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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/25/2011 3:54:24 AM

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Lady Constanze - I am in Australia, yes, but that is part of the problem. It's, hard to explain but in a sense being in Australia is part of the problem. I'm actually hoping to go to America next year for a month or two. (Not for anything related to this). And yeah you're right. Paranoid isn't attractive. I'm not paranoid. I'm just cautious. As I've said I'll give the photo out, just not to everyone, openly. The problem I'm finding is that too many people kind of expect everyone to be as open as they are. Paranoia might be unnatractive, but, being an open book can be also.

It's just about contacting like minded people to try and make progress in this part of my life. On any level. Just like, if I like to progress my career I contact individuals in similar areas of my profession.
But even then, initially I would be cautious.

TheRose4U: I think any man who worships the dollar as much as a fortune 500 executive does would probably worship his penis more than a Mistress. Greedy people will tell you anything to get what they want. Infact, it's probably exactly how they became fortune 500 executives. By telling the boss exactly what he wants to hear.

Dude, come to Korea.... I'll show you problems with meeting people!

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/25/2011 3:59:25 AM

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Which side? North or South :P

Actually one day I'd really love to go to Korea. I used to study Tae Kwon Do as a child so would love to go. I can only count to about 6 in Korean though :P, Korea, Japan, Hong Kong, I'd love it!

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/25/2011 4:06:10 AM

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You know that Korean has more than one counting system... right? When you read time - you use one set of numbers for the hours and a different set for the minutes. (freaky, huh?)

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RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? - 5/25/2011 8:47:27 AM

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Simple solution, if you want good conversation then just put up posts that are good, I have contacted people on the other side a few times because I had a question about a post, wanted to discuss something they have said, or just to compliment them, never bothered me if they had a picture or not, several of the people I talk to regularly (not just on here, we also are in contact via email or we talk on the phone) have no picture up, doesn't bother me, but with most we exchanged pics, vanilla ones, just like you do with friends, nothing compromising about it...

Now you're in Oz, most of us are in the US or Europe - do you think that having a picture of your face would be so terrible? You know if we would have talked for months and we'd be interested to see who we are talking to. What could happen to you? Nobody would jump on a plane and start plastering your picture all over the place with the header "Kinky" - much more likely that a colleague who didn't get promoted and carries a grudge or a girl you might have dumped does something like that as misguided retaliation and the most likely would make up something much worse.

It's alright to be careful but being paranoid is not very attractive.

This is a great suggestion and one I would echo. If you want good conversation with kinky people who are going to welcome a back and forth but not necessarily demand a picture up front, then increase your visibility by posting here and getting to know people (or on similar message boards). There are many posters on CM that I feel I "know" from a personality standpoint and enjoy their commentary, but I don't think I've ever seen a picture of them. Also, there have been some "love connections" via message boards, this one included, where two people hit it off and begin to enjoy private conversations and one thing leads to another.

If you demonstrate patience, I think it will also pay off because no one can accuse you of being a here today, gone tomorrow sub, if you have a credible history. I am extremely cautious about who I send personal pictures to, or share personal information with, but no one can give me a hard time about it and accuse me of just being elusive because I plan to 'vanish' for no reason. I've been posting here long enough, and on the internet in general since 1995; I think it's fairly established that I'm not going anywhere.

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