She is right, I have know her for many years and she has not aged

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 6:45:20 AM   
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I tend to get along better with people who are closer to my age (either a bit younger or a bit older), but I have to say, even when I was much younger, I was NEVER attracted to men who were much older than me. The biggest age difference from my relationships is probably a man 8 years older than me - and that didn't last very long, whereas I've dated men much younger and had a blast. So what is my point? I think this is all very personal to individual people. The young women who enjoy dating men old enough to be their fathers or grandfathers, can have them. I'm certainly not interested in that kind of age gap. So, to a large extent, everyone self-selects for what they want. I know plenty of men who do not enjoy dating much younger. I know women who won't date much older. So everyone just choose what works for you provided it is legal, and provided you are not taking advantage of someone's naiveté (because I think that is an uncool thing to do generally in life). If the only way someone can find someone to submit to one is to prey on the naive, then the issue is not just about age or tightness of body, but really about tricking someone. And that is not cool. Period.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 7:07:36 AM   
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p.s. I just want to add that with the obesity-epidemic in the U.S. it is simply NOT true that a woman who is in her late teens or twenties is necessarily in better shape that a woman in her 30s or older. (That may have been the case in the past, but I would argue that that is no longer necessarily true). Also, to put it bluntly, tightness of other body parts has a lot to do with childbirth, how many children one has had, and what one does after children to help one's body spring back into shape (e.g., breastfeeding, exercise, kegels, etc.) But again, a woman in her 30s or 40s who has never had children is probably going to be in better shape "internally" than someone in their 20s who has already had three children.

Sooooo, at the end of the day, if we acknowledge that men are by and large very visual, then I would agree that they want an attractive, youthful-looking, "tighter" woman - but honestly, does anyone think that ALL 20-something year olds fit that description?? And that in converse, no women in her 30s or older would fit that description??

Age, in and of itself, does not determine fitness level or physical attractiveness for any given man. And I would argue the same for women. Everything is ultimately on a case-by-case basis. We are, at the end of day, each unique. When a man 20 years older than me approaches me, I know that part of the attraction, maybe even the ONLY attraction, is my relative youth. However, when a man closer to my age approaches me, I know and understand that he actually finds me, overall, interesting, or he would be approaching the woman who in her 20s (who can offer the one thing that I cannot). As a woman, there is no question in my mind that I would prefer to be with someone who wants ME, not just my relative "youth". And as one man on this thread has already acknowledged, he can be lazier with a younger woman - i.e., doesn't have to work as hard. Also, many men use their relative financial status to simply purchase favor with a younger woman. Maybe that's why even when I was young, I was never attracted to men who were significantly older than me. I believed then, and still believe, that I am worth some effort and that I cannot be bought. My being submissive has nothing to do with my feelings of self-worth.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 8:32:08 AM   
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Also, many men use their relative financial status to simply purchase favor with a younger woman


Yes. It is an advantage we have over 20-40 year olds, generally, as well as greater level of stability and a calmer outlook and sense of responsibility and more practiced and knowledgeable love making techniques and when we work out we tend to even look better than 20 year old men and the Vette and house is actually paid for or damn near. So, why would we foolishly hide any advantage we have or feel bad about using them and are the younger women crazy for wanting a man with these advantages over the younger man who drops them like a rock at any time and is too self focused to even remember her name? Well, I can only say for sure that the hunting is good and the younger women I have known, if you understand what I mean by that, have been 29 to 42 and there are a lot of them out there and they do not care if a man is older by 15 to 20 years if the man has what it takes. So, if you are a woman oler than 42 quit your bitching and get to the gym and get some platforms and a new wardrobe and attitude as older men love all women who have a young woman's zest for life and beauty.

P.S. This means you won't have a lot of time for CM forums unless you take your smartphone with you on the workouts.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 8:58:06 AM   
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This thread is almost a year old!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 8:58:56 AM   
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Well, let's flush this fuckin toilet then.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 8:59:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Arturas
when we work out we tend to even look better than 20 year old men


Quoted 'cause I wish it were true.


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 9:52:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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Well, I can only say for sure that the hunting is good and the younger women I have known, if you understand what I mean by that, have been 29 to 42 and there are a lot of them out there and they do not care if a man is older by 15 to 20 years if the man has what it takes.



Well, I defined "young" in my post as women in their 20s. If you are dating women who are 29 to 42, they would be best described as women in their 30s or older, so I applaud you for dating the "older" women....:) And again, in my first post, I said this was a matter of personal preference for people. I'm glad there are women in their 30s who are happy dating men 20 years older. I am not one of them. I'm quite happy dating the 30 something year old men and women who I encounter. Works for me. And I'm glad dating 30 something year olds works for you, too.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/14/2012 10:48:02 AM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arturas
when we work out we tend to even look better than 20 year old men


Quoted 'cause I wish it were true.



Of course Steven, we both know it's really attitude that makes the big difference and that attitude is steeped in confidence earned in the school of hard knocks and growing up with great male role models who taught us well and we did not learn and earn our manhood any other way. Many younger men lack these advantages which leads many woman to wonder as Bonnie Tyler does in the song "Where have all the good men gone and where are all the gods?.


Now, if there are any of you ladies who feel the same way Bonnie does and the same way women have felt in their hearts since forwever, simply let the heros know you are still there for them and appreciate them by responding with a one liner this way! "I NEED A HERO".

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 1/18/2012 10:56:34 AM   
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I'm 52. I have a submissive who is 20 and a slave who is 44. My preferred demographic is 35+ in great physical and mental shape. There is nothing sexier than a fine woman in her forties who is sexual adventurous and stable in life.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/18/2012 11:08:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

This thread is almost a year old!


So what?  Some of us Doms prefer threads that are wiser and more mature than those that just sprung up.


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 1/18/2012 6:45:39 PM   
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THAT is a fetish than i have, i love men a lot older than me, at least 20 years older, why? perhaps becuase i have a daddy issue but for me its more exitingm i love oldmen and they love youngers women because they can make girls be like they want, its easier to dominate young girls with no background

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/19/2012 9:06:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

This thread is almost a year old!


Yes it is. It makes me wonder what the real reason for greatlions post was.


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 1/20/2012 6:36:54 AM   
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Fucking newbs opening year old threads. 

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 1/20/2012 7:07:29 AM   
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We prefer them at least 30, for the reason of life experience. We are not all about the sex aspect of Our lives, and most under 30 expect and or demand that aspect from the get go, whether they claim slave or sub. We too also look at the overall picture of the person. We want a person not a doormat.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 1/20/2012 12:34:51 PM   
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I prefer between 20 and 40, because I'll be 24 this year. The reason I stop it at 40 is because I'm comfortable there, but I'm not against going a little over it to around 45. I know older Doms are usually far more experienced, and I have no interest in playing with a starter Dom, but at the same time, I don't want Him too much older than me. I think 15 to 20 years older is plenty.

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