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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 5:37:56 PM

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You're so much nicer than I am.

Unlike LadyHib, I don't think that what you said is in any way contrary to what I said. You just said it in a kinder and gentler fashion. Well done!

Did I? Thanks, Roch! It's quite something to me that you should consider me nicer than yourself on any given subject.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 5:45:05 PM

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I had a handsome repast of baby dolphins' brains the other day. I'm sadly disappointed that you were unable to join me for this rare delight.

I would totally eat that, except I'd probably be jumped by Greenpeace in between extracting said brains and researching historical recipes for them.

I've already packed up my extensive historical food library, but I do recall several classic treatments for dolphin meat from different cultures that would be quite fascinating to attempt. The problem is, they start with, "First, harpoon one dolphin". Logistical issues aside, pissing off federal wildlife authorities is not on my to-do list. Alas, I will never taste that much-vaunted dish of ortolans, though I have cooked my way through most of Apicius and Brillat-Savarin that does not involve endangered species.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 5:55:20 PM

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I had a handsome repast of baby dolphins' brains the other day. I'm sadly disappointed that you were unable to join me for this rare delight.

I would totally eat that, except I'd probably be jumped by Greenpeace in between extracting said brains and researching historical recipes for them.

I've already packed up my extensive historical food library, but I do recall several classic treatments for dolphin meat from different cultures that would be quite fascinating to attempt. The problem is, they start with, "First, harpoon one dolphin". Logistical issues aside, pissing off federal wildlife authorities is not on my to-do list. Alas, I will never taste that much-vaunted dish of ortolans, though I have cooked my way through most of Apicius and Brillat-Savarin that does not involve endangered species.

For Christ's sake, Lady N, would you please stop?

To the FBI, CIA and other farty US government agents reading this - Lady N Trainer is *joking*. Go and find someone else to zero in on and justify your grossly inflated wage packets.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 5:59:54 PM

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For Christ's sake, Lady N, would you please stop?

Who was the one who suggested baby dolphin brains to eat? LOL

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 6:01:20 PM

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I know I'm kind of a one-note song about all this, but y'all KNOW I know. It may be a negligible possibility, but to the one that it happens to it is devastating. There are foolish people who will believe nonsense. Those same people won't take a moment to wonder, "Hey how does so and so KNOW that he's on that website?" It takes only one small minded, malicious person to destroy another person's credibility. I've been on the other end of that. There is a member of CM who is rubbing her hands with glee because she single-handedly did this to me. She played into someone's fears while I was far away and could not defend myself.

It only takes one.

I suppose it could be so, and I guess my situation is different...I don't have much to lose, but I've always had a pic of myself up on my profile. I don't give a damn who knows I am into this, it really doesn't matter to me one bit. Its the way I like my sex...rough, painful, with women a lot younger than me. Most of my friends know it (some wonder how the Hell I manage it given my looks), My ex and daughter are aware of my proclivities without being privy to the gory details. I've spoken openly about it with coworkers...its not something I am ashamed of or feel any need to hide.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 6:15:40 PM

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I'm not ashamed. I don't hide. I've come out. But there is a difference between your daughter "knowing" and someone putting something in their face. There are people and places where folks can lose custody of their children, can lose their jobs, can be deported or jailed. For some people the boss or the police or the parents of the children you work with would villify and destroy you.

Not all of the people on here are as lucky as you are, Arp.

ETA: Why don't you give your ex and your daughter the gory details? Are you ashamed? Why do you hide them? When you answer that, I think you may find the understanding of my point of view.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/23/2011 6:42:19 PM

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My ex and daughter are aware of my proclivities without being privy to the gory details. I've spoken openly about it with coworkers...its not something I am ashamed of or feel any need to hide.

Absolutely right that you're out in the open about all that, Arpig. You should feel the same way about your beard, too. Bugger everyone else's opinions about what's right and acceptable in this world. Good man.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 12:50:42 AM

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Wow. When I turned off my computer last night I was on page 2, since then, 3 more pages! I couldn't read every response in detail but when I find more time I definately will.

The common theme I picked up though is from the comment I made about the general public percieving me as a pervert for being here.

I don't think everyone here is a pervert. But it would be naive to save that no one here is. The reality is the outside stigma assosciated with the BDSM community is that of kinky SEX. Sex being the key word. Unfortunately, people are afraid of what they don't understand. I certainly don't view everyone here as a pervert and I'm sure not everyone outside of BDSM would view this page or lifestyle as perverse. Even if the vast majority of the universe wouldn't see this scene as a perverted sex industry then I still wouldn't show my photo in assosciation with it because theres the off chance some will..

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 1:26:28 AM

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...like I said. If you're that paranoid I can't see anyone with any self respect wanting to be with you.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 1:30:54 AM

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I don't get it? I mean, everyone wants to be loved for what's 'inside' right? So why do they all require a pic? I can't show a pic of myself here, because, it would outweigh the consequences on my vanilla life. So, what do I do?

Just show them a nice cock pic.

They love that.

Trust me, I know these things.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 1:37:55 AM

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...like I said. If you're that paranoid I can't see anyone with any self respect wanting to be with you.

That's a bit harsh, you and I don't show our faces completely, nor do a few others on here, due to privacy concerns, I think the OP is a bit paranoid about it, but you know rather safe than sorry, we don't really know his environment and rumors can mess with people's jobs and all that. I understand not having a picture on the profile where you can be easily identified but if you are ready to meet somebody, you want to know what the other person looks like or get a feel for him/her... Unless of course you do the "Wear a red rose in your mouth and swing from the chandelier" thing, personally I always found that a bit too "out" for public places such as restaurants...

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 1:38:13 AM

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You need to have a nice cock for that

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 1:49:25 AM

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I don't think everyone here is a pervert.

Well, there's your problem, right there! {Kidding.} But, seriously, we are pervs. Again, just kidding. {No, I'm not}.
Seriously, I think there is a slight chance you may be judging people a little too harsh, and a little too quick. You've been a member for 3.5 months and have 54 posts. {That isn't a staggering amount of time or input to already feel dejected.}
Too, {don't take this badly}, but when several of your 54 total posts are used to complain about the results you're not getting in the 3 months you've been here.. it seems rather counterproductive to your goal.
Calm down, maintain an open mind, don't obsess over finding "The Almighty One", be interactive in the forums, show your personality, allow people to get to know you, and maybe you'll be successful.
Honestly, some people on C.M. could not possibly care any less, than they do right now, about your appearance. {Not me, mind you, because I'm shallow.} But there are nice people are here who don't hinge on physical appearance. Best of luck.

E.T.A. ~ BTW, it's a bit sexist to make the assumption that "all women are obsessed with pics."

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:10:02 AM

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Woe is me :D

No well, I'm complaining because I'm longing for something I haven't found and I've been looking on and off here for a while. Sometimes under another profile a long time ago.
I kind of, come and go in flusters. I might search for a bit, message some women etc. Poke around here and so forth, then something happens in my life where I will have to put this to one side for a month maybe? Maybe a year? Then I come back again still searching.

And yes we are all Pervs, lets just admit it :D no no.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:14:24 AM

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Tell you what, if I'd be still be looking and somebody I got on well with and I would like to meet him, then he'd disappear for up to a year, I also would lose interest...

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:15:13 AM

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You need to have a nice cock for that

Mine is magnificent.

I'm thoroughly impressed with it, even though some women I know don't agree.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:16:51 AM

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You need to have a nice cock for that

Mine is magnificent.

I'm thoroughly impressed with it, even though some women I know don't agree.

I am sure they only use the block and delete features because they are overwhelmed by the magnificence you allow them to behold...

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:24:54 AM

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How else am I going to masturbate to the image in my mind of him bound, gagged, helpless and being violated if I don't know what he looks like?

Then can we have some photos of you masturbating?

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:31:26 AM

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I might search for a bit ... Poke around ... put this to one side ... then come back ... still searching.

Let us suppose, then have a question, shall we?
Let's say you discovered that a diamond would make your life complete, enrich you, fulfill you, and bring you joy. Now, let's say someone points you to an acre of land and guarantees, beyond any doubt, that buried out there is a diamond the size of that thor fist you're sporting in your profile pic.
My question ~ Would you dig a bit, give up, wander away {for a month or a year} then wander back to poke around again? Or would you become dedicated and tenacious .. with the single goal of finding that diamond?
Moral of the story = you get out what you put in.

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/24/2011 2:31:30 AM

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You need to have a nice cock for that

Mine is magnificent.

I'm thoroughly impressed with it, even though some women I know don't agree.

I am sure they only use the block and delete features because they are overwhelmed by the magnificence you allow them to behold...

If only you could see the wonder it truly is it would take your breath away.

Pics are available for a small tribute.

My time isn't free, if you want to see my package you have to contribute.

I'll be posting my Amazon wish list soon.

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