RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with normal relationships with Vanilla relationships?

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tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with normal relationships with Vanilla relationships? (5/29/2011 4:18:11 PM)
There's no quote: It's about you. I explained my position in the op. I get you want to read more into it to justify yourselves. The fact is you just don't get it. So suck it up buttercup and accept that people have different needs but we don't judge others for being different. Most of us try not to at least. Get that we really don't give a shit for the most part and never will with people who act like stubborn little kids and throw a hissy fit or contradict themselves. Grow up, be less judgmental. Live your life as you want, we'll live ours like we want. And never the twain shall meet. There's no more to be said to you, it's a waste of breath and I'm having enough problems breathing today without trying to convince you of something you'll never understand and don't care to. 'Nuff said.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with normal relationships with Vanilla relationships? (5/29/2011 4:20:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear There's no quote: It's about you. I explained my position in the op. I get you want to read more into it to justify yourselves. The fact is you just don't get it. So suck it up buttercup and accept that people have different needs but we don't judge others for being different. Most of us try at least. Grow up, be less judgmental. Live your life as you want, we'll live ours like we want. There's no more to be said to you, it's a waste of breath and I'm having enough problems breathing today without trying to convince you of something you'll never understand and don't care to. 'Nuff said. I am not judgemental, I am asking a question. I am sorry to hear your life is that bad, I certainly don't like the idea of anyone feeling as low as you state you are and wish you well. I'm not joking over that.

masterlink65 -> RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with normal relationships with Vanilla relationships? (5/30/2011 5:19:09 PM)
i dont migrate from relationship to relationship, so i wouldnt know. but i dont think so, i think you may have some confusion

akisha -> RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with normal relationships with Vanilla relationships? (5/30/2011 6:58:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave I find I migrate to bdsm after vanilla relationships because I desire structure for a while with less emotion. Is this what BDSM is? Personally, I have found I am less emotionally involved with my partner when I was in a non d/s relationship. Probably because I chose men I knew I wouldn't get attached to. It's much easier for me to remain withdrawn with in a non d/s relationship, because i didn't need to connect on a deeper level with them. I used to run away to a vanilla relationship when I was still fighting myself and felt overwhelmed in a d/s relationship.

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